[leongfun]

Don't you guys hate it when you plan something with your friend(s), just suppose to be the four of you, three of you, whatever number, and then at the last minute one of them invites their friend, or someone you hate/dislike, etc?

I remember my friends went to the amusement park. They invited this one person they didn't like only because they needed an extra person to even it out, so when they go on rides, everyone will have partners. Well at the last minute that person brought their friend So during the rides, one person had to sit by themselves.

Anyway do you guys still go even if the person they brought is like... a person you dislike? Has it ever happened to you?

[shangomar]

It'd be a disaster if you're hosting a party then you dont know half of the people there..
LOL really, like some people invite others without even asking..0__O

[vip_gd]

i can so relate

sometimes when people i don't like tag along and we take photos
not to sound mean or anything but i try to cut them off.

[jaeka]

That kinda happened today. Me and my girls are heading to the beach, but some asked to bring their BFs along and asked if I wanted to, so we're gonna have the guys a long... but then we thought there's only 3 guys to 7 girls or something it'd be like wtf for them so we said they could invite their friends, like one or two...
Word got around we were going to the beach and now most of Year 11 is coming. o____O It's just the matter of who actually turns up but, lol... it's crazy how it happened.

[riceavocado]

Happens sometimes, I hate it when girls try to sneak people along when youre supposed to do something just the two of you. Gr. haha.

[maydai3333]

I can relate. To me, it's rude and annoying when someone random pops out of nowhere. One time, my friends and I were going bowling. One of the girls decided to bring one of her friends that no one knew from another school, and it was just really awkward. The girl only talked to that one friend, and didn't really talk to anyone else.

[LK.]

If it's a person I don't like, yes .. haha
I don't mind randoms though, sometimes I just instantly click with people, which is what happens when friends bring randoms (:

just depends on the situation (:

P.S: Leongfun, that avatar is frikken fierce ! haha

[bonjour tristesse.]

i can so relate

sometimes when people i don't like tag along and we take photos
not to sound mean or anything but i try to cut them off.

lmaaaaooo. i so agree with you right there.

i also hate it when you own the camera and people take pictures
with ti WITHOUT you. instead they make you their camera man ..
T_T

[suppaazn]

I can relate.
My friend and I were going to go eat somewhere for dinner and I thought that we were going to eat with two other friends (who didn't go at all)...but then my friend asked another friend who asked another friend who brought her friends which made my friend feel akward.
Did that just make sense? LOL
but whatever, it's akward.

[xstrawberry_bearx]

I can relate, I honestly don't mind but when I said I don't mind, notify me like a couple of days ahead to rearrange plans; I dislike it when it's last minute. 'The more the merrier' is a good thing but at least say it in advance would be nice.

[j00nie]

i can so relate

sometimes when people i don't like tag along and we take photos
not to sound mean or anything but i try to cut them off.

hehehe i do the same!

[Painterlyy]

^Same! I really hate it when someone I don't like is invited. I feel like it ruins the fun because I feel awkward around that person.

[영원한 사랑]

I don't like going out with a friend if she brings along her other friends that I don't know very well, cuz then its always me thats left out and feel out of place. I hate that so much.

[kiyundy.]

oh yes.. i absolutely hate when this happens. i have friends who invite other friends and then somehow those friends invite their own friends..who dont even know. plus then we had to drive them too.. shouldnt that friend like ask us before inviting others? blah....

[LittleCabbage]

yes i hate it so much, buh im too scared to tell them -.-

[nannna]

whats worse is when they invite THEMSELVES!! *stranngles myself. LOL


and once, my friends (girls) were coming to my house and right before they came they called me and was like hi, can i bring my friend too? and i didnt even know her..?! so i was like uh... but i had to let her come over anyways because i didnt want to be mean. but really. and this other time, they invited guys to my house? and at that time, i was only in the 7th grade.

[touchthesky]

haha yea its irritating cuz im always scared of being left out. its so awkward.
like yesterday i was with my 2 friends and they called this guy over and i knew him but didnt know him like my friends did so i was reluctant about it. thankfully he was really nice and it wasnt awkward at all.

but yea i hate it when you dont know them and they dont talk to anyone besides the person that brought them. its so rude.

[rectitude*]

yes, I hate it, especially when they invite the other person without telling you. When we all show up, there's always another person who I don't know, then my friend would be like 'oh, I hope you don't mind him/her coming along, too.' Sometimes it'll just feel awkward because I don't know the person.

[damyoungji]

It happened to me before. I wanted to go to the amusement park with people I actually liked. I was organizing the event so I told those who were invited that I just want it to be a small group. But what happened in the end? They stated inviting other people even though they knew that I didn't want others to come (I come from a town where I don't like the majority of the people since their value of friendship is different and we don't have similar interests). I ended up not going and nobody cared except for one girl. She didn't go either because she was disappointed at everyone for doing what they did (she is closer to them than her friendship with me).

[AhYee]

It does get a little irritating when that happens, but I'm all for meeting new people... unless it's something that I planned on doing with my close friends. Then I would not be happy about the additional few. Aside from that, bring it on? But if they're people that I don't get along with, or someone I don't like so much, then I really wouldn't be happy. But I'm not going to be mean and straight up tell them they're not welcomed.