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Would You Think Less Of A Guy if he asked his friend to get your number for him?

#1 User is offline   ShadowMax76 

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Posted 13 March 2009 - 12:02 AM

mate gets struck by cupid's uppercut and kick to the jewels,
and after a little ogling at the 'fine young lady in a white top, something black underneath and some short shorts'
he turns to me and says "dude. you HAVE to do this favor for me"

...sure. i get a lotta free apple almond croissants and water from his bakery but...

x_x' w/o skipping the fact the young lady has a brain....

wouldn't you think less of a guy that had his friend to ask for your number?

...xX' or would ya just give it all too willingly ?

_to other guys/men... >>' i know it's common stuff between mates to do. but isn't there also that truth? "why can't he just do it himself?"

_ technically. i was asking her friend . cos she already hopped off the train- to my mate's unusually fretted heart strings.
so.. i was asking her friend for her friend's number for my friend/mate... >_>' his logic was that the only way he could get her number, was for his friend to ask her friend for her number... can't believe it makes sense now that i think of it.

[rofl. no. i didn't get it. >>' i wasn't in the mood. so obviously it turned out as i expected _ haha.. he's going to try find her next week.. ]
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Posted 13 March 2009 - 12:46 AM

TALK IN PLAIN ENGLISH YOU WANNABE OVERACHIEVER.
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Posted 13 March 2009 - 12:52 AM

^ I lol'd.

Then, I thought, you are one terrible wingman. And then, I think anyone would think the other person sucks and is cowardly if they have to go through the back channel to get a phone number.

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Posted 13 March 2009 - 01:13 AM

QUOTE (pochacco @ Mar 13 2009, 07:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
TALK IN PLAIN ENGLISH YOU WANNABE OVERACHIEVER.

QUOTE (wr3ck3dd @ Mar 13 2009, 07:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
^ I lol'd.

Then, I thought, you are one terrible wingman. And then, I think anyone would think the other person sucks and is cowardly if they have to go through the back channel to get a phone number.

i lol'd too. MWAHahah~

o_O' yeah.. ya got a point.
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Posted 13 March 2009 - 02:53 AM

QUOTE (pochacco @ Mar 13 2009, 07:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
TALK IN PLAIN ENGLISH YOU WANNABE OVERACHIEVER.

BUAHAHAHHA! roflmfao.

If it'd were me I'd probably say wtf, unless he was cute. tongue.gif Though I wouldn't think less of him.

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Posted 13 March 2009 - 07:17 AM

hm, i'd prolly be kinda o.o; at first.. haha.
i mean it is kinda cowardly x:
i'd much prefer a guy just approach me himself XD
but, i understand that sometimes it's difficult.. x:
and i might come across as mean and difficult to approach xD
but, i don't think i'd turn them down for that.
i might think a bit less of them. but only a bit (:

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Posted 13 March 2009 - 08:00 AM

I would get really weirded out if a guy that is interested in me doesn't even have the balls to speak to me, lol. Sending his friend instead? What is this, middle school? To answer your question: no, I wouldn't give my number to his friend. I would also think of him as a coward and he would have to be incredibly drop-dead gorgeous for me to forgive his stupid ways of trying to contact me.

I like confident guys, the type of guys that doesn't need to go around others to get my attention and show interest. mellow.gif
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Posted 13 March 2009 - 08:08 AM

What if your friend gets nervous and forgets to tell her the number's actually for you? Or if he gets it from her and just keeps it for himself? Too many things could go wrong in that situation, I'm too much of a control freak to let that occur. Besides, if I'm afraid to talk to her already for 30 seconds just to get her number, things are only going to get increasingly uncomfortable when it comes to trying to muster up the courage to talk to her for an entire meal once the date is set.
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Posted 13 March 2009 - 12:51 PM

Okay.....I thought you were drunk when you wrote this or something, but then I read the other comments......... biggrin.gif Hm......I would think he'd be a shy person or just had no balls. biggrin.gif But, I mean if you actually know this guy or have talked to him before, and he seems sweet, then you should probably look past that. ^^
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Posted 13 March 2009 - 01:41 PM

I would give the rejection number!
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Posted 13 March 2009 - 02:40 PM

rofl.
the detail i left out was that this girl he was interested in supposedly checked him out -in return. and all these other paranoid signs he takes as ones of interest, like standing close to him before she got off the train.

_obviously the way i put the question, the answer is as i expect.. [and friggin' told him before i did his dirty work]
x_X' but say you were slightly interested back~ what then? >>" you'd be a lil disappointed right?
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Posted 13 March 2009 - 04:49 PM

Doesn't really matter imo.

The girl wouldn't know that the guy asked his friend to do it anyway.
His friend would probably be like "i wanna introduce someone to you" bla bla
Well unless the friend is plain dumb or just wanna make you fail then I don't think they will know lol.

If they did know anyway, I guess if she likes the guy then she wouldn't care.
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Posted 13 March 2009 - 04:55 PM

Yes, I would.

Because.. what if I didn't want him to have my number?

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Posted 13 March 2009 - 04:56 PM

Eh. He has no balls.
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Posted 13 March 2009 - 06:04 PM

definitely.
I like a guy who shows confidence,
and asking a friend to ask me for his number
shows pretty much zero confidence.
asking me himself, would make me think more of him.

and yeah. I would be dissapointed if i was interested.
and I would think less of him. but idk what i'd do .__.
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Posted 13 March 2009 - 06:25 PM

confidence is very attractive.
If he asked a friend to do it for him...eh.
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Posted 13 March 2009 - 06:43 PM

Confidence is attractive in any guy, but I also think it's kinda sweet/cute if a guy is shy like that. I'd take that kinda stuff like they're too awed and intimidated by a girl's stunning beauty to muster up the courage to ask, hahahaha. Jaykay.

Before my boyfriend and I started going out, he had my number but didn't even know my name. His friend asked my best friend what my name was. I actually thought it was hilarious and cute.

Stuff like that doesn't make a guy any less of a great guy and an awesome person.


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Posted 13 March 2009 - 07:02 PM

yeah..
lol ==
its so.. cowardly.
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Posted 13 March 2009 - 07:29 PM

yea i would. even if the guy was really cute or something, i would wonder why he couldnt just man up and talk to me himself
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Posted 13 March 2009 - 08:06 PM

i lol'd too xD

Humm i'd think it was cute if the guy was kinda shy about it
But i'd be a little turned off if i didn't know it was for a friend or if I didn't know he was gonna give my number to his friend
I'd rather the guy just ask himself
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