[Sasami]

The title might be a little miss leading...well this is what happened to me yesterday and it's really growing on me not in a good way.....

I have a dear cous whose I know since I was little, but a couple years back due the stress of the family he developed a disorder Schizotypal Personality Disorder. He moods is like a yo-yo sometime he is very happy and is very talkative, but at time he would kept to himself and started to get really upset and started to throw and break things around him. From time to time he even hit one of his family member. It seen like I'm one of the few that is still sane to talk to him and tell him what he did was wrong. He felt like a close connection with me and I felt like was because we're cous and I try to understand his problem more than forcing him to take pill and believe god will make him feel better.

But yesterday.....when I went over to his house to visit him, he kept smiling at me because I know he is happy to see me, but...he was wearing a really thigh sweatpants and so there was a bump in the middle of his pants if you know what I mean and there was also a wet area around it... I told his family member to tell him to change his pants it's disgusting, but his family member said it doesn't matter....oh my gosh...I might be his cous but I still find it really sick, there was an 9 year old kid in the house also one of my cous gf.....I felt like I wasn't wrong to tell him to change his pants and then how he kept smiling at me gave me goosebumps. I don't know how his disorder will develop, but now I feel really threaten sexually. I don't think I want to see him for a while...he is really scary me.

[jays0n1]

ru sure he didnt jus wet his pants? I dont think its possible for a 9yr old to blow his load XD

[Sasami]

ru sure he didnt jus wet his pants? I dont think its possible for a 9yr old to blow his load XD

He's 19...not 9 so it's only around there so I don't think know if he wet his pant or not...but even so it's so embarrassing and would think he would have go change his pant without anyone telling him

[Raito!]

maybe he just sweaty and have too much sweat gland leaking

[Lie]

Even if it wasn't a sexual thing, I think based on the fact that his illness has lead him to be irrationally violent at times, it's a good idea if you avoid being around him alone if you can. It's sad that it would ever have to come to that with a relative, particularly one you love, care for, and with whom you had a close relationship in the past, but it's better to be safe than sorry honestly.

[XlYesterdaYlX]

Avoid at all costs. Or at least don't be alone with the guy if you do have to hang around him.

[Wayves]

I dunno, sounds pretty creepy to me.

And since when is it ok for someone to walk around after wetting themselves?

[phoenix rise]

if he ever crosses the line you could get him in some deep trouble. society has no tolerance for sex offenders.

[HERMIT]

It's commendable that you are one of the few that can be sympathetic to his disorder, but in light of this development, I think it would be wise to scale back the kind of contact that you keep with him. phoenix rise does give some pretty good food for thought: given the unpredictable nature of his actions, don't stick around too often or too closely to give him the opportunity to make a mistake. It's a fine line to tow, I know, but somewhere, somehow, you will be able to find that delicate balance of still 'being there' for him while at the same time maintaining a figurative safe distance in which you're able to protect yourself.

[taiji.]

the guy seems like he's mentally unstable. no matter how nice of a person you are, you wanna be stay away from him until you know for sure that he's stable. don't wait for him to do something that will traumatize you for the rest of your life. prevent it before it happens.

[Layla111]

that's pretty disturbing
yeah like the others are sayin, keep your distance, make sure you're not alone with him.

[mrscragg]

i do agree with everyone here.. but have you told his parents?.. or anyone else?.. are they seeking help?

[squishybear]

Is he under control with his medication??

If he is, I see no problem.

You just have to remember that he is family. He's probably not as socially adept as you, so it might not have bothered him.
Those uncomfortable feelings were all in your head, and the reason why his family didn't do anything was because it wasn't a big deal.

[lil.lost.me]

It might have freaked you out, but, like squishybear said, he IS family. Remember that he is mentally unstable... Of course, if you think that's what happened, be careful, don't stay totally alone with him, but don't stay too far either. If you really are one of the few people who he appreciates, you shouldn't just go away from him like this. No matter how unstable, he is conscious and has emotions and might not like that you don't come take care of him anymore. You know that he needs help and that YOU CAN HELP HIM. It would be cruel to just let things go because of that.

[longbong]

you felt threatened enough or concerned enough to post it here. so obviously, you are not comfortable with him around. you should take action. Inform your parents. if that fails then get a restraint order on him.

[1336.5]

i'd be wearin a smile too if i just busted a nut

[SongBird]

He is family. But did you know that rape usually happens more often by people you know? Now, he is mentally unstable which you have pointed out and good for you for not staying away because of if before this incident. But due to his unpredictable nature, you should just stay away. It is really not his fault since well, he is mentally off so you being the person who has more awareness of the situation should take the steps needed to protect both you and him from possible mistakes/scenarios. It could be that he peed himself or blew his load, neither of which can be controlled when you are mentally ill and it probably could have been something else that stimulated him (the tight pants, I don't understand how guys can wear them), not you. But whatever it was, it made you feel uncomfortable so don't place yourself in that situation again. If you have to talk to him to encourage him then do so with people around, never be alone with him.

I volunteer at a mental health clinic and trust that these are the precautions that nurses and doctors have to take to. You just can't tell what is going to happen and if it does, you really can't blame the mentally ill patient.

[chicken fly lice]

I say he should stay in a hospital before something serious happens

[jerseycity]

wow admin, great job leading the 20+ forums into a wholesome ray of light.

you recently closed a topic about the "fleshlight" which is a male masturbating enhancement product, but you seem to allow a topic such as a schizo cousin literally "blowing his load" as one user replied, and decided to keep it open.

you closed a thread about a real and honest question that dealt with a product, essentially a product review. however you are keeping open a thread about a girl that is scared of her cousin because he came in his pants?

Azirphale or whatever your name is, i ask that you seriously either close EVERY thread about ANY sex-related topics, or reign with a lighter stick because this is just getting out of hand and it really questions your bias.

i know we've ran into each other a couple times before, but seriously you are being very bias right now. of the two sex-related topics that i mention, kids are gonna find each topic just as sexual in content.

please fix this flaw that i am noticing, as i am part of this community and i believe many users feel the same way.

[sushiwhore]

wow admin, great job leading the 20+ forums into a wholesome ray of light.

you recently closed a topic about the "fleshlight" which is a male masturbating enhancement product, but you seem to allow a topic such as a schizo cousin literally "blowing his load" as one user replied, and decided to keep it open.

you closed a thread about a real and honest question that dealt with a product, essentially a product review. however you are keeping open a thread about a girl that is scared of her cousin because he came in his pants?

Azirphale or whatever your name is, i ask that you seriously either close EVERY thread about ANY sex-related topics, or reign with a lighter stick because this is just getting out of hand and it really questions your bias.

i know we've ran into each other a couple times before, but seriously you are being very bias right now. of the two sex-related topics that i mention, kids are gonna find each topic just as sexual in content.

please fix this flaw that i am noticing, as i am part of this community and i believe many users feel the same way.

this isn't a product review you can google that

o_O this is a really creepy family isse that needs to be dealt with

and if you really want her to close it you should just pm her