[yoona_76]

Thank you for all the help!

[Lie]

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[marilu_kim]

were your parents close to him enough for him to give his number to your parents?
well i think you should try giving him a call and ask him how he is.
and if you call him, something good might happen. like he liking you back.

[Angy_angel]

yeah girl
you should call him
just like you said
if you caught him staring at you, who knows?
he might like you too ^^

[Chianna]

If it's a mobile number I'd text him, it avoids the awkward silence and having to think of what to say on your feet. It does leave you with the awful time between sending the text and him texting back but if he doesn't answer you know he's not interested and can move on

[WoopieDaDoo]

Hello Yoona

I don't think you should let a chance like this go. I know for sure I wouldn't let a "huge crush" go. In fact, I would try my best to let her know my feelings toward her, even though if she was in another state.
I find it adorable that you got his phone number from your parents. That could actually be they key that could "set off a spark" as I would say
If he asks you: "How did you get my phone number" and you'll reply that got it from your parents. (At that point you can tell him, why you got his phone number, so basically it's the moment you express your feelings to him.)
Who knows, he might feel the same way. Don't give up okay? Like Lie said: If you don't act now, you'll most likely regret later and keep questioning yourself: "Why didn't I call him!"
If you really think about, this is your chance right now, so make sure you take it and call him! and let him know you feel before he moves on, which would be very dissapointing. Hopefully everything works out for you.

Best of luck Yoona.

[yoona_76]

Thanks everyone for your replies

[jadeooo]

call him

he's in another state so you've got nothing to loose right?

[the sweetest prince]

What would you even think of saying to him? btw, WAY too many smilies.

[The Red Shoes]

Well, I figure he wouldn't just give your parents his number for no reason. He's obviously "close enough" to you guys to give you his number so why not call him? Just be like "Oh, my parents said you quit your job at the restaurant and you moved away. Did you get another/better job offer or something?" Or anything along those lines. That's the one thing you two have in "common" (you going to the restaurant he worked at) since you never really talked. Do it before the years go by and he changes his number.

[donporkuloin]

Stealing his phone number is a bit stalkerish imo.

[WoopieDaDoo]

Thanks everyone for your replies

marilu_kim: My parents talked to him a lot and they joke around a lot too. My mom has told him a lot of times that he's very cute

WoopieDaDoo: Thank you! Can it really be a "spark key"? I always thought that's he's going to think that I'm creepy if I just call him out of nowhere lol.

Sooo...how should I begin the convo when I do call him? I know his name and I think he know my name since my brother always called my name whenever he's walking pass our table. Should I say "Hi! I'm that girl that go to your restaurant every week....I like you?" I think that's too blunt

It can be the spark key, depending on how you say it. For example: (Let's just call him Spongebob "SB"and you'll be Squarepants =P! "SP")

SP calls SB
Ring ring ring..

*Skips introducing part*
SB: How did you get my phone number?
SP: <<< That answer will be the most important one, because if you answer this in a wrong way, he'll be having 2nd thoughts and maybe be creeped out, which will completely make the conversation awkward, you know what I mean? so we are trying to prevent that from happening.

Allow me to give you an "idea" of how to start the conversation. Usually I let people do this themselves, but since your shy..and I don't want you to get stuck in your words and be dissapointed, I'll give you a hand. First of all, make sure you don't say "uhmm" too much okay? even though I know your shy, but please try to prevent that , you don't want to sound like your unsure. People tend to use that word alot.

SP calls SB
Ring ring ring..

SB: Hello?
SP: Hey, this is <your name>, you met me and my parents at the restaurant you used to work, I heard from them that you moved? is this true? (if your sure he knows your name that is, if he doesn't, then just tell him.)
SB: Oh yea, I remember you. yea I did actually move ..... *talks further* << Chances are, that he asks you how you got his phone nr (so you be confident and act normal and just tell him the truth which will be:
SP: Oh, I got it from my parents, since I heard that you moved, I wanted to call you and see how you were doing over there? "<<< This can continue the conversation, not end it. This is a great way for you to talk/ask him different questions such as: How are you doing over there, What are you doing now?, Are you working?, Do you like it over there? etc etc (Don't ask him too much questions at the same time though, let him have a chance to ask you some too, which he will, considering the first conversation is always the conversation whether you can trully find out if you have that chemistry or not.) (IMO)

Anyways, after that it should all work out fine, and if there's a chance for you to open up your feelings to him, then you should take it.
For now, just keep having conversations with him, and hopefully... well... we let fate decide that, shall we? =P
Please, do keep in mind that this is just an idea. You can choose to say the same exact words if you'd like if that's easier for you.

I hope this helped you.
I have full confidence in you that you can do it without getting interrupted by your "shyness"
You can do it Yoona ^.^

Please update me, about how it went afterwards.
Thank you.

Best of luck.

(Damn, I spend alot of time on this post, I need to give myself a break T_T)

[The Red Shoes]

Stealing his phone number is a bit stalkerish imo.

No, not necessarily. He willingly gave his number to Yoona's parents. And I assume that he assumed that Yoona talks to her parents lol. So it's understandable that she would have access to his number through her parents. Perhaps...that's the reason why he gave it? Now, if Yoona asked his fellow workers at the restaurant or even his boss, or called 411 for his number (a guy did this to me once), THEN it's stalkerish.

[CriticalHit]

call him

he's in another state so you've got nothing to loose right?

LOL AGREED. Go for it!

[mikez]

If it's a mobile number I'd text him, it avoids the awkward silence and having to think of what to say on your feet. It does leave you with the awful time between sending the text and him texting back but if he doesn't answer you know he's not interested and can move on

Texting is the worst thing to do, its so impersonal. Its like asking someone out over aim. Lame.

[SHATTERED]

GO HUNT THAT ANIMAL DOWN.

[Painism]

You worry too much. He is in a different state, what is the worst that can happen? Go confess, if he start to rejecting you; then just hang up.

[MaryMagdalin]

honestly you sound really creepy stalkerish.
he could or could not be interested
try anyway i guess theres no harm. except a moment of embarrassment... or a few moments.
but dont be surprised if nothing happens and if he hangs up... lol.

[Snowy_Angel]

YOU GO GET HIM TIGER!!!

CALL ASAP!!!

[__OOO--SMiLE]

CALL HIM! CALL HIM! CALL HIM!
If you don't, you'll miss out on something that may happen. I, myself, regret not chasing after my crush. Even though, a crush is a crush, turn it into LIKE LIKE. SERIOUS, CALL HIM! Get over your shyness and make move! Make him YOURS before someone else claims him.