[Gummy Dogs]

Hmm.. I've always wondered. although this applies to others more than some, and probably for the younger people , how do you overcome various pressures and insecurities a relationship poses? Although i've never had a boy/girlfriend myself, I don't think I've gone a week in school where I haven't seen couple X being made fun of or laughed at, or "omg X asked Y out and now they're together! john teshING LOLLOL!" and you know, all the teasing that goes on. I feel sorry for those people sometimes.. although they just ignore it, go along with it, and or just act as if theyre the only people in the world..

are their also set "rules" that you have to follow when you're with that significant other? sometimes you see that girl who complains about her bf 'cause he never takes her out on dates or never, hahaha, holds her hand in public. I was just thinking.. where the hell do you learn to do these "expected" things? copy what other couples do? read how to date for dummies? ask your mom? well idk, I haven't got a clue.

[Mryanhon]

uhh i think you're worrying too much ~ these things just come, and you just know ...

when you're with ur s/o, as long as you're happy, its good. So like, all those stupid mini cooper about "how do you kiss? how do you hug? how do you hold hands" - all those are stupid things people think you need to LEARN. Just let it come to you, you should feel comfortable enough when you have a boyfriend to not worry how you kiss or hug properly or whatever.

As for the teasing .. some ppl enjoy it, and take it like they're temporarily famous, and gladly becomes the center of attention of other ppl's conversations.

[Gummy Dogs]

uhh i think you're worrying too much ~ these things just come, and you just know ...

when you're with ur s/o, as long as you're happy, its good. So like, all those stupid mini cooper about "how do you kiss? how do you hug? how do you hold hands" - all those are stupid things people think you need to LEARN. Just let it come to you, you should feel comfortable enough when you have a boyfriend to not worry how you kiss or hug properly or whatever.

As for the teasing .. some ppl enjoy it, and take it like they're temporarily famous, and gladly becomes the center of attention of other ppl's conversations.

that's exactly what I thought before I posted. too bad "these things just come" is hard to understand.

[Mryanhon]

ok then, did you learn from someone how to be around friends? did you learn how to talk to your parents? did you learn how to talk to a teacher?

maybe you did learn, but do you know from who? we dont either, theres no definitive answer, but the fact is, you WILL know it

[Gummy Dogs]

hmmm.. okay. when the time comes, i'll just follow my bliss and it'll all come to me.. somehow. thanks.

[ShadowMax76]

1st paragraph can be answered with _ jealousy. and discrimination. majorly immaturity.

2ndly.. it's apart of your inner animal. ;] you'll learn. _ it's like the kiss . or hug. or poetry. or the many courting rituals like spending at least 10-30minutes before a date in front of a mirror trying to look good. now how did the entire world, oblivious to each other's existence, learn to do these things? :D

_ as long as you don't over think things and just let your heart do the operating of your body. o-0' otherwise you'd be like.. an awkward date. be confident in what you heart wants. :]

+ yes. people make shuffle dedications because others make them. that's not natural. ...though showing off sorta is. o_O' hm..

[green.is.clean]

lol! dont be scared it's just little school kids being goofy! XD
there isnt really any rules atleast you dont get "busy" everything else is fine.

[Cγиσsυяε`]

In my opinion, there aren't rules when you're with someone you like or love very much. You two should have your own chemistry and understand each other's boundaries, and that's what can make rules(If you'd like to call it that. I'd rather think of it as knowing your loved one enough to not cause any problems <3).

And as for issues with friends, just don't care about what others think. If you live your life only caring for other people's approval, it'd be either very hard to find happiness or you won't find it at all.

"Be who you want to be, not who others chose to see" ;D

[mrskimjinho]

First off, ignore the people who tease. They're just immature little turds.
Second, you learn those "rules" gradually as you get to know your s/o. Some people like PDAs, some don't. Some people feel the need to talk to/see their s/o everyday, other don't. Those are just things that you pick up before or after you start a relationship with a person.