[XxDarkFaithxX]

Have anyone of you ever said sorry to your s/o's even though it wasn't your fault, but yet you felt like you needed to say im sorry. Just because you are the one usually at fault?

I do it occassionally cause i'm usually am the one that messes up but do you think its right to apologies for something you haven't done? is it healthy? does it help the relationship in anyways? and have you been in such a position before?

[sallyen]

I do it sometimes too! but only when I sense that the other person is hurt and really needs to hear the words :s
I don't think it's healthy at all. The people around you will just expect you to always be the one who apologizes first.

[MNLV27]

Well if it's totally necessary to say it then say it, then just talk it out with your s/o so they see how it wasn't totally your fault.
I tend to do it often too, just because I'm the one that often messes up, I guess it's like a habit but then now, if it's not my fault then I do talk it out with him until he understands.

[kireisnowtenshi]

well if you honestly didnt think you didnt anything wrong I would never apologize.

First evaluate the situation. See if there were things that both you and the other party could have done differently and that both of you could have messed up on. Thats the first thing you should do.

Then from there if you really feel the need to apologize do it with that. Say what you did wrong and what the other party did wrong and then both of you will go from there. Its all about a give and take situation. You may have to be the one to give before you can receieve what's really owed to you...you know?

But never lower yourself to some else's expectations if you honestly think you didnt do anything wrong. Its not healthy and nooo...it doesnt help the relationship...thats probably why me and my ex arent speaking right now. lol...We both think were're in the right...and Im not about to apologize for doing what I believe in...but I do have to admit that I was a lil wrong just as he was...soooo it all comes down to the situation I suppose.

[ShadowMax76]

if i'm not sorry for what i did
i'm sure i'd be very sorry that she's hurt from it.

_ i'd try to get to the bottom of it all,
if i can or can't.. then i'll leave it all behind . and hope she can too.

[sushixlovesu]

If I didnt do anything wrong i dont see a reason in why i should be apologizing Thats just me though x]

[tinasarangg]

I'm a prideful girl,
saying sorry is SO difficult for me.
But there are times where my boyfriend overreacts and I say things that doesn't make the situation any better,
And since he apologizes almost everytime we argue, when he needs to hear the words, "I'm sorry" I'll say it.
A friend told me a relationship is based off compromise right?

Moral of the story; it's okay to swallow your pride and say sorry...even though it's not "healthy" but if you care for the person...it's worth it.

[ミ★♫윤아♫☆ミ]

Yup. I'm always sorry. All the time. Because he always has to be right and in control.