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#1 User is offline   rawr;..; 

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Posted 08 March 2009 - 12:05 PM

Hi,

Recently met a girl and we clicked. We both really like eachother and I've honestly never felt this way for a girl before. I've been with a few, but the feeling here is just.. SO different.

I am a HUGE eater. I'm 6'3 and so I eat loads.. Now all of a sudden, ever since I started going out.. I CANNOT eat. I'm serious. I had to force feed myself some toast in the morning, and just so you know.. I am ALWAYS starving in the morning and would devour anything.

The last couple of daysall I've eaten is 6 chicken nuggets, 2 pieces of toast, like 10 chips and half a fish. Put it this way, I eat more then that in one day, and now I have to force it in myself now.

Uh, we got it on in the car.. I won't get into details.

I can barely sleep. I am a extremely deep sleeper. I LOVE sleep. I would wake up 3-4 hours after I slept and would not be able to sleep, so I tried to masturbate (I hope I can have a serious discussion on this rather then people going EWW), and I just could NOT ejaculate. I could barely get an erection, I'm serious. I'm so weirded out by this.
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#2 User is offline   hishari 

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Posted 08 March 2009 - 12:10 PM

Something similar happened to someone I know. He was just nervous rolleyes.gif
He was fine after some time. You'll be fine!
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Posted 08 March 2009 - 12:26 PM

The not being able to eat thing happens to me too. I'm a girl, but I always eat a lot. But then, when I started dating, my appetite would disappear. And it wasn't that I was nervous or scared, really. I had known him awhile and was comfortable, but I guess it's just the new situation.

I think once the newness of the relationship wears off, you'll start going back to normal.
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Posted 08 March 2009 - 12:30 PM

you'll get your rumble for grumble sooner or later don't worry

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Posted 08 March 2009 - 12:38 PM

yea im a guy and the smaller appetite thing has happened to me after being really attracted to a girl. maybe subconciously your trying to lose weight to look good and attractive to the person you like.

the masturbation problem might just be a result of stress(you suddenly changing your diet, you being really concerned about getting her, etc)
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Posted 08 March 2009 - 12:44 PM

The thing is, is I'm not nervous or scared or anything. I'm very confident around her. Put it this way, I just told her straight up how I felt about her. She is just magical.

As for my weight.. I'm actually under weight.. So, I don't really wanna lose more weight..
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Posted 08 March 2009 - 01:21 PM

I agree with ahello888a about the eating thing..
People tend to try to make themselves look more attractive when they like someone..
Maybe you're just doing the same thing without really realizing it..
I guess that's okay..
Just consider it some sotr of a temporary diet..?
All the others said you'll be fine anyway ^^
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Posted 08 March 2009 - 02:30 PM

If youre gonna be eating a little, you should atleast make that little bit healthy foods. Chicken nuggets and chips?
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Posted 08 March 2009 - 03:45 PM

it's an evolutionary mechanism for the purpose of reproduction

called love.

haha.. you're in love mate. that's all there is to it.
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Posted 08 March 2009 - 03:58 PM

^ If you read, it said "recently" met, so inferring that it is love may be misinformed.

That's actually a pretty good idea, using masturbation to fall asleep. Well your inability to ejaculate may be related to your lack of dietary nutrition and your physical fatigue. Try exercising and see how that helps you.

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Posted 08 March 2009 - 03:59 PM

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