[ManekiNeko~*]

[I realized that it was getting too long b/c I was ranting, so here's the severely condensed version]

Ever had a friend's bf try to get with you?
If so, did you tell your friend?

[Chianna]

she's already split up with the guy you 'messed' around with I personally wouldn't say anything. You run the risk of him telling her but I'm betting she has a better opinion of you than him so you can spin the story in your favour if he does. I'm not saying lie about what happened but there's ways of saying things to cast some else as the bad guy and work people's sympathy.

It's not an easy situation and normally I'm all about talking things through and being honest but there are times when you just can't.

[plegend2007]

If they are your true and real friends, you should be able to talk to them and not worry about any repercussions.
We men have a rule in place among true friends....#1 rule is "BRO'S BEFORE HO'S". Don't you gals have a similar rule?
Me and my friends always look out for one other by telling each other the truth about everything and we all listen to each other because we know that it comes from the heart. Sometimes it is painful but wouldn't you rather know the truth and deal with it or not know and end up getting hurt a lot worse later on.

I tell my guy friends, if they are with a girl who is playing them...I will straight up tell him that she is a "HOOD RAT".
I tell my gal friends, it they are with a guy who is playing them...I will tell her that he is a "RICHARD CRANIUM".

After i tell them that, explain to them all that is going on, and give them my sincere and honest advice....
If they still choose them and push me aside....I will point the door and say to them..."DON'T LET THE DOOR KNOB HIT YOU, WHERE THE GOOD LORD SPLIT YOU" and just walk away.

I don't need friends like that in the first place. If you can't trust your friends, who else can you trust besides your family.

You can do whatever you like or feel comfortable, but this is just my opinion.

P.S. Do you remember me from another post

[ManekiNeko~*]

If they are your true and real friends, you should be able to talk to them and not worry about any repercussions.
We men have a rule in place among true friends....#1 rule is "BRO'S BEFORE HO'S". Don't you gals have a similar rule?
Me and my friends always look out for one other by telling each other the truth about everything and we all listen to each other because we know that it comes from the heart. Sometimes it is painful but wouldn't you rather know the truth and deal with it or not know and end up getting hurt a lot worse later on.

I tell my guy friends, if they are with a girl who is playing them...I will straight up tell him that she is a "HOOD RAT".
I tell my gal friends, it they are with a guy who is playing them...I will tell her that he is a "RICHARD CRANIUM".

After i tell them that, explain to them all that is going on, and give them my sincere and honest advice....
If they still choose them and push me aside....I will point the door and say to them..."DON'T LET THE DOOR KNOB HIT YOU, WHERE THE GOOD LORD SPLIT YOU" and just walk away.

I don't need friends like that in the first place. If you can't trust your friends, who else can you trust besides your family.

You can do whatever you like or feel comfortable, but this is just my opinion.

P.S. Do you remember me from another post

How can I forget honey?

[crayon851]

You're a homewrecker, live with it haha. Someone people exist only to intervene in other peoples relationships, others exist to better them. Fact of life.

[ManekiNeko~*]

You're a homewrecker, live with it haha. Someone people exist only to intervene in other peoples relationships, others exist to better them. Fact of life.

that hurts u big meanie!

[the sweetest prince]

that hurts u big meanie!

if you get your little feelings hurt because of what someone says on a message board, just imagine what its gonna be like when people in real life insult you for what you did. you deserve whatever you get.

[ManekiNeko~*]

if you get your little feelings hurt because of what someone says on a message board, just imagine what its gonna be like when people in real life insult you for what you did. you deserve whatever you get.

i was joking you idiot

[junsujunsu]

^ -.-" i wanna read the whole thing, he was trynna get with u...did u get with him?...well, either way i think u should tell ur friend although it would break her heart and she would probably second guess ur friendship...its better to be honest with everything, if u messed with him too...no offense but chances are, you dont really cherish ur friend do ya?

[ManekiNeko~*]

Unfortuntely.. I love my friend.

[3letters]

If he cheats on her with you, he will cheat on you with someone else
I say stay far away from him, and tell your friend about what he is going. What if he's trying to get with a lot of girls behind her back?

[ManekiNeko~*]

If he cheats on her with you, he will cheat on you with someone else
I say stay far away from him, and tell your friend about what he is going. What if he's trying to get with a lot of girls behind her back?

I guess I was being ambiguous. It's occured to me several times and it's not that I want to be with these people AT ALL. A perfect example would be when my friend's bf asked to just grab some lunch, I'll go and he tried to hold my hand. And I was like WTF. So I told him "But you're with so and so", but he said "But I like you too". LOL people make me sick.

[cherriholicxx]

Oh! Eww!
[-that was to the "I like you too" part of the story!-]

Sorry. rofl.
That was kind of uncalled for, but. yeah. ^^;
That happened a few times.
Or well, it wasn't really her boyfriend, but she liked him.
-and he was always trying to get a feel or kiss me.
One word: EW.

But if it was her boyfriend, I would've told her anyways.
If they had the guts to do it to me, what's stopping them from doing it to someone else?
I don't want my friends to be hurt.
Especially if I could do something about it.
[...that was total irony! </3!]
-but. yeah. I'm sorry if you had no idea what I just said. ;;

[ManekiNeko~*]

that's what i thought.. But the very first time that it occured to me, and I told my friends, they ditched me and started hanging out with that arshole. Why? I have no idea. He did have the perfect nerd/nice guy image though. Maybe they were skeptical of me?

[hippiehop]

actually yes, that's happened to me. i was young and stupid.

[Angxizzle]

Yes he TRIED, but i denied friends dont do that. Sooner or later she'll find out, it's better to hear it from you her friend then some esle and since you know and all and didn't tell her...