[_Sarang_]

My story goes like this. I liked this guy before, but I think I was only infatuated by him because of the fact that other girls liked him as well. He liked my good friend and I liked his. Anyway we ended up having a relationship. I lost feelings for him slowly and I think he did too. But the thing that killed me was when he told me this " I would rate you a B appearance wise, but I would rate her(the girl that he liked) A" when he was still in the relationship with me. In the end he ended up... liking one of the other girls that liked him. I am a very flirty person as well, so yeah. I really don't want to consider him as a past relationship, because I hated the fact that I liked him. He is a really nice guy but terribly NOT confident in himself. We became friends, but then after the summer. I just felt terribly disgusted by him whenever I see him. My good friend tells me that he walks her home and everything like a stalker, and I just can't help but feel grossed out. I am a very mean person, I admit. But the worst thing he ever did was that he used our stickypic to put on his "valentine" video without asking me and my face was sharpeyed out. =.= He asked me for permission after his friends told me about it. I told him I forgave him, but he thought I was lying so he tried following me home, but my friend stopped him. I feel like a horrible person for ignoring him and not looking at him. He is a nice guy but he should THINK. He can forgive you no matter what you do.

SHOULD I BE MAD?
Have any of you guys felt like that before? I want to like you but I can't bring myself to.

[RoseTHaI2336]

MMmmm i kinda get ur storyyy... and then i kinda dont a bit lol im sorry im like a lil confusedd
but i think u should at least try to not think so much about him, if he makes u so disgusted.
Just move on u guys aren't in a relationship or anything anymoree. so whats the point?

&& abt the last sentence "i want to like you. but i can't bring myself to."
Ummm i never felt like that hahah cuz like i cant really just force myself to like someone. it just has to happen...

if im not answering ur question, then LOL tell me the story maybe a lil more clearer? so that maybe i can understand ur situation better and try to help you out :]

[__LOST]

i dunno, i kind of get your problem too, because i'm kind of like that. i get really close to a guy & then i suddenly ignore them because i feel so weirded out around them. i mean, i DID like them before, maybe more than a friend, but then i start noticing things they do { i.e. bad habits, etc } & i start to drift anyway & loose feelings fast.

is it like that ? : / i kid of feel like the last sentence you said there.

personally, i think i would be mad about the photo thing. you WERE in that photo, he should've asked { at least i think so } if it was used in a video that people were going to see. but if he apologized, then that's ohkay.

[lemoncake0910]

Anyways, after reading this post, i can see that this guy is such an A-HOLE, and you DO have a reason to be angry at him for the ways he treated you.
If I were in your spot, I'd lose my respect for him so fast...
cuz judging me based on appearance (and comparing me to another girl) while in a relationship is a big nono.
What? he thinks he so 'good looking' to judge your appearance? Even if he was good looking, my perception of him will definitely change (in a negative way).
In another perspective, I don't think any boyfriend out there will like their girlfriends telling them that some 'guy X' is higher on the hotness/attractiveness scale compared to them, would they? They'll feel hurt and the gf's risk of getting dumped by her bf will increase.
And as for the stickypic thing, the same thing applies... and what he did wasn't very nice...
and why did you state "he is a really nice guy"? I don't think he was nice after what you stated on your post.

[sixth.]

i understand the whole 'i want to like you but can't bring myself to'
happened with my ex... after we broke up, thought things would be okay - i ended up getting really repulsed (no, not exaggerating) by the thought of him, and even more disturbed by the fact that i actually went out with him. it's just your natural feelings, you can't help yourself. feel whatever way you want to feel.

[heheimawesome]

wait.. what?
why is walking a girl home "stalkerish"
if you're friends you don't want anything to happen to your friend, right?
i walk girls home too..! why is that stalkerish!?!?! if i dont they'll think im an bubble gum! LOL! i mean... well most of the time i go out its at night.. maybe thats why its different. at night things actually can happen so they want me to walk them home i guess.

[Ramie.v]

He's a stalker for walking a girl home? Cool

[Ramie.v]

He's a stalker for walking a girl home? Cool

[_Sarang_]

LOL thanks guys... I cross out the stalkerish part then. =)

I dont talk to him anymore... but when i see him i just get the yucky feeling >.<

[Lie]

I don't understand the issue. Why should you feel bad about not wanting anything to do with him? Doesn't sound like he wants anything to do with you, either. You both win, continue on your separate ways.

[plegend2007]

I don't understand the issue. Why should you feel bad about not wanting anything to do with him? Doesn't sound like he wants anything to do with you, either. You both win, continue on your separate ways.

WORD!!! ENOUGH SAID!

[b.changg]

What an asswipe.
Just leave him be, ignore him if you can.
If he comes begging you, tell him you've already lost feelings for him and move on,
that is,
if you have.
I mean, judging you by your appearance?
Pshht, please sir.
I don't think he's good at judging appearances then ;) .
:D.
Well, best of luck .(:

[bonjour tristesse.]

ive been in this kind of relationship and i feel your pain. your not being mean, thats just your nature and your feelings towards him being uncomfortable. if you dont want to tell him you dont really like being with him, then avoid him as possible as you can.