[s i m p l e One]

so yesterday boyfriend broke up with me, and it was our 6 months. he said his feelings changed from time since we started having problems in our 5 month. the problems were like jealousy and i would complain how i loved the first couple months cause they were so good and stuff, i would also cry for no reason and complain bout stupid stuff.. and i guess that made his feelings change. he would never break up with a girl first but he did it to me first and it was so soon.. i didn't know it would be like this. im trying my best to get him back i just want him back you know? what should i do guys .. like its really hurting me inside. i don't wanna look for another man i don't want him to look for another girl i just want him :/..

[chocolate*]

Sometimes it's better to just let go...

Right now you're not used to the feeling of not having him around, but let it pass and time will heal everything. You'll find out you can be just as happy/happier.

[nubbie]

when you lose feelings for someone, its really hard to get those feelings back.

[s i m p l e One]

.. i would do anything just to have those feelings back like seriously i can't really do anything now but just like sit back and cry..

[googoosan]

So true, because that is how I am feeling right now. Me and my other half are still together, but things have changed..even though we haven't spoken of it, I can sense it. Like, when he is unhappy about something and he behaves a certain way, i know. I am usually too accommodating to him, bad I know, but because I love him and want him to be happy.

[s i m p l e One]

sigh i just got off the phone with him right cause he said we can talk on the phone still every day like how we used too, we were laughing and teasing each other like usual. than his cousin was like who you talking to and he was like my friend... in a sadish voice right or a voice that sounded like he didnt want to say, than he was like my cute friend ahhaaaa that just made me happy but cry so badly and he was like.. why you crying.. and stuff and like was quiet till i was done than he had to go and he'll call me back afterwards ... sigh

[blue_wishesx3]

even though it's hard for feelings to change back.. its not impossible ><

at one point, my bf and i were really unhappy with how things were and there
were stuff going on that were just creating so much drama between him + i
so he broke up with me..i guess alot has changed since when we started going out
until that point; however, after some time apart, we ended up getting back together
and things are better than how they were =)

[s i m p l e One]

even though it's hard for feelings to change back.. its not impossible ><

at one point, my bf and i were really unhappy with how things were and there
were stuff going on that were just creating so much drama between him + i
so he broke up with me..i guess alot has changed since when we started going out
until that point; however, after some time apart, we ended up getting back together
and things are better than how they were =)

awwwwh i wonder if mines would turn out like thatt T^T. but actually on the day he broke up with me, in the morning i called
him to wake him up for school like how i usually do each day, than when we had to go i said i love you as usual and he
said i love you too now that i think about it its confusing.. why would he say that?

[KimKTN]

Have you asked him directly WHY his feelings changed?

I used to cry randomly - and my Bf said
" no one cries randomly, there is a reason behind why"
AND yes there was a reason why I was crying - I just didn't want to accept it.

Do you know why you were crying for no reason?

If jealously made you really sad or feel frustrated and acted differently.
He probably noticed it and got tired of it. He still loves you - but not the jealousy bit
If thats the reason why, then you should learn to handle jealousy better before trying to get him back.


IF THATS NOT reason

and he broke up with you because you were depressed(crying etc)
then he's NOT WORTH it, he'd probably run the next time something happends


But yeahhh.. feelings change up and down, especially long term relationships.
Have to stick around to wait for feeligns to go up again. But if it's over... its hard?

[s i m p l e One]

Have you asked him directly WHY his feelings changed?

I used to cry randomly - and my Bf said
" no one cries randomly, there is a reason behind why"
AND yes there was a reason why I was crying - I just didn't want to accept it.

Do you know why you were crying for no reason?

If jealously made you really sad or feel frustrated and acted differently.
He probably noticed it and got tired of it. He still loves you - but not the jealousy bit
If thats the reason why, then you should learn to handle jealousy better before trying to get him back.


IF THATS NOT reason

and he broke up with you because you were depressed(crying etc)
then he's NOT WORTH it, he'd probably run the next time something happends


But yeahhh.. feelings change up and down, especially long term relationships.
Have to stick around to wait for feeligns to go up again. But if it's over... its hard?

i actually think the jealousy part screwed me over and change me into a depressed person that would feel insecure and lonely and think all the time.
he would always tell me i have my reason to cry and i always reply i dunno and he would get mad cause he said i do. me and him are in a long distant relationship. it takes us an hour or 2 to come to mine or his area. he said his feelings changed when we had these problems but i asked him over the phone, first he said he didn't know but than he said cause of the problems. hes so confusing XDD right now im able to control my jealousy cause i relized that from jealousyness things turn out like this :/

[KimKTN]

i actually think the jealousy part screwed me over and change me into a depressed person that would feel insecure and lonely and think all the time.
he would always tell me i have my reason to cry and i always reply i dunno and he would get mad cause he said i do. me and him are in a long distant relationship. it takes us an hour or 2 to come to mine or his area. he said his feelings changed when we had these problems but i asked him over the phone, first he said he didn't know but than he said cause of the problems. hes so confusing XDD right now im able to control my jealousy cause i relized that from jealousyness things turn out like this :/

well he probably didn't want to tell you straight up - to hurt your feelings, so dont be confused of it.
But yeaahh if you can control , give it time and maybe things can patch up ^__^" gl !!!

[heheimawesome]

its very hard.. if you chase him, you're pushing him away. he'll think you're annoying (if his feelings are totally gone)
if you make yourself much hotter and see him in a few years, then i think he would be like "damn i shouldn't have let her go"

but for now i don't know. it's really really hard trust me. just take my advice and do NOT make him your everything. don't make everything you do for him, trying to get him back. just live life and let things go naturally. if you make him your everything it'll hurt you

[s i m p l e One]

its very hard.. if you chase him, you're pushing him away. he'll think you're annoying (if his feelings are totally gone)
if you make yourself much hotter and see him in a few years, then i think he would be like "damn i shouldn't have let her go"

but for now i don't know. it's really really hard trust me. just take my advice and do NOT make him your everything. don't make everything you do for him, trying to get him back. just live life and let things go naturally. if you make him your everything it'll hurt you

ye your right LOL ima try to move on and like yee just chill show him im strong and independant.. maybe this will give him time to think bout things right?

[Painterlyy]

I've learned that you can't control your feelings. What you feel is what you feel.