[BlazingSkies]

okay when someone beats me in marks I don't really care
but there is this girl I study with every weekday after school... and when she beats me in marks i dunno why but i get so sad, because i am guy; it makes me feel unmanly and weak when she beats me; i get all worked up in my mind and then it's bothering for me to study...
i think it is because i really like her and like, if she beats me, i think of things like, how i cant be a man in front of her because i have no superiority... sigh
ARG im still so mad... but when i really think about it is really fun to study with her though

can anyone help me with my "OMG I GOT TO GET A HIGHER MARK than her" syndrome? like im studying then she is studying too right, i get soo pissed if she understand s something better than me, then i tried to work my mind off to do the same resulting n failure because i get all worked up... HELP T_T

i know i just gotta worry about myself but ITS VERY hARD TO DO

[A.Wesker]

dont let her see this side of you and dayme... congratulate her at least and joke about it... no need to feel un manly lol makes you look even worst

chicks love it when they beat u haha

[heartnet]

just make sure you don't lose in arm wrestling and you'll be fine

[Aivy]

Yeah, girls do love it when they beat you, its the truth, we don't find you unmanlier at all. Usually its the boys who get better grades than us who we dislike.

[ching22194]

just make sure you don't lose in arm wrestling and you'll be fine

so true...

[Mattsanity]

that mini cooper is sad. chicks are suppose to do better

[jaeheart]

haha, normally i wouldn't care.
but i have friend in my english class who always gets higher marks than me even thought he doesn't do anything like homework and class work, stuff like that, and that gets me really mad cause i do my homework!
and another friend in my math class, i don't really know why, but i get mad when he beats me in the tests o.o

[bombb_]

you should joke about it irritating you. haha. i always do that. people think i really am joking and it doesnt bother me (i think) and thus i can vent a little without too bg of a repercussion.

and equality, yah!
you dont necessarily need superiority.
though i do think a guy should be able to protect his girl (does that mean he has to be better? idk), i dont think he needs to do better in everything than her.


give and take. give and take.

[kevinn]

I reckon cause you see that you're doing the same amount of study as her cause you guys study together after school everyday.
So it's like why am I getting lower marks when we're putting in the same amount of work.
Sure no one actively likes losing but wouldn't you rather beat someone you don't like?
Haha, but if she's smarter, just get her to help you more, I'm sure she will

[Lavender.Sky]

Yeah, girls do love it when they beat you, its the truth, we don't find you unmanlier at all. Usually its the boys who get better grades than us who we dislike.

totally truee haha