Does It Matter If You're 100% Or Mixed Background?
#51
Posted 30 March 2009 - 10:01 PM
#52
Posted 30 March 2009 - 10:10 PM
#53
Posted 30 March 2009 - 10:11 PM
I am White/Korean mix and I am proud of my heritage from both sides. I always say that I have best of both worlds.
Either way, who cares what ethnicity we are.....
It is not the ethnicity but the character which makes us who we are as a person.
#54
Posted 30 March 2009 - 10:42 PM
I guess those who say that they are "(percentage number) of (something)" say it when they aren't sure about whether they are mixed in any way.
I say that quite often.. the reason being that I am not sure if I am mixed or not. I just go, "I think I'm 100% Chinese, but I'm not sure".
#55
Posted 30 March 2009 - 11:10 PM
i strongly agree to that
both my parents are full filipino, but i couldn't care less about my background because that doesn't define who i am.
so i'd say no, it doesn't matter at all.
#56
Posted 30 March 2009 - 11:42 PM
#57
Posted 31 March 2009 - 04:40 PM
o_o;
But, I don't know. I wouldn't really care haha. I'm 75 Chinese 25 Vietnamese and it doesn't make who I am. I make who I am. If I'm making any sense. I usually don't.
LOL! I think I understood!
#58
Posted 31 March 2009 - 04:48 PM
Sooooo, I guess it's a conversation starter? lol, that's all I can think of that's a benefit.
and I guess if my parents taught me the languages they know it would benefit me?
I don't really know.
I'm definately proud of my ethnicity, and I wouldn't have it any other way, but I feel out of place when I'm with either side of my family 'cause it feels like I don't belong in either one.
(When I was younger, I used to want to be 100% Chinese, or Asian since I enjoyed that part of my culture more than my Spanish side. I felt that if I was full I would be able to connect with it better).
#59
Posted 31 March 2009 - 05:35 PM
But I feel like I have to always proclaim that I'm Mexican because I'm so effing tired of being mistaken for being half white/european and half asian or people assuming I'm part French or part Chinese and start speaking to me in those languages, and I'm like .... o___o que? I'd just like people not to assume just because I don't look like the stereotypical Mexican.
#60
Posted 31 March 2009 - 05:49 PM
& Dear OP, I want to point out that I think your signature thingy contradicts your username... ?
#61
Posted 31 March 2009 - 06:09 PM
I think 100% and mixed people are equally beautiful.
I'm a mix though and highly proud of it.
Miss you, Soompi || Love&Hate; 5 years.
#63
Posted 01 April 2009 - 03:05 PM
<nerd>
I bet the Malfoys aren't actual purebloods like they say they are
</nerd>
I'm half Chinese, half White.
hahha Malfoys!
#64
Posted 02 April 2009 - 05:23 PM
Sometimes I like to point out that I'm only half asian when I do stereotypical asian things and people hassle me for it, haha. I'm pretty proud to be mixed because everyone in my school always goes on an on about how beautiful mixed people are. (:
I wish that I was completely filipino sometimes though because then I would know more about my culture and I'd actually know how to speak my language. \:
Completely Filipino, like being born and raised in the Philippines?
#65
Posted 02 April 2009 - 06:35 PM
I think it's affected me only when I used to spend countless times contemplating what *exactly* that 1/4 part of me is. I just thought it'd be neat if it were Italian or something.
#67
Posted 03 April 2009 - 04:08 PM
Sooooo, I guess it's a conversation starter? lol, that's all I can think of that's a benefit.
and I guess if my parents taught me the languages they know it would benefit me?
I don't really know.
I'm definately proud of my ethnicity, and I wouldn't have it any other way, but I feel out of place when I'm with either side of my family 'cause it feels like I don't belong in either one.
(When I was younger, I used to want to be 100% Chinese, or Asian since I enjoyed that part of my culture more than my Spanish side. I felt that if I was full I would be able to connect with it better).
oh so do ur family members only speak Chinese or Spanish?
#68
Posted 03 April 2009 - 04:20 PM
I'm 100% in ethnic, not 100% in face-look according to ethnic.
So yea, I agree with mekka. Hah
#69
Posted 03 April 2009 - 04:35 PM
i.e. you have to marry within your own race, etc.
personally, i don't think it matters if you're 100% or mixed.
i'm chinese with peranakan and cambodian ancestry but i just tell everyone i'm pure chinese because i don't think that being 1/8 peranakan and 1/8 cambodian really counts; i'm practically 100% chinese and having to explain is just retarded and annoying. especially since it's so far back in my family tree and i don't identify with those cultures very much, if at all. nonetheless, some people are proud of their heritage and they wanna tell the world about it, so let them. to each his own.
#70
Posted 03 April 2009 - 06:06 PM
i.e. you have to marry within your own race, etc.
personally, i don't think it matters if you're 100% or mixed.
i'm chinese with peranakan and cambodian ancestry but i just tell everyone i'm pure chinese because i don't think that being 1/8 peranakan and 1/8 cambodian really counts; i'm practically 100% chinese and having to explain is just retarded and annoying. especially since it's so far back in my family tree and i don't identify with those cultures very much, if at all. nonetheless, some people are proud of their heritage and they wanna tell the world about it, so let them. to each his own.
Doll has it right. Many elders from more traditional families will insist on maintaining the racial purity, not out of any malicious prejudice or racism, but thats how they were brought up. My cousin got into a lot of trouble with his mother because he started dating a half filipino half aussie girl that he went to school with. She's really nice, but his mother went on about why he didnt go out with any of the chinese girls. It took her a while to accept his gf. Ironically his sister married a brit. My family is one of those chinese families that go back uncountable generations. My parents aren't picky about who I, or my siblings, marry. Their emphasis is on how we get along and I agree =D



























