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How Do You Handle A Mean Boy/girl?

#1 User is offline   Judith 

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Posted 06 March 2009 - 04:01 AM

If there is a boy or girl that is mean to you by no reason. He/ her say mean comments when you talk. Look at you in a disgusted way. Ignore you otherwise. Is forced to say hi when you are with someone she/he is friend with.

How do you handle this kind of people?

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#2 User is offline   hallokitty 

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Posted 06 March 2009 - 04:25 AM

You do the mature thing, be nice even if they not nice.
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Posted 06 March 2009 - 04:38 AM

Yea, just be mature, ignore his stupid comments... Don't try to provoke him, some people are just like that.
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Posted 06 March 2009 - 04:49 AM

These type of people normally are the very insecured, maybe she/he is jealous of you or something, we don't know... All I am saying is, do you really want befriend him/her? If you do, don't completely ignore the person, it may come across as if you hate her. If i were you, i would disregard all his/her ill treatment and show him/her that I sincerely want to be on good terms with him/her. Just say a "Hi" to him/her even if there are no changes in behaviour, pesist on!! thats what i'll do. haha. he/she will turn around eventually.
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#5 User is offline   Regrets 

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Posted 06 March 2009 - 05:18 AM

ignore him.
Don't be a hfldjafl to him back.
Just keep a distance.
If only things were different </3.
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Posted 06 March 2009 - 08:48 AM

I guess by being more mean.haha
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#7 User is offline   R.P 

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Posted 06 March 2009 - 08:55 AM

Ignore.
Give them a taste of their own medicine.

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Posted 06 March 2009 - 09:29 AM

i don't waste my energy on those types of people.

just ignore.
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#9 User is offline   EMPORIO 

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Posted 06 March 2009 - 10:01 AM

I usually get them back so badly they regret the day they met me.

ie: if a girl get another girl to kick her ass and cut off her hair while she is crying and bleeding on the concrete same for guys but they usually don't have long hair I can just chop off, and I do it myself.
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Posted 06 March 2009 - 10:15 AM

QUOTE (starmusicmoe @ Mar 6 2009, 11:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I guess by being more mean.haha


hahaha i like this
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#11 User is offline   Amanda Plz 

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Posted 06 March 2009 - 10:18 AM

Be all "Pinkberry, please" then ignore them.

Ignoring people is the john teshing best. They get all bent out of shape. I loves it.
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Posted 06 March 2009 - 10:30 AM


Avoid & ignore them.
If they touch me, hit them.

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#13 User is offline   hippiehop 

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Posted 06 March 2009 - 10:39 AM

I would ignore his ass. ph34r.gif ph34r.gif ph34r.gif ph34r.gif
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Posted 06 March 2009 - 11:40 AM

i would handle this in a mature way.
i'd be nice to the person, just to show
politeness, so they can see that what
they are doing is absolutely wrong
and that they shouldnt behave in this
way, like setting a role model, you see.
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Posted 06 March 2009 - 11:53 AM

QUOTE (hallokitty @ Mar 6 2009, 04:25 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You do the mature thing, be nice even if they not nice.



^ This.

Be nice and kind to him/her and he will just make himself look more and more foolish by cont. to be mean. The nice you are to him and the meaner he is to you, will make it very apparent to other people of the way he is acting.

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Posted 06 March 2009 - 11:57 AM

i just ignore and avoid them.
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#17 User is offline   dietPill 

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Posted 06 March 2009 - 03:17 PM

Ignoring it completely is the best way. I have difficulty not reacting, though = = normally I'm like: smile.gif ... :6 to them. Or I take it as sarcasm and say something else to get a weirder look.
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Posted 06 March 2009 - 06:04 PM

stiffen up and act like a prince , stiff upper lip lingo of the royal and all those niceties jus' to piss 'em off .

_ o-0' but eh . normally i just act like a misunderstood character from a comedy anime.

him/her: >[
D:
him/her: "freak"
...-burst into tears-

him/her: -throws water at-
-flicks hair out of eyes dramatically in the sunlight- LOL

_ nah... people don't mess with me . x_X' no idea. helps when you're the guy that everyone says "he's done nothing to you!" _
p.s- there's always a reason.
insecurity [strike before struck], prejudice [rumors, stereotypes and appearance], etc.
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Posted 06 March 2009 - 06:29 PM

if it rarely happens, or happens like a few days outta the month like pms for a gal, then it could be over looked.
if its a part of their character.. and they're just mean.. i'd just try to avoid them
if they cant be avoided, yeah i'll have to say ignore em. mean ppl usually like attention for the mean things they do so any kinda response will encourage them.
no point in letting more neg energy into ur life
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Posted 08 March 2009 - 07:34 PM

You ignore it and dont talk to them >_> theres some guy at my school thats like that. He throws insults at me whenever the heck he gets the chance and it pisses me off. I swear i know he doesn't like me (well he has a reason.. since i sort of rejected him) but yeah i really cant do anything about it besides keeping quiet and ignoring him =P
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