[Maos]

okay, so there's this guy i like right now, and i just found out he slept with around 15 different women, most of whom are prostitutes. He used to be in the army for a few years in Asia, so there were only boys in the army, no girls. And if they're single with no gf, then obviously they have no choice but to find prostitutes for sex, and they would especially want sex since there were no girls at all in the army. I understand, but still, they're prostitutes T_T. Also he told me it's common for people in the army to go find prostitutes on their days off from the army. Is that true? and also, would you mind if your bf had multiple (around 15) sexual encounters with prostitutes in the past? I'm not so sure if i should go for him anymore :S

[~ BunnyliciouS ~]

sure, if he's been tested negative for STDs.

[Duey]

I hope he use protection! If he did not than NO

[mintcracker]

well...it really depends on how much you like him...AND if he's clean lol


Guys get hornier easier, so if they're deprived, I guess getting hookers is the only way. =/


15 is alot, but if he's a decent guy and is clean, why not? If you think he's a cool enough guy.

[iyseal]

That's a really tough question.... because I would think that a person who must resort to going to prostitutes for sex has something emotionally unstable about them. Honestly, is it that hard to get with a girl and have sex with them? Using a prostitute is not only degrading, but also really dangerous, for both parties.

I don't think I would accept him.

Edit:
I just read back over that he was in the army and there were no girls? He couldn't go the one-man tug-a-war for a few months? Not every man in the army hires prostitutes. He is lying to you if he said that.

[Seraphyx]

well...it really depends on how much you like him...AND if he's clean lol


Guys get hornier easier, so if they're deprived, I guess getting hookers is the only way. =/


15 is alot, but if he's a decent guy and is clean, why not? If you think he's a cool enough guy.

Guys can get horny easier, but girls have bigger libidos. The female sex drive is greater than their male counterparts.

That's a really tough question.... because I would think that a person who must resort to going to prostitutes for sex has something emotionally unstable about them. Honestly, is it that hard to get with a girl and have sex with them? Using a prostitute is not only degrading, but also really dangerous, for both parties.

I don't think I would accept him.

Edit:
I just read back over that he was in the army and there were no girls? He couldn't go the one-man tug-a-war for a few months? Not every man in the army hires prostitutes. He is lying to you if he said that.

One man tug of war gets so lonely, that's why we hire "better" company. Sure not every man in the army hires prostitutes, but I'm sure there are a good number. Don't be so judgmental.

[insanelyCRAZY]

too many factors to consider.
on the surface. no. just because i dont like man-wh*res.
but then..if i really really like the guy..then just maybe..
but you also have to consider what it would be like if you were with him, would he bring you down? can you tolerate that?
STDs? =/
your family?

[Seraphyx]

Does it really matter if you like the guy and he's clean?

[iyseal]

One man tug of war gets so lonely, that's why we hire "better" company. Sure not every man in the army hires prostitutes, but I'm sure there are a good number. Don't be so judgmental.

I'm not being judgmental. Plus, she should consider the fact that prostitution itself is illegal. If he has to commit a crime because he can't contain himself, he needs to relearn some basic human skills.

[thisismyv]

I'm not being judgmental. Plus, she should consider the fact that prostitution itself is illegal. If he has to commit a crime because he can't contain himself, he needs to relearn some basic human skills.

That's a good point. I understand that he was in the army, but for how long that he has to seek out 15 women??

Well, the point is, he slept with 15 women! Are you okay knowing that you indirectly banged 15 prostitutes who in turn had sex with jeebus knows how many other men/women(?) If you're okay with that, then maybe try taking a chance. That's how I feel, anyway..

Oh, and make sure he's tested. >_<

[vesp]

I personally say no no no.

He could have numerous STDs. Even if he doesn't, it's kinda disturbing to me.
15! All prostitutes! And prostitutes sleep with many more guys (duh haha)...so it's like he slept with all those guys + the girls. So that's a lot of people.

That's something Brad Henning told our grade when he came in for his sex talk

[ShadowMax76]

prostitutes aren't that bad. x_X' they're fun people that know their stuff. lol. it's their job, after all.
perhaps a lil twisted, though.

i remember reading somewhere it's practically the essence of relationships. guy gets sex. woman gets money. lol. x_x' some reason i don't find it funny anymore.

_but eh. if i knew a mate that was like that [and he was a good guy_ >.>' some guys out there are just....wrong], and found a girl he liked.. i'd honestly be happy for him, but be a little worried for the gf.

[Inspector]

That's gross. I would never be able to sleep with a prostitute. Thinking about how many guys been there before me, turns me off.

[koneee]

Nah I wouldn't accept. Shows that he has no self-control and is desperate, don't you think?
And I wouldn't care if he's tested negative for STD's it's just a turn-off to know that he's slept with so many women.

[&rea]

I probably wouldn't accept a guy who has slept with 15 of his past girlfriends, let alone 15 prostitutes...

[j'adoreAZNpop]

i personally would never accept such a guy.
if you dont care about his past, go for it. but make sure he doesnt have some deadly disease...

[dietPill]

15 O_O Holy! I can understand the whole army situation... I just don't understand why it's so high of a number. It'd make me question the health of his sexuality a bit, you know?
And as for acceptance, it depends how much I like him. And getting some tests done would be a good idea = =

[_dax_]

Would you hire an employee with a bad resume?

The magic eight ball says: outlook not so good

[xXJaeJoongSarangXx]

thats better than he rape some helpless asian wiminz

[ajlee613]

dont ask us if it is alright with you...

even if the entire world said it was not ok, if you dont mind u shouldn't let it affect ur actions and ur pursuit of happiness.


in elementry school my friend thought this girl was cute he liked her a lot but coz other kids made fun of her he decided not to play with her or talk with her.

he looked back on it and he said he was sickend by how weak minded and shallow that was.

dont listen to the other kids. make up ur mind urself. its not their lives, its not my life its your life.

its ok to ask ppl, but either way, u should not use a survay on soompie to create important choices in ur life. the past is gone. ppl always change. dont hold someone to past actions. simply work hard to create better future actions.