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I Don't Like Kissing is that normal thing?

#1 User is offline   chocopocky 

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Posted 16 March 2009 - 09:20 PM

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Posted 16 March 2009 - 09:25 PM

Well with anything.. practice makes perfect. ^^;

I know for my first kiss it was kinda awkward (for me) because I was completely new to it.. but now it's just...... woooooww~ hahaha.. biggrin.gif

Only thing I can say is to keep practicing!! sad.gif
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Posted 16 March 2009 - 09:44 PM

well i thought the first time was kind of gross..and then it became less gross.. and then it became addictive hehe
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Posted 16 March 2009 - 09:45 PM

I assure you that it will get better lol.

It is not all about tongue swirling or something like that which you have mentioned lol. It requires a certain technique to make it just right. It is hard to describe but when the two of you have it just right, you will know. Besides, it shouldn't be all that slobbery lol. Don't give up hope just yet, i am sure you'll like it eventually.

Good luck.

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#5 User is offline   Rainbow-lotus 

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Posted 16 March 2009 - 09:47 PM

i dont get it?

How can u get into a serious relationship in 2 weeks?????? that doesnt make sense..........
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#6 User is offline   Seraphyx 

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Posted 16 March 2009 - 09:55 PM

It's a personal choice, don't worry about it. There are people that don't like to hug, don't like to hold hands, and don't like to kiss. It's no big deal. In the end, I still doubt your relationship is at all serious.

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Posted 16 March 2009 - 09:57 PM

Don't trip, kissing is just part of a whole equation of chemistry. So you don't like kissing, either it'll come in time or you'll adjust other physical affection signs to compensate.

It's not a conscious thing, so don't "work" at it. smile.gif just keep being together and it'll develop.
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Posted 16 March 2009 - 11:10 PM

maybe tell him to chew gum or eat chocolate right before haha


that's kinda awkward practicing making out.. do both of you guys think/know the other is bad? D:
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Posted 16 March 2009 - 11:37 PM

You get used to it. It's just a new feeling. Sure, you may be horrible at it, or you may not be. It's not like you have anyone to compare it to wink.gif
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Posted 16 March 2009 - 11:45 PM

I had a gf who used to hate kissing... needless to say we broke up soon after. But don't feel discouraged, my first kiss I was so nervous and my heart was pumping like crazy, I'm pretty sure I was bad.
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#11 User is offline   sixth. 

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Posted 17 March 2009 - 12:12 AM

with my ex.. i dreaded kissing. i thought i was weird, because all my friends would be gushing about how great this or that guy kisses or whatever.
with my current bf (who, to make things confusing, was actually my first kiss).. i love kissing haha. sometimes we end up being the annoying couples who go overboard on PDA, but oh well phew.gif

you'll most likely get used to it.
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Posted 17 March 2009 - 01:37 AM

you'll get used to it, you should probably give it more time
don't over think it, it will come naturally smile.gif
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#13 User is offline   Apple.Mint 

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Posted 17 March 2009 - 07:12 AM

go practice with a girl friend who knows how to kiss =O

she'll teach you the right way hahah
since your bf would be jealous if you do it with a guy therefore girl is the solution!
then again..don't like "practice"
i mean we're all teenagers i'm sure at some point the hormones will kick in
and you'll start to kiss o.o?
hahah i don't kiss that often with my bf either
i'm not sure why o.O
i love him very much but when we kiss it's usually just lips, no tongue
only when we ahem...is there some tongue actions involved xD
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Posted 17 March 2009 - 07:44 AM

well, i guess, he just loves you that's why even though he's bad at kissing, he still wants to kiss you.
how about try smack first?
and if you both are feeling comfy or want to do more, then, give it a try.

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Posted 17 March 2009 - 10:17 AM

Thanks for the advice, everyone!

You know what's sorry? I've also been looking up videos on youtube.. and they're not very helpful.

lol

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Posted 17 March 2009 - 10:23 AM

lolzzzz kissing is not just tongues swirling in your mouth
my first kiss was like that tho, really slobbery haha
but practice makes perfect, yeah
just go for it slowly, like tantalize him, tease him and then touch his lips lightly, then you build into that
n really just go with the flow, be nice for a sec, then be passionate, then pull back and tease him a bit, surprise him, make it fun.u should enjoy it.
i like kissing biggrin.gif he he
now go and practice!!

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Posted 17 March 2009 - 10:39 AM

I remember my first kiss was kinda weird.
At first I hesitated because I thought my breath 'might' stink and afraid it might give my ex gf a bad impression. Because I thought kissing might have some kind of strange taste. But now it's nothing. After I learned that kissing doesn't have any kind of taste. You just have to practice it until you're good at it. then you'll start to like it and enjoy it.

Usually, its always the guy who does the move. But my first kiss was sorta my ex gf's lead. (how embarrassing ._." )


Now, I'm even quite good at it and addicted to it. I even kiss my lady friends sometimes. tongue.gif
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#18 User is offline   moot11 

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Posted 17 March 2009 - 12:19 PM

It is normal.

You have not romanticized kissing and therefore it lacks the cultural connotations that is usually attached to it. Kissing without said connotations is not inherently enjoyable, romantic, etc. We give it meaning.

Anyways, my first couple of kisses were quite awkward as well. But it does get better with time.

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Posted 17 March 2009 - 12:29 PM

QUOTE (chocopocky @ Mar 17 2009, 01:20 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I Don't Like Kissing, is that normal thing?

It's not a normal thing. In all likelihood, it means you're going to die alone. With the exception of your 17 cats named after Simon and Garfunkel songs, of course. =(
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Posted 17 March 2009 - 02:23 PM

^
whoaaaa that was harsh
it depends on the person. mayb u and your bf just lack the proper chemistry between the two of u, kissing is a physical thing after all
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