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#1 User is offline   Aria_Rheina 

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Posted 09 March 2009 - 08:21 PM

sweatingbullets.gif This is about a close guy friend of mine, i really admire his friendliness and open-minded~ness lol but there's sumtin really bad i noticed about him. Its practically the fact that his shallowER than a girl! Like when he sees my hair is messy he'd go like "Hey, do u know how to use a comb?" and when he doesn't like my outfit he'd say "You really should take a second look in the mirror!" and he does that NOT only to Me but all of his friends he notices every flaw like last week he even said to a girl "Like do you even have a toothbrush at home?". Sometimes i've always wondered how he's girlfriend feels.

I've been frank with him before but he never listens. O.O What's a girl to do?!
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Posted 09 March 2009 - 08:41 PM

i have a friend like this.
and apparently only a handful of "true friends" can really understand and tolerate him.
cuz deep down, he's really cool.

just chill girl.
if he does that to everybody, dont worry about it.
unless its like straight up rude and obnoxious of him.

cuz my friend says it bluntly but not in a mean way. =/

gl !
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Posted 09 March 2009 - 08:41 PM

Stop... talking to him? If it truly bothers you simply ignore him and, as a bonus, if he does notice you can tell him it bothers you how shallow he is. Then, and only then, would he be able to realize his mistake. That is, if he truly values you as a friend.

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#4 User is offline   Emerald Snow 

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Posted 09 March 2009 - 08:57 PM

Some people in this world just have no tact. It's one thing to be honest, but another to be rude and picky without being asked.

If you've already told him but it doesn't work, then there's really not much you can do. If he bothers you, just try ignoring him.
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