Posted 26 March 2009 - 07:01 PM
I decided to write this to inform
Not everyone may agree with what I say; but idk, if i can help one person that be nice.
I changed the forum alittle // some people got confused,
IT'S GUESSING NOT CONFESSING
Two different things; only except they both have two s's
I'll add a definiton term; a quick one.
(credits: Google )
Definitions of guess on the Web:
think: expect, believe, or suppose; "I imagine she earned a lot of money with her new novel"; "I thought to find her in a bad state"; "he didn't think to find her in the kitchen"; "I guess she is angry at me for standing her up"
Definitions of confess on the Web:
To admit to the truth, To disclose or reveal
------------------------------------
-Before you read this!
Read the following ARTICLES to understand where we are right now.
(CREDITS: ALL TO JSBACH), I am a fellow reader too who agrees with what JSBach wrote.
#8 - Confessing your feelings
Proof that guessing games work
Chasing
Anyways, I just wanted to point out, since you're not suppose to chase,. April fools' day would be the best day to keep her guessing.
How to approach this?., I might be wrong , but ask her out, or humor her
It keeps her guessing, unless she already know you like her.
From what JSBach said, guessing's a good thing right?
(I might be wrong, i'm also writing this, so someone correct my view)
Now the question is, i wanna know what you'll do on April Fools, ideas?
Don't let this day slide
&(EDIT*) Oh yeah, - This ain't for confessing your feelings. It's to keep her guessing. I just outta point it out for the confused souls.
And sorry. The brief story wasn't about confessing.. it's guessing
-TIPS-
*For people reading this.. i might be wrong with this all, I'm just trying to inform. And someone please correct me if i'm wrong.
The Do's and Don'ts
' Do it to other people around her first, to show her you're not doing it to just her.
' Don't fear rejection. You're making her guess & think about you.
' Don't be nervous
' Do be okay with it, even if she does reject. I'm sorry but i forgot, April Fools' probably the day for more rejections than the yes's
' Don't be hoping that she'll say yes, im estimating 80% No's , and 20% Yes's.
' Don't use it on another person's lady/man.
' Do please keep it simple. The purpose of this is to keep her guessing, to keep her thinking about you.
' Don't expect anything in return.
' DON'T EVER break up with them // that's not humor, that's pissing your partner off lol
' Don't say you're pregnant, you'll confuse them.. worry them // Also if you're not that type of person about (you know).. then don't say it
' (I'll add on)
A story to go along..
A brief story.. to illustrate
It's your April 1st, and you meet her up somewhere like the usual.
Confidently, say "hey" and do whatever // start a conversation.
Then you say something *Will you Marry Me* / / * A joke * // *Date* ( you know it's been a while and blah blah blah)
Wait til her response i guess.
Look at her face. See if it's happy/sad/smiling etc.
If confused / sad / not smiling / happy
Before she says anything or about to say something,. interupt her and say April fools , and walk off..
If smiling.. and she seems happy
Wait til she says something.. and listen to her answer. then say April Fools
Say April Fools, and then you go immediately go to someone else and talk to them.
Pull off something quick, like April Fools like what you did to her.
She'll be disillusioned and her response would be "wtfreak?"
BUT she'll think about what you said
She'll start thinking more of you., probably if you played it off good
The moral of the story was to keep her guessing. If this story sucks for you, then I suggest you use the
"Will you Marry Me" one.
Another brief story.. for the confused
Guy: "Hey, I been wondering..
Girl: "?"
Guy: "Will you marry me"?
Girl: "Eh.."
Guy: "Haha April Fools"
(Guy walks off)
Girl: (*Wtfreak is wrong with that guy*)
Girl: (*Ugh, idk.. -blah blah-)
(Girl is confused)
You kept her guessing.
-----------------------------------------------------
EDIT//
Anyways, i found out after reading BlazingSkie's forum
the responses & questions, i answered from BlazingSkie's forum.
This was made just for fun..
[b]F&Q
' Humulious'
Q: what if she takes it as an april fool's joke and rejects you before you can say anything? what if she really liked you, and were offended you would prank her that way?
A: Well.. sorry i'm not Dr. Love, but if she really did like you and offended if you pranked her that way..
if it keeps her guessing, you'll be fine. Since this joke is commonly used on April 1st, it's like more chance of rejection you know..
If she really liked him, then why do this in the first place? lol, no reason to guess. That's a fact.
Response to 한스 ㅋㅋ ;
' I guess the 'Will you marry me" thing works best of all, people should try that instead.. i mean the whole purpose was to keep her guessing//
Response to Flicksityy ;
' I find this pretty cruel and lame. Those who test are those who are insecure and is nothing but a coward inside. Don't take April Fools as an excuse to avoid the old fashioned way of telling her straight up.
' It's better than waiting years. Guys & girls view it differently. Anyways the point wasn't to confess, but to keep her guessing.
Don't you ever think about someone more, if they confused you with thoughts and w/e?
If the person had confidence, and doesn't feel like a coward. then I suggest you do the confessing. Otherwise i stay with the guessing.
============================================
Guessing?
LET me re-phrase back
IT'S GUESSING NOT CONFESSING
Two different things; only except they both have two s's
I'll add a definiton term; a quick one.
(credits: Google )
Definitions of guess on the Web:
think: expect, believe, or suppose; "I imagine she earned a lot of money with her new novel"; "I thought to find her in a bad state"; "he didn't think to find her in the kitchen"; "I guess she is angry at me for standing her up"
Definitions of confess on the Web:
To admit to the truth, To disclose or reveal
What does Guessing sound like?
- Gosh, I wonder if he really means it.
- What a jerk, why would he do such a thing?
- Did he really mean it, or is this a cover-up (April's Fool Day)
-------------------------
Another great example for people guessing? Probably soompi?
Some people come here because they're confused about the other? They're curious if the other person likes them back and stuff
Thats why you see some posts on here about these kind of stuff.
Oh yeah, you can make anyone guess that you're interested in? Usually friends.
Like the girl you used to like for example. You can try this on her to.. make her guess? idk haha;.
Note,
Sorry, i'm not really that great on Soompi & etcetc. This is my first actual forum posting.
AND.. im sorry, this post is crap. Don't follow if you don't believe. Simple.
I have problems like this too.
-------------------------
