[littleaznmunkie]

haha, so this friday is this guy's birthday that i've liked for about nine months now and i was planning to get him a present, but when i thought for a moment, i thought that maybe i shouldn't get him one.
the reason why this is because i've known him for 3 years now, and i use to hate him back then until the summer of '08 when we started hanging out and stuff.
and then like we used to text 24/7 and call each other like baby/babe, etc and told me he kinda fell for me in a way and i got really surprised and yeah.
and then like he walked to my house four times just to see me o_O and it's about 2 miles from my house to his house and yeahhhh.

but yeah anyways, after his phone broke we couldn't talk anymore, and i never had the guts to talk to him on aim, etc so i just was like if he wants to talk to me, he'll talk to me.
but time flew by and still no sign of him talking and stuff (i still liked him a lot at this point)
and then like my school was having a sadie hawkins dance and i wanted to go, so i planned out this whole plan to go to starbucks and ask him there but then right before the day we were supposed to meet, he aimed me and was like:
him: when are we meeting
me: idk
him: i need to know
me: why
him: i might have plans tmrw
me: well i dont know when we are
him: you should know so tell me
me: i told you, this wasnt my idea (of course it was haha but yeah my friend told me to say this)
him: then whos
me: whos do you think?!
him: (friends name) (this "person" is his ex, and she's my bestfriend so yeah haha)
me: yeah
him: oh
me: yeah so go ask her
him: i dont wana (after they broke up last year, she told him that she hated him cuz he wasn't "good" for her. haha i know but yeah, idkkk the details o_O buuuuuut he still liked her a lot and confessed to her one day when i was at her house, of course i got sad but eh, can't do anything about it)
me: then that's your fault
him: well you guys are the one who invited me
me: mmk so?
him: so i needa know the time
me: well idk
him: fine, im not coming
me: mmk don't (obviously i was pretty sad at this point)
him: ok
me: . . .
him: what
me: nothing
him: ok ( i knew he was pissed at this point so i didn't respond back. instead i started talking to my friend who was prettty okay w/ this guy and i told her to come to starbucks with us and she agreed and was like whos coming and i was like ______ and she was like oh ew why and i was like haha, cuz im gona ask him to sadies and she was like ohhhhhhhhhh and i was like yeah but hes like mad at me so you talk to him so she was like ok and then she told me this:
her: he said why he has to come to starbucks
me: cuz _____ invited him
her: he said he doesnt want to go cuz hell be the only boy
me: tell him to bring friends then
her: he said no one wants to go
me: _______? (his best friend)
her: haha i asked (best friend) and he was like why in the world would i want to go to starbucks
me: -________- tell him about the sadies thing
her: mmk
me: kay
her: o_O he said that youre gona be in a big disappointment
me: . . .

(it would take foreverrrrrrr to tell you the whole details but ill just end it like this: like twenty minutes later she said to me that somehow he found out about that i would be asking him to sadies and she was like to him if that was true would you go with her? and his automatic response no and she was like why not? and he was like cuz i dont think of her as a girl and she was like . .. . so she stopped talking to him and talked to his best friend and he asked him: why did you say no? and he was like why should i say yes? and thats the end of the story of this)



hahaha but anyways what im trying to say is, does he hate me and would it be awkward if i got him a present?!

[:0486]

i dont think he hates you but rather he sees you as just a friend
there is a difference between hate,like,and love
he likes you but as a friend likehe sees you as one of the "guys" you know?

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

Why can't you just say the damn time?

-It saves you time
-It saves you trouble
-It's more straightforward
-Guys hate people who tries to make things complicated
-You are the one who sets it up the idea anyway
-You lied


He doesn't hate you, just give him a present

[littleaznmunkie]

Why can't you just say the damn time?

-It saves you time
-It saves you trouble
-It's more straightforward
-Guys hate people who tries to make things complicated
-You are the one who sets it up the idea anyway
-You lied


He doesn't hate you, just give him a present

haha, thanks!?

i dont think he hates you but rather he sees you as just a friend
there is a difference between hate,like,and love
he likes you but as a friend likehe sees you as one of the "guys" you know?

so are you saying that i'm a guy to him?
but is getting him a present weird?

[lalalaaa]

Yeah, why the heck didn't you just tell him the time.
I don't think guys appreciate when you go around in circles.
You even pulled the ex into this and he probably got really flustered at this point--enough to reject you just because you couldn't be direct with him.

[Shuga]

I agree. You should have just told him the time - you are the one that truly initiated this and you should be straightforward. You don't have to say 'I like you' like straightaway, but you have to be direct with things such as time. I think it works well for me - a lot of people think I'm an awesome planner/social person because I organise time and places for meetings.

[littleaznmunkie]

Yeah, why the heck didn't you just tell him the time.
I don't think guys appreciate when you go around in circles.
You even pulled the ex into this and he probably got really flustered at this point--enough to reject you just because you couldn't be direct with him.

Well the thing is, I suck at these things. Like the only time I would like tell someone I like them is if they were to be like "Do you like, like me?" or something like that. I'm not the type of person who would be like "Oh, I like you."

I agree. You should have just told him the time - you are the one that truly initiated this and you should be straightforward. You don't have to say 'I like you' like straightaway, but you have to be direct with things such as time. I think it works well for me - a lot of people think I'm an awesome planner/social person because I organise time and places for meetings.

Haha well like I said before . . . (up there) andddd, him and his ex are like friends, just like not real good friends, so I mean, it's nothing bad I think.

[Daikirai]

If I was him, I would've said no too after what you did to him o_o
He wants a time, give him a time! @_@ You guys invited him.

He sounds pretty annoyed at you.. =/
Hmm... get him a present! But nothing something too big.. get him something small.

[:0486]

getting him a present isnt weird
and i dont mean you are a guy but...ahhh sorry idk what im talking about i thought i had it ^^;;

[Swtess]

You're annoying. Is it that hard to just give him a time instead of going around in circle for no reason?
You got so many people involved pointlessly.

[MNLV27]

You're annoying. Is it that hard to just give him a time instead of going around in circle for no reason?
You got so many people involved pointlessly.

I agree. Reading that whole part about the time was getting on my nerves. Should of just gave him the time, it was "your" idea, and plus I understand if he said no after that because I would of too.

Just give him a present, it's okay if he doesn't like you that way, it's just a present from a friend to another friend.

[littleaznmunkie]

Haha, yes I am annoying. Thanks for being so blunt. I appreciate it (=
And well, I do feel guilty of course, and ever since this day I always thought to myself that I shouldn't consider living, so I almost decided to overdose.

Well actually, it was wayyyyyyy before this when it was more serious and more personal, but anwayssssssss

What I'm trying to say is that, I am sorry to him. For all the bad things I've done to him, making him feel so embarrassed and I've always wanted to say sorry, but even if I were to try, he wouldn't care. Haha. I've tried so many times. But yeah.

I hope he likes his present tho, (I got him jeans!) HHAHAHAHHAHAHAH!

[agnuque]

I had to reread it like 3 times just to get it. Haha. I was like
Okay--Who's the best fri-- Right this gir-- Ah. Haha.
Did you intentionally NOT tell it just so you'd get to talk to him longer?
But anyway. You should've just told him the time

[prisonerzero]

If I was him, I would've ended that conversation because when I ask for the time, I don't like people skipping around. If you would have told him the time, he would've gotten less frustrated.