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#1 User is offline   Teaaheart 

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Posted 25 March 2009 - 07:27 PM

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Posted 25 March 2009 - 08:45 PM

Yes, take advantage of the moment you have together, because you never know what change will happen in the future. Perhaps nothing will tear you apart. tongue.gif
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Posted 25 March 2009 - 08:47 PM

i'd say yes.
i've been in this situation before and i regretted saying no.

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Posted 25 March 2009 - 08:52 PM

Yes.

Live in the moment.

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Posted 25 March 2009 - 08:57 PM

yes

that's exactly where i'm at right now lol.
i know for a fact he's going out of state for college
but what the hell, i'm not going to miss out 'cause of that
what comes will comes =]
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Posted 25 March 2009 - 09:06 PM

Sure, but more in the terms of "spending as much time together as possible". :]
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Posted 25 March 2009 - 09:48 PM

if the chance was given to me i would take it with no regrets.
you neve really know what can happen. it could go so well that
he might want you two to put the effort in to keeping in touch or just
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#8 User is offline   shan_mei 

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Posted 25 March 2009 - 09:53 PM

I wouldn't say yes. I wouldn't want to invest emotions into something that i know would end, especially when it is a short period of time. Call me a coward, but I'm scared that i might fall for him in that short period of time; ong distance relationships are painful.


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Posted 25 March 2009 - 11:33 PM

either choose what you want and pay the consequences later
or save yourself the heartache and say OH WELL, but always wonder WHAT IF
there's always the option of being fwb's.. haha. get what you can
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Posted 25 March 2009 - 11:33 PM

yes but when you go into it remember that they'll be gone soon, so make it more of a physical relationship rather than emotional. like you want to be in his arms, and whatever. try not to be too emotional about it
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Posted 25 March 2009 - 11:57 PM

yup

i would just treasure every moment
and plus its not like you're never gonna see eachother again afterwards
so just spend all the time u can until he's/she is gone D:;;
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Posted 25 March 2009 - 11:58 PM

Yeah why not? If the parting is because of school/jobs at least you can look back and say that was awesome moment.
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#13 User is offline   chrisng 

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Posted 26 March 2009 - 12:03 AM

I would say yes. (:
Spend as much time as you can with them,
don't waste a second.
and when it's finally time for you to part,
never let go.

Hmm also, you guys could continue in a long distance thing too.. O:

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#14 User is offline   tsai_jolen 

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Posted 26 March 2009 - 07:17 AM

Yes. I'm in that right now. He might be living to germany (army) and I'm going into the ariforce in 3 months. You'll have so much regret if you don't.
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Posted 26 March 2009 - 07:49 AM

I'd say no because in that time I'd spend with him, I can get to like him quite a lot and then when he leaves, it'd be really difficult. Plus, I'm not into long distance relationships. They hurt too much...
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#16 User is offline   Aimiko 

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Posted 26 March 2009 - 07:55 AM

Yes, because I don't want to have regrets anymore.
Even if it's just for a moment, I'd still try to make the best out of it with the person that I love. <3

& Who knows, perhaps there might still be some chemistry in the later future between the two of us when there are no obstacles anymore.

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Posted 26 March 2009 - 08:02 AM

If you're in the relationship to try and make it work, even after you're separated, then yes. I've been in a long distance relationship before, and it was painful. It was painful, it was lonely. And in the end, she couldn't handle it and broke up with me. But would that stop me from being in another long distance relationship if I think she's the one for me? No way.

Sure, my experience with a long distance relationship has been pretty sour. Call me a sucker, but I believe true love can cross all borders. Does a relationship have to end just because you can't see each other everyday? I don't believe so. It's a painful test of your commitment, but doesn't the absence of physical interaction for one or two years make the reunion all the more special? As long as you both are willing to make it work, and are truly committed to one another, I don't see why it shouldn't work out in the end. If it doesn't, that just means your bond wasn't strong enough. I know it's very rare for a long distance relationship to have a happy ending. But personally, that will never stop me from trying because I'm always in it to win it.

However, if your relationship is only so strong that you're planning to break it off once it's time to separate, then you might as well break it off now.
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Posted 26 March 2009 - 12:34 PM

Similar situation with my old friend and I....
It was senior year and he was leaving at the end of August for Switzerland =O GAH! He was going to study there for university and his whole entire family was moving out of the country =(

Anyways, I found it really sad because what even though I "liked" him, I never told him and vice versa.
I felt that I knew him and I was scared not only for rejection but because I knew he probably wouldn't take it seriously?

So anyways, he moved and just a year ago... I found out that he used to like me X__X
I never thought that he would and it felt so awkward just talking to him about it afterwards T___T Anyways... my point is, if I knew back then, I wouldn't hesitate to say yes =) So what if you don't have all the time in the world together? It's still worth a try and if it truly works out, then you'll feel better knowing you took the opportunity.

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Posted 26 March 2009 - 12:36 PM

Yes.

Always regret doing something than regret not doing something, or you'll never know what could've happened.

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Posted 26 March 2009 - 01:28 PM

Yep, I did. It was a month before moving out of state and my s/o asked me out and I said yes even though we would only get to be together for a month before moving. And after a month went by he went to join the marines, so we didn't see or get to talk to each other for three months, now we only see each other for a week every few months but now it'll be a while until I can see him again, we do talk to each other on the phone everyday and nine months passed and we're still together.
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