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I Said Something To My Gf.... (fixed) which I shouldnt have...

#1 User is offline   Kouta 

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Posted 15 March 2009 - 01:06 PM

Thanks everyone, it has been fixed!

Thanks for ALL the replies! =D
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#2 User is offline   rinringo 

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Posted 15 March 2009 - 01:09 PM

what exactly did you say to her?
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#3 User is offline   Kouta 

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Posted 15 March 2009 - 01:10 PM

I would keep that confidential. =(
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Posted 15 March 2009 - 01:19 PM

Get her some Rose or flower. Take her out to dinner somewhere nice and romantic.

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Posted 15 March 2009 - 01:22 PM

QUOTE (Kouta @ Mar 16 2009, 06:10 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I would keep that confidential. =(


it's hard to give advice if we don't know what exactly that you said. can you think of some ways to give more explaination about what you said...
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Posted 15 March 2009 - 01:30 PM

QUOTE (Kouta @ Mar 15 2009, 03:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
we're old enough to assure that we'll get engaged and married together in the future. We have many things planned as well.


We know how those relationships usually end up rolleyes.gif
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Posted 15 March 2009 - 01:31 PM

We can't give you advice if your not gonna tell us what you exactly said.
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Posted 15 March 2009 - 01:32 PM

QUOTE (fallen*angel* @ Mar 15 2009, 02:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
it's hard to give advice if we don't know what exactly that you said. can you think of some ways to give more explaination about what you said...


i agree until you can give us the full conversation we can give you any advice off little assumptions that are very broad

for example

if you said "because you have curves"

I can give you advice by saying saying sorry write her a poem showing about how much you care and all this other stuff. Yes, you can write her a poem but we can't give you good advice if facts are missing
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Posted 15 March 2009 - 01:34 PM

can't help 'ya if u won't tell us what u said. duhh
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Posted 15 March 2009 - 01:35 PM

QUOTE (vi3txskillsz @ Mar 15 2009, 02:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
We can't give you advice if your not gonna tell us what you exactly said.


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Posted 15 March 2009 - 01:38 PM

Can't help you much if we don't know the seriousness of what you said to her.

If it's just some careless comment, I suggest you have a talk with her. Apologize and tell her what you really think.
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Posted 15 March 2009 - 01:40 PM

you wasted the whole post telling us what person she is and leaving out the crucial part of what you said to her.

whatever it is im sure youre sorry about it and youre a jerk for it. apologize, make up and move on then.

you give me that kind of information then im giving you that kind of answer.
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#13 User is offline   Kouta 

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Posted 15 March 2009 - 01:42 PM

QUOTE (hishari @ Mar 15 2009, 05:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
We know how those relationships usually end up rolleyes.gif


"Usually", but I wont end up in the definition you're trying to provide.

Also, to put it ANOTHER way, imagine I tell her that I only like her appearances and not her personalities. Something unthoughtful, hope you get the point =S
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Posted 15 March 2009 - 01:54 PM

I think you should first explain to her why you gave that reason
and then put some thought into it, and then tell her why you do love her
and then SHOW her. (: good luck!
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Posted 15 March 2009 - 02:00 PM

I think that you should apologize and come up with a list of all the reasons you love her.
Even the little, small things that you don't think are important.
Like the way that she laughs, or smiles.

Just make sure she knows the real reason you love her.
(:

Good luck!
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Posted 15 March 2009 - 02:04 PM

QUOTE (YESUNGHWAITING! @ Mar 15 2009, 06:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I think that you should apologize and come up with a list of all the reasons you love her.
Even the little, small things that you don't think are important.
Like the way that she laughs, or smiles.

Just make sure she knows the real reason you love her.
(:

Good luck!


I did already, I folded a bottle of stars for her as xmas present. There were at least 500+ stars, but 175 reasons, which I repeated around twice.

Thanks for all the comments as of now.
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Posted 15 March 2009 - 02:09 PM

okay, if you said something about her appearances..., now you should show her how beautiful of a person you think she is. in another words, saying sorry alone DOESNOT cut it. in order to be very convinced you should try to make it clear that you are not that kinda shallow person. for example, chose a movie with a female character that is not that pretty but has personality, say something like every guy in your opinion would chose to marry a person with beautiful personality over just look. in addition, treat her very well to show how much you totally love her as a person... cooking dinner for her, making poems... spending time to make a special gift that comes from your heart instead of just buying things... giving her sentimental presents that you take time to make it.... also, saying how lucky your future children are to have a perfect mom like her... i am sure she will forgive you with time. goodluck huh.gif
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Posted 15 March 2009 - 02:11 PM

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I did already, I folded a bottle of stars for her as xmas present. There were at least 500+ stars, but 175 reasons, which I repeated around twice.

Thanks for all the comments as of now.


Well then, just make sure you don't say anything stupid like that again.
She'll forgive you, if she really wants it to work.
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Posted 15 March 2009 - 02:40 PM

So what you're saying is that you won't cheat on her because of her physical form that satisfies you? Not her personality? That's what I got when you just edited and said you only like her appearance, it's understandable that she would be upset over that if it is what you said, so all you can do now is just say that you didn't mean it and show that she means a lot to you.
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Posted 15 March 2009 - 02:58 PM

we dont really know how to help,
if we dont really know how bad wat you said was...
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