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Falling In Love With A Gay Guy! What shall be done!

#1 User is offline   whitephoenix 

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Posted 17 March 2009 - 09:25 PM

A nice girl I know is currently head over heel for a guy who is supposedly "gay." We're not 100% sure if he's really as gay as he said or if he is actually pretending to be gay because he doesn't feel the same way as the girl. She already told him how she feel and he replied that it's not her, it's him.

Now, what should the girl who like the gay guy do. She said that he is everything she imagine in a boyfriend except for one thing (being gay).
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#2 User is offline   Seraphyx 

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Posted 17 March 2009 - 09:27 PM

She needs to move on, enough said. It's not like she can "un-gay" him so it is a lost cause for her.

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Posted 17 March 2009 - 09:54 PM

QUOTE (Seraphyx @ Mar 17 2009, 10:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
She needs to move on, enough said. It's not like she can "un-gay" him so it is a lost cause for her.


lmfao i love the term you used. "ungay"

yeah i agree with the above poster. she should just move on.
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Posted 17 March 2009 - 09:56 PM

Girl shouldn't hang on the thread and expect to make sweaters out of it. Cut the strings loose and move on.

You can find plenty of other great guys. You can't make a gay guy straight. That's silly.

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#5 User is offline   LazyAzian 

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Posted 17 March 2009 - 09:57 PM

Impossible.

Unless your friend magically turns into a pretty boy.
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Posted 17 March 2009 - 09:58 PM

forget & move on.

he's not worth the wait.

OR

be a BOY biggrin.gif
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Posted 17 March 2009 - 10:06 PM

He's called GAY for a reason.
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Posted 17 March 2009 - 10:15 PM

idk, if she can, she can.

I know that my friend ungayed a guy once. @_@

and my other friend makes guys turn gay.
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#9 User is offline   daulism 

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Posted 17 March 2009 - 10:35 PM

"It's not you, it's me".

Don't straight guys also use this one? And besides... you're not 100% sure.
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Posted 17 March 2009 - 10:49 PM

He likes penis. Not va-jjs.
Get that through her head.
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Posted 17 March 2009 - 10:50 PM

Honey step back and let the fellas through! LMAO!

If your unsure if he is gay, then maybe you should test him with some guy? hahaha... but that's kinda mean! >.<

But it's just a suggestion!
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Posted 17 March 2009 - 10:52 PM

QUOTE (LazyAzian @ Mar 18 2009, 12:57 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Impossible.

Unless your friend magically turns into a pretty boy.


Now there's an answer
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#13 User is offline   nubbie 

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Posted 17 March 2009 - 10:53 PM

I've been attracted to a really good looking guy before. He was fcuking gorgeous. And, you guessed it, he was gay. I was quite disappointed. ='(
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Posted 17 March 2009 - 11:00 PM

QUOTE (nubbie @ Mar 18 2009, 01:53 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I've been attracted to a really good looking guy before. He was fcuking gorgeous. And, you guessed it, he was gay. I was quite disappointed. ='(

effing gorgeous men are usually gay as you probably know sad.gif .

I'm guessingyour friend likes him because he's really hot? Just tell her to move on, there are plenty of fish in the sea. No need to drool over a gay boy who will never like her back.
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Posted 17 March 2009 - 11:14 PM

oh and i had this crush when i was in 1st grade. I never saw him after elementary school ended but then in my sophmore year of high school i found out that he transferred and was in one of my classes. He was just as good looking as ever. And then I found out he turned gay. fml LOL
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Posted 17 March 2009 - 11:14 PM

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She said that he is everything she imagine in a boyfriend except for one thing (being gay).


I mean if he is playing on the same team, it would make it almost impossible sad.gif ...But i have heard that gays make really good best friends, maybe she can have him as another girlfriend unsure.gif .


QUOTE (GreenTeaSparkles @ Mar 18 2009, 12:00 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
effing gorgeous men are usually gay as you probably know sad.gif .


I resent that remark tongue.gif not all gorgeous men are gay.....
There are some gorgeous men still out there straight as a ruler wink.gif


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Posted 18 March 2009 - 01:36 AM

Ugh, unfortunately I know what she's feeling... kind of. I got really attached to this guy and he told me he liked me, and then slowly I was falling for him... but I wasn't falling lightly, I fell REALLY hard. And so then one day, I find out hes dating some guy and my first thought was just a plain WHAT? O___O and when I spoke to him he said hes always been gay, but I'm kind of almost 50/50 positive he wasn't. He had met a guy probably like 2 months prior to all this, and the guy turned 4 straight guys I knew gay. And so when I found out who he was dating I was so mad, that guy would turn every guy he'd meet into his new boyfriend. I was sooo sad, and hurt because I felt lied to that he liked me and everything, eventually I got over him and he said he still had feelings for me. WTF? I just totally forgot about him, and then this came up and I remembered but I don't care anymore really tongue.gif

She needs to get over him though. If she keeps getting attached to him it'll be worse in the longrun.

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Posted 18 March 2009 - 02:11 AM

QUOTE (uh-ohxev @ Mar 18 2009, 08:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
...and the guy turned 4 straight guys I knew gay.
....that guy would turn every guy he'd meet into his new boyfriend.


o_o' you know.. to gays, it's like.. the holy grail to 'turn someone gay'. he probably just took some guys out of the closet. o-o' otherwise it's just impossible.. _ >>" was he really really feminine? guys can admit to being attracted to femininity . but... o-o'

_ ahh...this [thread] makes a great love story. o_O' reminds me of http://www.onemanga.com/You%27re_My_Girlfriend/ _ only it has a happy ending. o-0'

_ x_X" if he's old enough to be able to tell his own sexuality, then there's no hope.
at least gays aren't the only ones prone to falling in love with people that won't ever love 'em back. x_X' not sure if that's a good thing..
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Posted 18 March 2009 - 05:23 PM

Well......he's gay......so.....unless if she's secretly a guy.....she should move on. Being friends with him might make her fall for him more.......so yeah..... haha. There is a rare chance she can turn him bi or straight. This guy I knew turned a straight guy gay......and my friend (that's a girl) turned a gay guy straight. Strange things can happen....... O.o
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Posted 18 March 2009 - 06:05 PM

QUOTE (한스 ㅋㅋ @ Mar 17 2009, 11:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
He's called GAY for a reason.


agreed
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