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#1 User is offline   happy_tomato 

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#2 User is offline   Painterlyy 

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Posted 20 March 2009 - 06:43 AM

Well for me. It's all in the flirting. lol xD
Try making a lot of eye contact and hold it for a long time. If he holds it too, then at least you know that he was thinking of you.
When holding eye contact, try looking away first. It's kind of like...a mystery.
When you catch him looking at you, smile at him. Keep it simple.
When you are sitting next to him, try making your legs touch. biggrin.gif
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#3 User is offline   qquinto 

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Posted 20 March 2009 - 10:47 AM

lol you're asking in so many topics.. you must really be nervous.
just ask him out to do some 1 on 1 activities and make sure it gives out the date vibe.
make sure you don't seem like you flirt with any other guys; make him feel like he's special
whenever you're with him, make sure to scoot close (ahah) and see what he does (either stay in the same spot, scoot closer, or distance himself)
if he doesn't seem to mind, maybe you can rest your head on his shoulder or some kind of physical contact (make sure the atmosphere is right though)
if you do all that and he doesn't do anything, just tell him that you like him straight out lol
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Posted 20 March 2009 - 12:22 PM

Screw hints. 99.9% of the time the guys don't get the hints. Besides, it works better if you tell the guys straight up what you want instead of hinting it.

So, for me, I don't beat around the bushes; once I'm sure I like someone, I tell him face to face and asks if he likes me back too.
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Posted 20 March 2009 - 01:01 PM

I won't tell a guy I like him unless I sense a mutual attraction. If I think he likes me too then I don't really see the point in not just telling him straight up. I'm pretty obvious when I like a guy so it's not a big deal for me to just come out and say it.
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#6 User is offline   한스 ㅋㅋ 

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Posted 20 March 2009 - 02:52 PM

Being touchy is definitely a sign.
That's actually the only sign that you can give.
Other lame signs such as eye contact and bla blas are useless, he won't pick it up.
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Posted 20 March 2009 - 04:19 PM

go up to him, grab and kiss him! HAHA jkjk tongue.gif
it comes naturally!
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Posted 20 March 2009 - 04:26 PM

umm wellll I flirt with him...which im not really good at but when I like a guy me and him are always laughing...I make jokes =P alsoo umm what else ummm I dunno after that I come out in the open teehee
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Posted 20 March 2009 - 04:38 PM

GUY POINT OF VIEW (REALTALK)
-if its a younger guy he is a P***Y and probably wont come up and talk to you.... so girls you're going to have to do all the man work here.

-if its an older guy he better come up and talk to you... or he is the biggest loser in the world...I don't think you want to talk to a non-confident guy.

BOYS 101 there you go.

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#10 User is offline   ShadowMax76 

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Posted 20 March 2009 - 04:55 PM

there was this girl that wanted to be like a lil sister to me [a year younger]

and she held my hand a lot of the time we were in the 'mall'

_ rofl. i probably got too used to her odd affections to think anything more than her idea of 'sibling love'.
she confessed at the end of the day, and brought up "i was hinting all day." "really?" "um, YES? i held your hand? remember?"

...sometimes it just seems so..silly to do hints. a lil straight forward is nice. but eh.. sometimes that gives a bad impression.
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#11 User is offline   <3StrawberryPocky<3 

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Posted 20 March 2009 - 06:02 PM

I'm a girl.....and I'm super dense.....so....I usually never flirt with guys....and when I like guys, I actually avoid them. T^T I need to learn to flirt man....it's so embarrassing.....hahaha.
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#12 User is offline   Tangerines 

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Posted 20 March 2009 - 07:46 PM

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#13 User is offline   Akira45393 

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Posted 20 March 2009 - 09:01 PM

For some reason I just don’t like girls flirting around me [too much]. For a certain period of time it gets really irritating.

Maybe I'm just weird, but I can say some guys like it casual!!!
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Posted 20 March 2009 - 09:17 PM

I don't flirt. I don't know how.. sweatingbullets.gif
Thoygh if i like a guy, i take a while to fully tell him.
Though now.. I've been able to tell him straight up.
Even though its kind of nerve-raking after I tell the guy!

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Posted 21 March 2009 - 03:22 AM

For me ...
I'm a pretty big and obvious flirter when it comes to guys that I like.
Sometimes guys are really dense, so I just go all out.
I get touchy-feely. Always fixing their hair or like leaning on their shoulder.
I also sit close to them all the time.
And I'm a hugeeeeee sweet-talker. x]
I always pull the "aww, you're such a sweet guy" or "any girl would be lucky to have you" lines.
lol.

If the guy responds well to my flirting, I just do it a lot more.
Call/text him a lot.
I just make it obvious that I'm interested so that he'll just ask me out.
LOL. x]
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Posted 21 March 2009 - 01:21 PM

i think if you like someone, and you aren't trying to hide that, it becomes obvious.

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Posted 21 March 2009 - 07:21 PM

haha, well i've been trying to catch this one guy's eye for a couple of weeks now.

and hmm i've been getting some nice results.

well, my advice is that you should always try to make eye contact.
and these little hints DO work, i've proven and tested it.
like yesterday! haha.

but, it'll only work if the guy is noticing you too.

but if he hasn't yet. your just gonna have to show him your true self and hope that he'll be completely mesmerized!
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Posted 21 March 2009 - 07:25 PM



I'm a girl. (:
when I like someone, I actually do the opposite of trying to let him know I like him.
instead, I try my hardest to hide it from him. because I'm really odd, haha.
but lately, I've been working on trying to show that I'm interested.
I give him looks and stuff, nothing special. but I'm working on it!

I remember when we kissed, I still feel it on my lips.
the time that you danced with me, with no music playing.
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Posted 21 March 2009 - 07:38 PM

subtle hints for me involve talking to him a lot/ taking interest in his life.. smiling at him, making eye contact
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Posted 21 March 2009 - 07:39 PM

hrmm i think its in the way you look at him
some guys are slow at minor hints tho lol
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