[Diverdent(=]

Sooo how much is it? I think i like this guy... but i don't want to get hurt. there's so many what ifs and he has the face of a heartbreaker! go for it? or let go of it? i can't decide! idk what matters more; the risk or the hurt... I don't think i could handle another blow to my heart. i'm like arguing with myself over this!

so what do you guys think? is life about taking risks? or sometimes is it better to play it safe? or how much liking is okay for someone? O_O

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

but i don't want to get hurt

if you don't wanna get hurt, then don't bother.
Every single thing you do in this world can hurt you.

Whether it be driving a car, even riding a bus.

[Seraphyx]

Sooo how much is it? I think i like this guy... but i don't want to get hurt. there's so many what ifs and he has the face of a heartbreaker! go for it? or let go of it? i can't decide! idk what matters more; the risk or the hurt... I don't think i could handle another blow to my heart. i'm like arguing with myself over this!

so what do you guys think? is life about taking risks? or sometimes is it better to play it safe? or how much liking is okay for someone? O_O

High Risks, High benefits. If you ever want to succeed you will have to take risks and by success I mean HUGE SUCCESS, not your everyday pass or fail. It's your choice, if you're that afraid of getting hurt then don't go for it.

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Actually, just go for it! You'll recover and find someone else if all fails.

if you don't wanna get hurt, then don't bother.
Every single thing you do in this world can hurt you.

Whether it be driving a car, even riding a bus.

Uhm, you do realize you've just compared a broken heart to physical pain, damage, and suffering?

[wr3ck3dd]

Why do you really think they call it a crush? You'll be hurt anyway you go, but if you don't try you hurt yourself more than anything. Good luck.

[Jasarn]

What does the face of a heart breaker look like? Anyway, if you like him and you never go for it then it'll never happen, but at least if you go for it there's a chance.

[bbyBoss]

i just dont think investment and heart should go in the same world, ever.
not like money, no.

[ParappaRappa]

for me, as of now, none.

if u go for it, at least u have some percentage of a chance compared to if u didnt try at all. which might be 0%

[plegend2007]

Crush is just a crush....nothing more and nothing less.

It is a win or lose proposition.

How can you invest your heart without even knowing if he will accept.

Don't you invest in something that you believe will bring you favorable results.

[nubbie]

A crush is nothing but an infatuation. I don't think they're anything but temporary. Temporary because it'll either turn into a relationship or you'll get over it later and stop liking them. If something goes wrong with a crush, it isn't going to hurt as much as it would with a boyfriend/girlfriend.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

Uhm, you do realize you've just compared a broken heart to physical pain, damage, and suffering?

Yes I know, my point is nearly everything in this world can hurt you.
If you don't wanna get hurt, just do nothing.

[ShadowMax76]

Uhm, you do realize you've just compared a broken heart to physical pain, damage, and suffering?

o_O' a broken heart does involve physical pain, damage [..somewhat], and suffering [cut. cut. LOl -ahem-].

What does the face of a heart breaker look like?

x_X' i think... 'player'. and those guys just look fancy and all smiles to use someone.

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hm.. you should take risks more. then you can be a person who has enough confidence in asking any guy you want out. moar luff for all. <3 _ confidence, so i've learned, is the ability to take risks and come out happy to do it again -whether successful or not-.

-poke- a crush is a crush. after a lil thought, i guess it could be 'falling in love at the infatuation level, just without the other person knowing and/or reciprocating' - a little serious. rather than a small fancy towards a pretty person.

x_x' but ... you should only invest as much as you want back from him. otherwise you're just throwing money into space. [<3Lol]
..then there's the fact some people are just happy to do things for their crush, ...just because it makes them happy. xP

[Seraphyx]

o_O' a broken heart does involve physical pain, damage [..somewhat], and suffering [cut. cut. LOl -ahem-].


x_X' i think... 'player'. and those guys just look fancy and all smiles to use someone.

_
hm.. you should take risks more. then you can be a person who has enough confidence in asking any guy you want out. moar luff for all. <3 _ confidence, so i've learned, is the ability to take risks and come out happy to do it again -whether successful or not-.

-poke- a crush is a crush. after a lil thought, i guess it could be 'falling in love at the infatuation level, just without the other person knowing and/or reciprocating' - a little serious. rather than a small fancy towards a pretty person.

x_x' but ... you should only invest as much as you want back from him. otherwise you're just throwing money into space. [<3Lol]
..then there's the fact some people are just happy to do things for their crush, ...just because it makes them happy. xP

Wow much we go at this every time? Broken heart is emotional damage. Broken heart syndrome is physical damage, but is caused by emotional trauma. Directly speaking, Broken heart is emotional damage. Physical damage doesn't come until later.

[hmong_lubpaj]

go for it. if you never let yourself fall you'll never know what could have been

[kivvi]

well my first MAJOR crush in middle school ended really badly. >.< I asked him to go with me to a dance, and if he didn't like me, then just as friends (we had been friends in elementary school, and ended up going to the same middle school). but he stopped talking to me and told everyone he thought i was a freak.

wow... somehow I've never really been able to get over that, i guess. I mean, I'm not mad at him, and I don't care that he did that (it was a reaaally long time ago) but I'm a lot more cautious with guys and my feelings now. :/

i think you should go for it, though. even if he has a negative reaction, just remember that in the big picture it hardly matters. don't let it get to you as much as i let my bad experience get to me. good luck!

[Lie]

so what do you guys think? is life about taking risks? or sometimes is it better to play it safe? or how much liking is okay for someone? O_O

I would put very, very little heart into a crush if you can help it. First, because if the crush isn't mutual you'll end up hurt, and second, if the crush doesn't lead to a relationship you'll end up hurt. Better to avoid really investing in someone emotionally until you're sure it's going to go somewhere. It's hard for most people to control how strongly they feel though.

That doesn't mean don't pursue a relationship with that person (I absolutely would), it just means that you shouldn't jump to any conclusions about what might come out of it.

[K_a_n]

Let's put it this way, you only have one life. If you really like someone enough to want to pursue something more than admiration, then I say go for it. Of course it takes guts, but many things in the world requires guts.

[grainsofrain]

It's just a crush.. those usually do not hurt as much as a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.. at least in my experience.
You can't always be like this everytime you have a crush so I say go for it.

It's about taking risks, because you could just pass by a chance where you end up with someone that you've always been looking for.

[hippiehop]

if you can't risk it then you can never truly love someone.

[and i sayd]

go for it what do you have to lose? a broken heart? those can be repaired in no time

[c0lap1nada]

Life's all about taking risks. You don't want to take risks? Then why not commit suicide.