[.flyhigh]

So here's my situation...

I just moved to Australia 2 months (ish) ago and moved to a new school, were currently in the 7th week now and since week 4-5 I've been a total loner eating lunch by myself, sitting by myself etc. Whenever my friends at my old school asked me if I made new friends I tell them i have. (cuz they'd get really worried if I'd tell them I was a loner ><;) and because I'm shy its super hard for me to be open to people so lately I've been trying to open up more, be nice etc. But then theres this boy who's in my year (but for some reason he's 2 years older 0.0) At first it was cool, he was just like a friend and stuff we'd laugh at his randomness and stuff, since he's like a class clown (but sometimes it gets too annoying ==; ) and lately he's been touching me and stuff, but just like rubbing my back and pusingn me towards him and he says I'm his girl ==" but it makes me feel very uncomfortable and I'd really like him to stop but I'm too shy to say anything and I don't want to be mean and say "Go away!" so I have no idea what to do ^^p Today I got my friend to tell him I felt weird with him touching me so she told him to stop . So he did stop. But whenever she's not around he does it ><; So could you please help me? And he asks me to go watch a movie with him and stuff and I'm not the type of person that can say no =o="

And I'm 13 and he's 15

[Seraphyx]

Learn to stand up for yourself. Don't force yourself to be comfortable, tell him to leave you alone. Tell him straight up or make and excuse next time he asks you about the movies. Just tell him you don't like the physical touching or have a friend who will tell him, tell him.

[.flyhigh]

Haha thanks ^^ I'm working on trying to stand up for myself ><; I made an excuse about how my parents like having family time on certain days but he keeps pestering @__@ I really want him to know that I'm not interested but I'm not so sure how =\ But lately theres this boy I really like and all of my friends and his friends try to get us together, so maybe I should make it obvious by going out with someone else? ?__? sorry I'm so new at this ><;

[NoctisFan]

learn to say no!!!! it's very important!

[sixth.]

as the previous posters have said, you just need to stand up for yourself and say no.
it might be hard, especially since you're in a new school and barely know anyone
but if its bothering you, you need to do something about it.

(i saw you're from perth too?)

[.flyhigh]

hehe yeah thanks ^-^ Its hard for because I was brought up to be very submissive. and we'd have to move around alot because of my dads work, so I moved from the Philippines to New Zealand and didn't know any english so I was a total loner for 2 years so at that time I started being incredibly shy. And yea sixth. 8D how old are you? all the perthians I meet are always 16+ T^T I really want to make friends with soompiers from Perth that are my age D8

[her_heart]

maybe he likes you.

i dont think a guy that doesn't like me or even my guy friends would be touchy with me even s o rather asking me on a date to the movies.

[hippiehop]

It's obvious he likes you....

Learning to say no is one of the most beneficial things I've ever learned.

[vikkay]

Aw you guys are still so young (: I think he really likes you or is interested.
Because guys dont pick on a girl for no apparent reason (:

[wonderfulyou]

i would have just give him the finger

[princevegetam]

BEAT HIM UP!

KICK HIS ASS!

[cocolateBUN12]

i would have just give him the finger

^ LMFAO..LOL
well, guys don't flirt or touch girls for no reasons. He's interested in you =]
does he do touches anyone else?

[xo.snipperssnappers.wha?(:]

try telling him to stop verbally, and if he continues. just slap him .

[.flyhigh]

her_heart Yeah he keeps saying I'm his girl and he got really all like "Nobody likes me cuz I'm ugly" etc on me when I told him I didn't like him =\

hippiehop Yeah, I keep telling him to stop touching me today then he got all "Why? why? why? x100" @_@ I just wanted to kick him. I said "It's creepy." and at the lockers he was saying "I love you." AHHHHHHH ><" how do i get him to leave me alone?!

vikkay he's my friend and I really can't think of him in that way @__@ AH i feel really mean and everything >__<;

wonderfulyou Did that xD hahaha and I slammed my locker door on his face

princevegetam I kick him where the sun don't shine O_O and it doesnt seem to be working xD

cocolateBUN12 he actually does O-O but not as much as me D; Cuz he can take advantage of me cuz I cant say no while the others are all like "Oh john tesh off you annoying ratbag" =X

xo.snipperssnappers.wha?(: hehee thanks =P he's kinda...too tall for me to reach him @_@

[jhealizzie]

say no to him nicely or jokingly.
like for example, "aw, i am not free on that day(he invited you to see a movie, right),let's do it next time. (smile)"


aw.
you guys are still young.

2 years older is just enough for girls.
because we girls matured 2 years earlier than them.
(did i make any sense?)
well yea'.

i think, he likes you.
OR
he keeps on being with you because you were alone by yourself,
no friends and all.

But,
if he keeps on doing it.
don't talk to him.

but please, don't hurt him.
he just want to be friends with you.
although he's overdoing it,
if you ignore him, he will surely notice his wrong moves.

[prisonerzero]

You really need to suck it up and say no, otherwise he'll keep doing it.

Since you say he's still not leaving you alone, tell a teacher or the principal.

[saebom]

Give time for Bomi to fly to Perth and get pass the securities in the airport with her frying pans... don't worry. Bomi will take care of everything. =D

Seriously though, you really need to say no. D= (Sounding like a broken record here...) Or else I really will have to fly over there. If you've rejected him already and had your friends tell him to go away... and he still touches you... Psh, that's sexual harassment right there. Start yelling, "I need an adult!" <--- Just kidding about the whole "adult" thing... unless it has to resort to that. O___o

I understand that he likes you, but you've already said that you didn't like him, right? He needs to accept that and move on already. If he's only trying to be your friend, he's going overboard. Jeez, woman. You're like a boy magnet. What happened to F4? You never talk about them anymore. T__T Everyone's attracted to the Potato charm, ne? =3 Well, unless you want more guys like him after you... stop being so darn adorable. *huggle tackle glomps le Potato*

This better blow over soon. D= Or else I might have to send Han Geng over there.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

No wonder.... he's hitting at the wrong age of girls.............
Well I'm sure you got enough advice already