[sushi_azn]

We've been workin together for couple of months together( since august). to me, he is a really good person. i never thought that i would get attracted to him, but i realize it even more when time goes by. few weeks ago, he got a gf. that's when i really realized that i like him a lot. somehow, i felt uncomfortable. at parties and stuff, he used to take great care of me, but now i'd happy if he just come up and have a decent conversation with us ( me +other co-workers). i know i can't be like this when he has a gf, but i can't help it . At karaokes and stuff, i dedicate every songs that i sing to him, but he never notices he just goofs around and makes noices when i sing ( hehe so cute). The other day, his gf came up to us when she was drunk and said "im sorry. i really like u guys, but i dont let him talk to u". I was little upset, but i somehow understood her. I never wanna interfere them, so i just look at him from distance (((..i dont know what to do

[Stolen_waters]

then just leave them alone. He has a gf now, so control yourself.

[my_kangin]

I guess I can understand your feelings, but if he has a girlfriend... I don't think there's anything you can do. I don't wanna sound mean or anything, but You Snooze, You Lose. You can't expect someone to give up their girlfriend just because you like them, you know? And you can't steal this guy away from his girlfriend. I'm sorry, I'm probably making you feel worse ):

[quyennypoo]

i agree with all the people above...your just going to have to try and move on...he's not the only one out there! you'll meet other people but until then just be his good friend.

Goodluck

[RedSunsFC]

Delete.

[cherri82crystal]

Yea. He has a girlfriend, there's nothing you can do. you should backoff of him,,if u were in her shoes u wuldn't like her talking to him and stuff right :/

[iamzen]

just move on save your self the drama. i mean he's taken now. if you guys stay as friends thats cool, but if anything more i wouldn't try it though. in the end your just gona be hurting yourself...

[thua]

That sucks, but it really is too late now.

I'm just glad that you ACTUALLY like him though. lol. Not just right after he got a gf, because I had a friend who kept prying into my crush's identity when I told him I liked somebody. He started acting all flirtatious only after I told him that I had a crush on somebody because he thought that I liked him beforehand (never did). It was like he was trying to "maintain" my (non-existent) like for him, and he felt threatened after I started liking somebody.

I absolutely hate people like that, but you seem like you genuinely like him.

I guess all you can do now is support him (if you can handle the fact that he can't be yours atm).

[sushi_azn]

That sucks, but it really is too late now.

I'm just glad that you ACTUALLY like him though. lol. Not just right after he got a gf, because I had a friend who kept prying into my crush's identity when I told him I liked somebody. He started acting all flirtatious only after I told him that I had a crush on somebody because he thought that I liked him beforehand (never did). It was like he was trying to "maintain" my (non-existent) like for him, and he felt threatened after I started liking somebody.

I absolutely hate people like that, but you seem like you genuinely like him.

I guess all you can do now is support him (if you can handle the fact that he can't be yours atm).

thank you so much. yea, i will support him as a good friend. i am not the type to interfere between people cause i never want to be interfered if i was with someone. I'm just happy that he is happy/

[kinein]

We've been workin together for couple of months together( since august). to me, he is a really good person. i never thought that i would get attracted to him, but i realize it even more when time goes by. few weeks ago, he got a gf. that's when i really realized that i like him a lot. somehow, i felt uncomfortable. at parties and stuff, he used to take great care of me, but now i'd happy if he just come up and have a decent conversation with us ( me +other co-workers). i know i can't be like this when he has a gf, but i can't help it . At karaokes and stuff, i dedicate every songs that i sing to him, but he never notices he just goofs around and makes noices when i sing ( hehe so cute). The other day, his gf came up to us when she was drunk and said "im sorry. i really like u guys, but i dont let him talk to u". I was little upset, but i somehow understood her. I never wanna interfere them, so i just look at him from distance (((..i dont know what to do

move on unless you want to share him with her and talk to her about it lol ~ pining away for someone you can't have is very destructive - TIME TO GET OUT AND MEET NEW PEOPLE.

[woei]

just leave them alone and wish them happiness...he already got a gf..
its time to move on....find someone to crush on =)