[Maos]

right now, my friend likes this guy soo much. I think she can do so much better. She's educated with a degree from university with a decent GPA, and is going to get a 2nd degree soon in nursing. She has a good looking face and slim. she's hardworking and nice. She never hurts anyone's self-esteem. She's also conservative and is a virgin at an age of 23 .
He, on the other hand, is not really all that educated. He went to high school, and college, but he didn't even end up finishing college. He quit because he hates school. He's very intelligent with an IQ of over 130, but obviously, he doesn't put it to good use because he's so lazy with school (what a shame. If i have his IQ i would put it to good use and get into grad school, etc. o well lols). He's so amazingly shallow, it's unbelievable. And he slept with multiple prositutes, had sex with girls when they were both drunk, flirts majorly with other girls when he has a gf, etc. Basically, he's not loyal at all. He gets angry kind of easily. He's not career-oriented nor ambitious, doesn't have much money, and has no car. He's not particularly attractive. He face is very average, short (5'5"), but he is muscular and strong.

And what makes me mad is that he loves her personality, but has the nerve to reject her just because she has small boobs! (She's slim). It's similar to this thread here that i read quite recently.

I mean, if this guy is God's gift to women, then i would understand why he would reject her, and why my friend would like him so much. But obviously, he's not, so i don't know why my friend is still head over heels over him -.-

do you guys have similar stories to share?

[whitephoenix]

He might just be her first love that's why she like him. I don't know!

[ajlee613]

its not about because, its about even though.

its like the curse of a siren, singing a beautiful song so that men fall in love with them. even if it is the truest of love, no one will ever know, and it will be taken for granted like the fakest of love.

but she could just be immature when it comes to relationships and is just totaly blinded by emotions and u are totaly right and u should get her out of that little kid mind set, but if she is expirenced and all, then maybe she sees somthing deeper to the guy that u totaly missed.

[AlongTheBoat]

well, i am not him or your friend. i don't know what she can see from that dude. but i mean relationship type of stuff really have nothing to do with the IQ, how much money you have, your looks,etc. you can say that oh, that only happens in those dramas, there ain't people who could just fall in love without looking at that person's face. but who know? maybe your friend is those type who believe and feel like like he was the one for her. or maybe there is something about that guy that you didn't know or see from her point of view. as for the guy...there are possiblities...maybe how you said he didn't have enough education as your friend and he felt that he is not good enough for her so he turn her down...or maybe he just simple does not like her in a romance way. hoping that this could help....but you know...if your friend lead to things she shouldn't be doing because she got turn down, you know what i mean right? then you should really do something about her and persude her to move on...:]

[jhealizzie]

oh, LOVE.

love is really blind.

[GreenTeaSparkles]

if she does end up going out with him, she'll end up deeply hurt since you said he's so disloyal to his gfs. So i think it's a great thing she got rejected. Better to end it fast than later when she falls even deeper for him. Maybe that's why he rejected her too, because he's afraid he'll hurt her.

[IlikeChicken]

Well obviously, she hasn't learned what "douchebag" is yet.

or

you just see him differently

[plegend2007]

I guess she is a sucker for losers, idk

I still don't get the part where he is GOD'S gift to women...no job, no money, no car, no goals, short, average looking, no personality, and etc....am i missing something here.

I thought she was a smart gal. I guess you better sit her down and really talk some sense into her.

[Tommy.L]

I guess she is a sucker for losers, idk

I still don't get the part where he is GOD'S gift to women...no job, no money, no car, no goals, short, average looking, no personality, and etc....am i missing something here.

I thought she was a smart gal. I guess you better sit her down and really talk some sense into her.

hm i think the OP means that the guy is not God's gift to women, which was why she said it's obvious he's not. which is SO true, he's nowhere near god's gift to women.

Well, you said he's really intelligent and msucular, right? maybe she has thing for these types of men