[peaches*]

I've noticed that I pay attention the opposite's sex's actions (unconsciously) even their TINIEST actions such as

-eye contact (dull eyes or lit up eyes)
-body language (towards me or away)
-mannerism (polite to everyone or no one)
-acts of kindness or nonchalance

Do you notice small actions from the opposite sex without trying to?

And with these observations and based on this, you decide how much you like them or how much of a potential partner they might be?

[AHLEENA]

Wow.

I wish I was as observant as you without trying!

[squishybear]

Yep. Except I try to pay attention

Nonverbal communication is very important!

[darae]

yeah

and then i realized i'm overanalyzing things and blowing it way out of proportion so i stopped doing it

[plegend2007]

You know what, now that i think about it....YES.

mini cooper, i do that. Damn, is that being shallow? Just wondering.

Now i am going to be self conscience every time i catch myself doing that....great, thanks a lot lol.

[mintcracker]

if you like sb you notice little details, and remember things they tell you


that's why one of the major signs sb likes you is if they remember random things you tell them lol.

[Seraphyx]

I actually analyze them consciously. I look out for these very minute actions. So yeah, I don't notice the details, I examine them.

[ledolce]

I do but consciously analyzing ... lol
It maybe good at times but sometimes people think
it's kinda creepy. ><

[mal3ficum]

i dont 'analyze' but there are times where i notice little things like expression/tone and stuff and other times where i can be...oblivious.

[Shuga]

Ohohoh, I like analysing things. It's kind of fun. I think people who are good at sensing body language have an upper hand because then they can adjust their flow of conversation/own body language to better suit the person they are interacting with. I know that it often gives me an advantage when I notice someone not particularly interested in what I have to say but tuning in to be polite, and I just change the subject and haha - their eyes light up and become happy and yeah, it's all good.

But I'm not a master in analysing this sort of thing and it's true - you can't base everything, your whole life an dlove philsophy, on what you see, what you observe, even what you think. I think that's why it's so awesome to be able to have faith in another being, a bigger being who you know you can trust to do what's best for you - every day, every moment of your life. Yes I'm a Christian and it feels good to be one!

[nubbie]

I usually notice when I think they like me cause the way they act stands out from how other guys act around me.

Or maybe I notice cause I might secretly like them but not know it yet.

[hippiehop]

I don't notice the eyes or the body language but I do notice mannerisms... ways of speaking... etc.

[Twisted_fatE]

yeah i have to say i only notice those things if i like someone, but i tend to overanalyze their actions too and think every little thing they do is a 'sign'....rawr, it's one of my most irritating traits....i thought i was over that kind of thinking once i left high school, but NOPE!...it still happens. however, this one time this guy came to my job and we were talking and he was like 'u should come visit', so then i thought hmmm maybe he likes me, but it's funny, cause he came pretty much every weekend and we'd talk, but i thought nothing of it...and was totally oblivious. once he said that, then i started trying to think of his actions and such toward me to see if i could gather evidence as to whether or not he likes/liked me. roar, i hate my brain sometimes lol.

[vikkay]

Been through this, done with the arguements about it.
Most girls tend to notice every single detail, guys on the other hand, look passed it.

[Gummy Dogs]

Its even more fun when you're aware of these body language things and take it back to whoever you like, and seeing if they notice

[XxKhmerBoiXx]

nope im not very observant i tend to either stare or space out lol....

[RYUUSEi]

I'm very observant to people in general, so yes, I notice the tiniest things guys do as well. It's not that I overanalyze their actions, it's just that I notice the things people do; their body language, way of speaking (choice of words or tone of the voice) and such.

[Lurkett]

yeah i do that all of the time. even when i'm in the library supposedly studying, i'm looking around at people.
from their walk, to their clothes, how the talk, joke around, etc...
most times i do it just randomly, but sometimes there's just nothing better to do. lol
i think i do it to get a better since of the type of person they are w/o talking to them or to just look. idk

[myxo]

Er, I'm not very observant when it comes to body language, tone of voice, and very fine details. Unless if someone specifically told me something or gave me very obvious hints, I wouldn't arise at any conclusion by myself. When it comes to a crush or someone I like, I'm biased in how I interpret their actions/manners/etc.

[xxiaoMEI]

Thats like my everyday life..
I overthink things WAYY too much too.
and if i like someone, I remember everything they tell or show me..
o_o
creepy?