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#1 User is offline   blush 

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Posted 26 March 2009 - 11:27 PM

basically, you want to tell someone something, but you don't know how or due to certain circumstances, you don't or can't.
eventually, would you wanna tell them anyway? or would you forget it because you know, it's all in the past?

i always never say what i think, so i have a lot of unsaid things to be said,
but it seems like there's never opportunities for them so it ends up staying unsaid.
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Posted 26 March 2009 - 11:31 PM

Find her, say it. I had my things hidden for four years. I hid them as best as I could. Finally I emailed her and told everything. I cant even meet her face to face since she is in a different country. It feels good.
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Posted 26 March 2009 - 11:40 PM

It feels good to say it eventually.
Depending on what you're saying though. Some things are better left unsaid, for real.
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Posted 27 March 2009 - 12:04 AM

You will regret it.

I don't care who you are. You will regret it. Whether you are drunk or sober, whether it is a passing moment or back of your mind. You will regret it. So, just say it.
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Posted 27 March 2009 - 01:52 AM

If you don't tell the person what you want to say, you will regret it. Once you choose not to say anything, it's all in the past. You can't go up one day and just say it, you have to let it go.

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Posted 27 March 2009 - 08:24 AM

i've left so many things unsaid... it gets to me sometimes.
it's either i don't have the guts to say it, or the situation doesn't allow me to.
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Posted 27 March 2009 - 09:21 AM

Depending on the situation...some things are better left unsaid.
At the end of the evening she is tired and wants to go home.
But the Red Shoes are not tired.
In fact, the Red Shoes are never tired...
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Posted 27 March 2009 - 10:08 AM


I always do that, but it was my decision so I can't regret anything.
Hearts are broken with words unspoken, but sometimes crashing in silence is better.

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Posted 27 March 2009 - 10:10 AM

I have so many things that I left unsaid...I really regretted it.
but I still havent learnt my lesson x.x I'm too much of a wimp..

Right now, theres this guy, he's two years older than me and when I see him at school, I'm too shy to even say hi....he messaged me like 3 times already saying, "Heyy! Why didnt you say hi? tongue.gif"
I think he probably thinks I'm ignoring him now or something..cause I'm too shy.
Like, when I see him, my first instinct is to look away, either that or I'm too scared to look him, but I
really want to talk to him sad.gif I dont want him to think that I'm rude or something.. sad.gif

Man, I'm too scared to even say hi...I feel pathetic.
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Posted 27 March 2009 - 03:20 PM

^OMG! JUST SAY HI! biggrin.gif
Or wave or smile. hehe


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Posted 27 March 2009 - 04:45 PM

QUOTE (suhshe* @ Mar 27 2009, 07:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
^OMG! JUST SAY HI! biggrin.gif
Or wave or smile. hehe


I want to!
But last time he was with his friends..and I just gave up, lmao.
The time before that..ugh, I dunno why, I just walked away... x.x
and the time before that, he asked me if i wanted a ride home..and i said "ohh its okay"
IM SO STUPID.

there were so many chances, but i didnt take them...
WHY DIDNT I? x.x
ughh, i hope he gives me one more chance.. sad.gif
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Posted 30 March 2009 - 03:59 PM

QUOTE (xxiaoMEI @ Mar 27 2009, 07:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I want to!
But last time he was with his friends..and I just gave up, lmao.
The time before that..ugh, I dunno why, I just walked away... x.x
and the time before that, he asked me if i wanted a ride home..and i said "ohh its okay"
IM SO STUPID.

there were so many chances, but i didnt take them...
WHY DIDNT I? x.x
ughh, i hope he gives me one more chance.. sad.gif


maybe next time, just try smiling. dont even have to wave or anything. just catch his eye or get eye contact, and give him a smile. :'D

so many things left unsaid. eventually you'll feel retarded for not saying it when you had a chance. but i think people either need to just say it, or get over regretting it and get on with life.
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Posted 30 March 2009 - 04:15 PM

Say it or live with regret and/or guilt. : (

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Posted 30 March 2009 - 04:49 PM

QUOTE (cavil. @ Mar 27 2009, 01:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You will regret it.

I don't care who you are. You will regret it. Whether you are drunk or sober, whether it is a passing moment or back of your mind. You will regret it. So, just say it.



I really agree. If I don't speak my mind, its always going to be in the back of my head. And I always want things to get solved.
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Posted 30 March 2009 - 05:30 PM

Yeah. And I still have a lot of things to say, but somehow, whenever I was with him, those thoughts which were so deeply important to me meant nothing. Those things were so unimportant when I was with him that leaving them undiscussed (thus rendering less drama) were for the better.
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Posted 30 March 2009 - 06:02 PM

QUOTE (The Red Shoes @ Mar 27 2009, 12:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Depending on the situation...some things are better left unsaid.



Exactly. I think a lot of girls have this romantic idea about tying up loose ends and confessing everything but...some things really ARE sweeter and better when they aren't voiced. You don't need to tie up ever loose end.

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Posted 31 March 2009 - 11:39 AM

I've kept a lot of those (and still am). Just waiting for the right time.
I'm bound to blurt it out sooner or later.
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Posted 31 March 2009 - 12:04 PM

if the situation was left unexplained, then its always a good thing to go back and explain what actually happened to prevent future misunderstandings. some people though doesnt like talking about it.

like you stated, what happened in the past is in the past. you forgive and forget and learn how to grow and move on. time will let you heal if you were wounded in any way.

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Posted 31 March 2009 - 12:07 PM

My ex-boyfriend recently contacted me after promising me to never let me hear from him again. He said he couldn't take it anymore, he just had to let me know that he is still in love with me and that he wanted to sort some things out about our break-up one year ago. I'm completely over him so I heard him out. Keeping something like this inside of you, i.e regretting not talking things out with someone, could eventually eat you up on the inside.

Some things are better left unsaid, but some things are necessary to be said because of the need to "get it out of your system" so your mind can be at ease.
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Posted 31 March 2009 - 12:08 PM

I'm in that situation right now.. I don't know whether to confess to someone or not.. it would be awkward, but I only have a few weeks left to say anything as we're all leaving for uni sad.gif
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