Okay, here's the deal... I've been friends with this guy (let's call him J) since september and lately we've been spending alot of time together and the other day we kissed. He told me that he really liked me but that he wasn't over his ex yet (they broke up like a month ago) but that he liked me too much to screw things up. Anyway, this happened the day before yesterday and ever since we've only texted but he hasn't asked me to hang out or anything which he usually does. And I don't really want to be clingy so I don't really know what to do.. What's going on?!
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Posted 26 February 2009 - 10:13 AM
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Posted 26 February 2009 - 10:16 AM
Rebound......move on.
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Posted 26 February 2009 - 10:18 AM
Maybe he's feeling awkward after kissing you and confessing that he likes you.
This guy I liked once confessed to me and after that, he seemed to avoid me. But he was a bit on the shy side so I had to be the one that broke the ice between us. So maybe it'll help if you text/call him to hang out instead of waiting for him. He might be thinking that you don't feel comfortable around him anymore and that you need your space or something.
This guy I liked once confessed to me and after that, he seemed to avoid me. But he was a bit on the shy side so I had to be the one that broke the ice between us. So maybe it'll help if you text/call him to hang out instead of waiting for him. He might be thinking that you don't feel comfortable around him anymore and that you need your space or something.
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Posted 26 February 2009 - 10:24 AM
MAYBE
after kissing and confessing you
he doubted if he did the ryt thing or not...
and regret what happened..
he was just overwelmed by his feelings at that moment..
or
he's just shy
after kissing and confessing you
he doubted if he did the ryt thing or not...
and regret what happened..
he was just overwelmed by his feelings at that moment..
or
he's just shy
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Posted 26 February 2009 - 12:20 PM
Ok well J sounds like he is taking a breather to gather what he feels, he's confused about his feelings for his x and for you and maybe he likes you too much just to take you on a ride with his own emotional journey! give it time im sure it will work out the way you want.
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Posted 26 February 2009 - 12:22 PM
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Posted 26 February 2009 - 03:25 PM
You may be a rebound.
He's tryna' get over his ex, but at the same time, he's slightly hoping on the fact that maybe she'll prance back to him, explaining why he hasn't made a move on to ask you out. Or maybe he really is tryna' get over his ex, and he doesn't want to pull you in too far, afraid that you'll just become a rebound. He's tryna' collect his thoughts. If he continues this behavior for more than 3-4 months, than he's just using you, sweety. D:
He's tryna' get over his ex, but at the same time, he's slightly hoping on the fact that maybe she'll prance back to him, explaining why he hasn't made a move on to ask you out. Or maybe he really is tryna' get over his ex, and he doesn't want to pull you in too far, afraid that you'll just become a rebound. He's tryna' collect his thoughts. If he continues this behavior for more than 3-4 months, than he's just using you, sweety. D:
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