[xkrn4lyfx]

well i got a group of friends from high school and we hang out every month or two. but thing is, our hanging out consists of eating korean all-you-can-eat bbq. afterwards we got nothing to do, well they almost always want to go to karaoke, but i hate it so i always reject. so in the end we just all just call it a night and head home.

so basically we eat and then part, imo it's cool, but i would like ideas on stuff to do instead of going home at 9 o'clock on a saturday night. i've suggested clubbing many times but not even 1 of them wants to go... said they'll only go if i can find them dates >_>

we're all over 21 and korean and total 4 guys if that makes a difference, so any ideas? what do you guys do when you hang out?

[709394]

ahahaha wut lame dudes (your friends) , scared to pickup chicks at the club? u should force them to go
single guys night out? casino? poker night?

[derrek]

I play a lot of pool / darts... and there's some tennis / basketball / bowling in the future.

[~ BunnyliciouS ~]

Play interactive games, like Nintendo Wii or Guitar Hero

... or strip poker.

[Meenuh]

I know exactly what you mean. It seems like there's less and less to do. I don't particularly enjoy going drinking and stuff so yeah. We always end up watching a movie or going to a cafe. There are some nice cafes here so we just sit there and chit chat. Lol. There's always bowling or pool.

[Millou]

maybe go to a bar, caffee,... for a drink keeping up with the latest news, etc.

[Prot]

Yeah I know what you mean. Me and my friends generally just go to someone's house to talk and chill then eat somewhere and maybe get drinks. We're planning to go on trips sometime soon though like paintballing, and snowboarding when our schedules don't conflict as much.

[phoenix rise]

go drinking at one of your houses while playing play station and talking mini cooper.

[W-K]

Accept that you're havin' a dudes night out and sit around and play video games or something..

lol

I wouldn't suggest clubbing as a group of 4 dudes, since thats like imminent failure unless one of you is an amazing wingman.

Pool halls, bowling, karaoke, poker, bars, lounges, sitting around and video games...

Some of those are only really any good if you've got some girls to call out. If you don't, you gotta resign yourself to havin (like I said) a guys night out.

[Bojack]

Guys your age(atleast that how it is in my country)love to go to clubs with a date or without.Clubs are one of the best places to pick up girls.

[jesus.shuttlesworth]

usually me and my buds get high before or after dinner then do the town, clubs, casinos, bowling, bball

[x0ny]

As gay as it may sound. We go shopping haha and then eat. then silly random photographies. fishing is good for dudes!

[2redJake]

I don't know how old you are, but I'm 23. I'm at one of those pivotal moment's in a person's life, I guess. Many of my good friends from hs/college have moved away from socal with jobs, grad school, etc. Pretty soon, we'll all be caught up doing our own thing w/ careers and families. Even now, the few of us left here are finding it more and more difficult to get together.

It sounds like u guys are good friends. My suggestion is, fwiw, just try to hang out as much as possible. Doesn't matter what you do, cuz soon enough, things will change, and I have a feeling it'll never be the same again. Ah well. c'est la vie, right?

[hikki]

Play some cards or dominoes for cash... always a good way to pass the time.

And... no to the Karaoke sausage fest... you have to mix it up.

[tasty]

i'm so over going to bars. i much prefer what you guys are doing now. dinner + something after.

or just hanging out at someone's house is heaps of fun.

[Temoin la Nuit]

Clubbing is a lot better when it's a small group of guys.. if you go with gals, they usually expect you to hang around them all night. So boring..

Go with a small group and just go pick up whatever gals you see that interests you.

[[HyuNi]]

I don't know how old you are, but I'm 23. I'm at one of those pivotal moment's in a person's life, I guess. Many of my good friends from hs/college have moved away from socal with jobs, grad school, etc. Pretty soon, we'll all be caught up doing our own thing w/ careers and families. Even now, the few of us left here are finding it more and more difficult to get together.

It sounds like u guys are good friends. My suggestion is, fwiw, just try to hang out as much as possible. Doesn't matter what you do, cuz soon enough, things will change, and I have a feeling it'll never be the same again. Ah well. c'est la vie, right?

That's some really good advice.

I don't have many 'guys night out' anymore.
Even going out to eat, grabbing a beer afterwards, and talk our heads off about about cars/business/women/sports like we're the know all and be all of those subjects sounds so good! haha

These days, it seems like everyone around my age is obsessed about their future; whether it be financial stability or finding 'love'. I've been caught up in it too until I recently realized how I'd been living like some kind of material possession and love craving zombie. I decided to get off my two-track mindset and exercise my brain a bit more by reading, meeting more friends new & old, and stop watching the boob tube and expand my hobbies.

[clee86]

These days, it seems like everyone around my age is obsessed about their future; whether it be financial stability or finding 'love'. I've been caught up in it too until I recently realized how I'd been living like some kind of material possession and love craving zombie. I decided to get off my two-track mindset and exercise my brain a bit more by reading, meeting more friends new & old, and stop watching the boob tube and expand my hobbies.

That's exactly like how it is with my old high school friends.
Life seems more demanding as you grow older and the past things we used to do just doesn't seem as much fun or fulfilling and it seems like finding financial stability and love is a requirement.

I'd think just dinner and hanging out is good, not necessarily needing to do new, exciting things all the time.
I like to hang out and relax with friends and leave the excitement, etc for other things in life.

[EpicLifeStyle]

420 is coming up, if you know what i mean. you should start preparing for that?

[Pogichinoy]

Go clubbing, take out the boat for the day, etc.