[sliceoheaven]

Sorry if this gets super long.

So, during orchestra period at school, I hang out with my two senior friends. (Btw, I'm a junior) Lets call them girl A and guy B.
It's pretty much a free period for all of us since I play the piano and the teacher currently does not have any music for me to play on our current pieces. It goes same to A since shes a percussionist and B just volunteers to help the teacher and conduct since he's extremely good at the violin. (Literally, Julliard [[Best music school in US]] worthy)

Yesterday, we decided to play truth or dare just to have fun or to even kill some time. When I said truth, A asked me, "who do you honestly think is better looking. B or James?" (James is another student in our orch class) I really didn't want to answer knowing that B is part of this game, but I told her "honestly i think B looks better". He was kinda shocked and looked pleased.
Later on, I asked guy B what is his major turn off in a girl. He listed some things such as not being hygeinic or acting arrogant, etc.

We also got into conversations such as how I used to dance, but stopped due to my busy schedule.
Him: I think dancers are pretty..
A: Hey! Is that indicating something???
Him: -covering up his opinion- Ohhhh no no just saying!!

Yeah, theres been times when A picks up little things he says.

Another time, we were discussing whether we like girls/guys who are athletic or artsy.
Me: I prefer artsy/musical guys, I guess.
Him: Artsy/musical girls are sweet but some don't seem to groom themselves too well..
A: Hey! Your saying that we don't care about how we look!
Him: No no! You definitely seem like you care about the way you look and dress. (directly saying/pointing to me)
A: What? What about me?
Him: Okay fine. I mean you both! Sheesh.

Also, he seems to notice what I'm wearing. He noticed that I was wearing heels and complimented them.
I was talking about how I wished I could be taller, and hes like "No you're the perfect height for a girl!" -Stands next to me and compares height- A: Yeah, you guys have the right height for a couple.


One time when girl A was not with us, he asked me for some advice on prom. How girls like to be asked out and such. He didn't tell me who he was going to ask though.

One last story. Sorry this is really long. We had singing competitions at school and I was practicing during orchestra when A was with me. But when B came in, I got embarrassed and stopped. Apparently, A told me later on B called her saying, “Hey how come she sang to you and not me?” And so forth.

Usually its just me and girl A who walks home together after school, but B caught up with us and all. Oh yeah, he did give hints how he wants to be in a relationship.

Do you guys think he has any interest on me? I really do like his personality, although I do have a huge crush on one of my other guy friends..

Btw I'm on my friend's account since she let me use it ^^

[cherrylove316]

yeah, he definitely likes you. i think he seems a bit shy, but he is throwing rather not-so-subtle hints. hmmm, if that other guy who you have a crush on doesn't like you back, i definitely advise going for this guy. but then, it might be awkward becoming a couple since you guys seem like close friends. although it may be a good thing, depending on you two.

[FarStarLove]

i think it's possible~ then again, i'm horrible with this stuff. T-T

but from what you wrote, it seems like it, but i also agree with 1st poster.

really subtle D:

kekeke, good luck!

[sliceoheaven]

Hmm, possibly.
I met B this year in orchestra so yeah, but actually began talking to him more than usual for the past few days/a week.
He's a really sweet funny guy. ^^

I added him onto gtalk (kinda like aim) last night. We start talking and all. Our convo was actually pretty long until I went to sleep.
Me: One sec
Him: okay.

-after 25 minutes-
Him: wow that's one reallyyy long second
Me: Ah sorry! I was cleaning up and then I fell asleep ><
Him: Wow fail.
Me: Heyyyy I had SAT prep after school for 3 hrs =[
Him: Aw, poor you.
Me: =[
Him: You should go to sleep.
Me: Yeah, I guess so. Well night!
Him: Good night and sweet dreams! ^^

Some other chats:
him: so are there any turn-offs that you didn't mention that I need to know about?
me: LOL
curious ;]]
him: yes i am very curious
me: haha okay
well..for one thing
id be if the guy "beats around the bush"
him: at what?
me: anything ._.
some ppl are never really direct, straight to the point
him: wow
wow soo picky
^^
me: lol
no not really
>.>
i dont have that much of a high standard
him: what is your standard?
me: nothing superficial
just like decent looks [or at least is hygeinic] + awesome personality= clicks!
him: oooo hehe define awesome personality though

We talked more than that, but our convo was something like that. He also asked me a lot of random questions O.o

[Twisted_fatE]

hmmmmm i donno, i think ur overthinking it...a lot of that stuff just sounds like what any other guy friend would say. so did he end up asking u to prom or no? cause if he did, then maybe he likes u, but if he didn't, then i don't think so. but girl a sounds like my friend......we girls have a tendency to overexaggerate things guys do, and we do it to each other without knowing that it's not really a good thing, cause it gives a false sense of hope, imo. the way i see it, i won't believe a guy likes me until he actually tells me straight up, because ANYTHING can be taken as a flirtation if you want to see it that way (not saying you do). and that aim conversation wasn't flirty or anything, i don't understand what was meant to be taken from that. if anyone disagrees and thinks that guy B likes the op, please PLEASE explain how, because i truly, honestly don't see it, though i could be wrong.

[sliceoheaven]

Twisted faith: Well our prom isn't until mid May so none of the guys asked the girls yet (or vice versa) since it's too early. Maybe sometime next month or so?

Yeah I dunno x]

[mintcracker]

you're overthinking...

since when did compliments from a guy mean he likes you o_O


We're not 11 nymore lol <3

[Cheri.B*]

Does He Like Me..?, Or am I just overthinking.

Hm.. I pick overthinking. Any guy can do that for a friend.
It doesn't matter right?
Since you're not interested in him but some other guy...

[sliceoheaven]

Haha yeah probably.
I've only began to actually talking to him a lot just recently so, I'll see what happens.

But for now, I have to see what progress I'm gonna do with my crush/friend ><

[C4Y [[Crazy 4 YeongSaeng]]]

he seems interested x]
i say go for it if you like him too =D

[sliceoheaven]

Haha yeah.
He has a killer personality and honestly, we do seem to have lots of common interests.

...But I do like another guy so this is all way to confusing ><
I don't want to be selfish though/

[Ayuu~]

if u like another guy. u dont even need to think whether he likez u or not.

[goook]

It really depends on his personality.

Traditionally, I'd say he's into you. But, it's possible that the way he's acting towards you is simply who he is and he's that way with everyone. His shy 'try-to-be-subtle' attempts would have anyone think he likes you, but if that's who he is all the time, then we'd be mistaken. I don't know him personally, of course, but you do. And hopefully, you'll be able to figure things out.

I had a friend who left me in a similar situation. The way she acted made me feel as if she had a thing for me. It turns out she didn't and her personality simply gave out that vibe. I did notice that she acted that way with everyone, which I should have caught onto earlier.

[Painterlyy]

Sounds like he likes you and you like him. But it seems like you both are pretty shy. Hint around at him more that you like him...hopefully he'll make a move. If not, then you do it. It's not a big deal.

[sliceoheaven]

Hmm..yeah I guess I'll give it more time and see what happens from there. I haven't noticed too much of how he acts to others since its usually just us three or the whole class when we need to work.

[ayahuasca]

firstly should you really be posting your convos on the forum? I mean they are private convos and even if you don't mind I don't think you should be publicising his remarks etc.

Secondly, get to know him more first before anything else. He might be testing you out, before he becomes more open. If things are meant to happen then they will in time.