[lea11]

So I'm just wondering, is there a difference between the topic you discuss with your crush/so than topics with your just guy friend??

Or do talking about certain topics lean you more towards the 'friend zone' rather than going towards the 'bf/gf' zone?

For example, me and my guy good friend talk about everything from girls, strip clubs to grades... but I have a feeling with your s/o, you should sort of watch that it doesn't get a huge variety of topics to discuss because
1) It expands the comfort zone too much, therefore leading to that dreaded friend zone
2) You start making fun/teasing/dissing each other and that can also lead to dreaded friend zone..


so... any specific examples? What certain topics could be 'avoided'?? Gahh..

[ellyphant]

no, not for me
i just talk about anything
you have to be comfortable to talk about anything.
it's like sex, if you're not ready to talk about it with your partner, you're not ready for it.
you have to be comfortable to talk freely about things, otherwise you have barriers stopping you from telling important things.
i don't think it's fair to block out a s.o because you don't want them to turn into a friend.