[hanaholic]

My friend is having a hard time with her boyfriend.
Here's the story..
So..he had a bet with his friends to be a 'wonderful' boyfriend to her for a week, and one of his friends told her
She was in shock, number 1; he was only going to be a good boyfriend for money, and 2; shouldn't he be trying to be a good bf anyways? (by the end of the bet, he didn't even be a good boyfriend x.x; )


Seeing her bf..he's extremely shy; although he LOOKS like the outgoing type of guy
He never speaks his mind and doesn't even bother to say hello to her when they see eachother around school.
Plus, he also never did anything sweet towards her, she tells me..>.<

And he also gave some girl a piggyback ride when she waddled over and started whining,"OPPAAA!!!~~~ Gimme a piggyback riiide!!!!! ^3^ !!! "

Right now, she's holding a HUGE grudge against her bf, and has been ignoring him since the bet started/ended
And although he's apologized, she still feels she can't forgive him for the pain and anguish he's caused her..T~T

Based on your opinion..
What should she do about this?

I wanna help her, she seems really moody about this T^T

sankyuu~

[Swtess]

how long has it been since the grudge?
if its been long then tell her to forgive him already.
no point being iin a relationship if she's gonna to hold a grudge

[hanaholic]

how long has it been since the grudge?
if its been long then tell her to forgive him already.
no point being iin a relationship if she's gonna to hold a grudge

For about 2 days. @.@

[Seraphyx]

Life is too short to hold grudges, either forgive or forget.

[Cheri.B*]

My friend is having a hard time with her boyfriend.

And although he's apologized, she still feels she can't forgive him for the pain and anguish he's caused her..T~T

sankyuu~

If she can't take the pain he has given her, then end it. There's always going to be someone better out there. No point holding on grudges. It's a waste of time.

[C4Y [[Crazy 4 YeongSaeng]]]

i wouldn't worry too much about the piggayback incident.
they're probably just friends, and i ask other guys for piggaybacks all the time.
it's just a oppa/dongseng thing.

but about the bet ... sounds a lil shady.
and he seems like he doesn't care for her?
i'd just leave him.

[Annersx3]

how old are your friends? no offense they seem like they're in middle school.
she should forget the guy because what guy would make a bet to be a better boyfriend?
he should do it cause he likes her. dont waste time thinking about this.

[love*beat]

Tell him first about the way she feels about everything before she decides.

I think she should see it from his perspective before she just ends it.
(Since this is mostly from her perspective, even if he did seem like a douche lol)

And if nothing comes from it from the way the bf acts in the future, then obviously she knows what to do.

[myGLAMrocks]

grow up and forgive him or end the relationship
holding a grudge is getting them no where.

[bonjour tristesse.]

^ YEAH. i was going to say the exact same thing.

i mean, its a bet. yeah it would hurt anyones feelings but whats being mad towards the guy
going to do. im not saying the guy wasnt wrong because he definetely was but she needs to move on.

[Emerald Snow]

Uhh...how old is the guy again? 5? 10? He needs to grow up. In the meantime, your friend should really dump him. Why be in a relationship with someone that childish who doesn't even seem to really care about her at all?

[Flicksityy]

If she's going to hold a grudge, she'll look a lot cooler if she holds it after she dumps him coolly.

What's the point of holding a grudge, with no intention of getting rid of it, and somewhat still dating?

[xjuiiccy]

how old are your friends? no offense they seem like they're in middle school.
she should forget the guy because what guy would make a bet to be a better boyfriend?
he should do it cause he likes her. dont waste time thinking about this.

^^ LOL Agreed~

[ltnd.]

As with most of the people here..I see a maturity concern. Obviously taking a bet to being a "good boyfriend" is low and shady as well as childish. Of course it's going to hurt her..because she's obviously been deceived by this front that he's put up JUST FOR MONEY. Holding grudges against him isn't going to do anything.

In all honesty, she should just leave him because there might be other "childish" things that he will do later on in the relationship if it advances and it would just end up hurting her over and over.

Your friend should grow up, stop holding grudges, and tell her boyfriend how she really feels.

[littleangel19]

Should break up with him, because that's just stupid, thats like he doesn't love her. Should ask her to ask for his true feelings.