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Waiting For That Special Person to call you/text you....

#1 User is offline   sushi_azn 

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Posted 14 March 2009 - 09:35 PM

time goes soooo slow. i check my phone sooo many times........i dont wanna call/text him all the time and be a bother hehe, so its craazy.
just bored+so making a topic.....talk about anything related to this topic i guess wink.gif

we r just kinda starting to date i guess....we call each other 1-3 a day.....but im still waitiing ahhhhh

last time he called me, he was with his friends at the gym, so im just waiting hehe.

PS: its better not to call/text them too much right???????????????
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#2 User is offline   Mryanhon 

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Posted 14 March 2009 - 09:43 PM

i wish i could call her right now, but she probably doesnt even want to hear my voice?!

thats what im thinking, maybe thats what ur thinking too?
idk, i say, if u do call him, make the most of it, if not, then u gotta do the waiting game!!
dont play too hard, or toooo easy : D
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Posted 14 March 2009 - 09:51 PM

how much is your too much though? huh.gif
and special person refers to someone that is already in a relationship with you or just someone u have a crush on?
i'm sure if it's a gf or bf, she/he wouldnt mind it at all if you call or message them often..*well, just make sure u dont call just to whine or stuff..THAT IS A NUISANCE*
for a crush, well, it is a bother really to keep sending messages..

my experience:
this guy isnt my bf and i like him a lot but was too shy to say it.
he called me first and things started from there on..
well, i have this one theory in my head u see...to not seem too desperate or wanting to message him a lot, i made sure that when i messaged him, i'm the one that said good bye.
and i'll wait for him to start sending me messages after that..
it's like a rotation u see.. laugh.gif laugh.gif i messaged him first, the next time, he'll message me first..and the pattern went on like that..haha..i'm weird like that..
and on those days when he was the one that's supposed to message me first, the waiting feels like hell..literally..but i wouldnt make the first move.
well, at last, our relationship didnt work out..my friends said i was trying too hard to hide the fact that i like him so much that its embarassing, i didnt use the oppurtunities i had before to just get to the point..

soooo~~the conclusion is...if u're not the shy type, just GO FOR IT! message, call, stalk, do whatever it takes so that u wouldnt regret it later on~ sleep.gif i'm serious..well, maybe not the stalking advice..but u know what i mean..
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Posted 14 March 2009 - 09:53 PM

I'm getting really tired of always being the one to call/msg first.
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Posted 14 March 2009 - 09:55 PM

hehe yeaa...waitin is crazyyy...
i guess we both want each other to call......i don like to call him too much and look like im interested in him toooo much.....but when he talks to me...he would always sayy Call me ok.....and if i dont call him....he wouldnt call me.......and he would say i told you to call mee......wheeew
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Posted 14 March 2009 - 09:58 PM

DONT WIAT get out htere and do something=]
and you can always call him and be ;like hey what are you up too? or soemthing
JUST DONT STALK HIM or anything
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Posted 14 March 2009 - 10:00 PM

girls shouldn't chase
make the guy not take them as seriosuly (from experience...)
you can text him, BUT don't send a second text or text him fiirst too much

Just wait for him to text you
you don't wanna appear desperate or clingy (major mjar turn off)
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Posted 14 March 2009 - 10:24 PM

I used to text this one guy that I liked a lot and I was always afraid that he would get annoyed or find me bothersome. But then I stopped texting him for about a week and he texted me first. But lately, I haven't gotten a text from him... he just comments me on my facebook from time to time. :\
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Posted 14 March 2009 - 10:33 PM

haahha me and a guy text alot o_O for the past month? or so ahahahaha...sometimes I would text him and vice versa, and it could be SUPER random...and he would text me sometimes before he sleeps or when he's up and freaking 4 am in the morning..I got mad that he did that cause he woke me up >.> LOL but it was cute at the same time I guess just that it's bothersome so he never texts at 4 anymore AHAHAHA..


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Posted 14 March 2009 - 11:05 PM

haha, me tooooo.

only, awaiting his phone call, is making me feel anxious, lol. cause when he rings tonight, it's so he can ask my parents' permission in order to take me out for dinner tomorrow, haha. biggrin.gif
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Posted 14 March 2009 - 11:34 PM

if u really miss him then tell him tongue.gif it doesn't hurt.
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Posted 15 March 2009 - 12:17 AM

im hardly ever the one to call or text first. for the most part, if a guy wants to talk to you, he will. so yea the waiting part does usually suck. go do something fun or productive tho. dont keep yourself waiting around for a guy.
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Posted 15 March 2009 - 02:53 AM

i wouldn't call/text him first if i were u, just cuz i've too much pride LOL
let the guy do the action
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Posted 15 March 2009 - 07:18 AM

QUOTE (`faded @ Mar 15 2009, 01:33 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
haahha me and a guy text alot o_O for the past month? or so ahahahaha...sometimes I would text him and vice versa, and it could be SUPER random...and he would text me sometimes before he sleeps or when he's up and freaking 4 am in the morning..I got mad that he did that cause he woke me up >.> LOL but it was cute at the same time I guess just that it's bothersome so he never texts at 4 anymore AHAHAHA..


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Posted 15 March 2009 - 07:34 AM

i know how you feel. I hate waiting for my boyfriend to call me. I look at my phone constantly. iono, maybe it's a girl thing? I do it too.
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Posted 15 March 2009 - 08:15 AM

QUOTE (private @ Mar 15 2009, 09:18 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Girl are so hard to please and so hard to understand. wink.gif


AHAHAHAHA I'm not very hard =P LOL..just that WHO THE HECK WOULD TEXT AT 4 AM!!!! I'm sleeping! and I have class at 8..so I'm like DYING when I wake up LOL..XD..


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Posted 15 March 2009 - 08:22 AM

me and my special person call/text each other all the time xD even if it's just to say like "hi, i love you" or something like that. cept yesterday he left to go to australia for a good two week for spring break..and it is boooring just waiting for his call/text :'(

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Posted 15 March 2009 - 08:25 AM

if you call him too much he might get annoyed. you'll come off as too clingy.

Texting is okay but space out the time between each of your responses.
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Posted 15 March 2009 - 08:25 AM

It sucks always wanting to talk to the person....but you have to initiate the conversation first all the time --"



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Post icon  Posted 15 March 2009 - 01:13 PM

QUOTE (`faded @ Mar 15 2009, 11:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
AHAHAHAHA I'm not very hard =P LOL..just that WHO THE HECK WOULD TEXT AT 4 AM!!!! I'm sleeping! and I have class at 8..so I'm like DYING when I wake up LOL..XD..


He's lonely haha. Txt him back tell him to go sleep if not turn ur phone off biggrin.gif laugh.gif

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