[and i sayd]

you've mistaken love for infatuation and invested alot of time convincing/reassuring your love is true but after you reassured that s/o and that s/o reassured you, you lost feelings or starting to lose feelings?

[BlazingSkies]

you've mistaken love for infatuation and invested alot of time convincing/reassuring your love is true but after you reassured that s/o and that s/o reassured you, you lost feelings or starting to lose feelings?

what is s/o

[chopstick^^]

what is s/o

significant other = boyfriend/girlfriend

[BlazingSkies]

you've mistaken love for infatuation and invested alot of time convincing/reassuring your love is true but after you reassured that s/o and that s/o reassured you, you lost feelings or starting to lose feelings?

wait do so um the girl like you
and the you like her

then you dont like her anymore after getting together?

[hiswendy]

Deal with it & see what happens.
Or apologize, explain & move on.
Granted the s/o might hate you,
but hey it's part of life.

[and i sayd]

wait do so um the girl like you
and the you like her

then you dont like her anymore after getting together?

yes that's exactly what

Deal with it & see what happens.
Or apologize, explain & move on.
Granted the s/o might hate you,
but hey it's part of life.

easier said then done :[

[BlazingSkies]

yes that's exactly what



easier said then done :[

i dunno why you would lsoe feelings after getting together...

[myxo]

i dunno why you would lsoe feelings after getting together...

People usually start losing feelings after getting together.

If the feeling is gone, then it's gone. You can try to resurrect it and see where the relationship goes, but if you're certain you no longer love the person you're with, the only logical thing to do is to move on.

Honestly, when I first got with my ex, it was mostly infatuation and curiosity that compelled me to stay with him. After the initial phase wore off, and I was certain I wasn't in love with him, I was stuck because I felt like I stayed with him out of pity. However, I don't know what happened after the whole pity stage, but as time continued and I stayed with him, I learned to love him.

[BlazingSkies]

People usually start losing feelings after getting together.

If the feeling is gone, then it's gone. You can try to resurrect it and see where the relationship goes, but if you're certain you no longer love the person you're with, the only logical thing to do is to move on.

Honestly, when I first got with my ex, it was mostly infatuation and curiosity that compelled me to stay with him. After the initial phase wore off, and I was certain I wasn't in love with him, I was stuck because I felt like I stayed with him out of pity. However, I don't know what happened after the whole pity stage, but as time continued and I stayed with him, I learned to love him.

so you're saying if best friends got together it would be better since they knew all about each other and they love each other because of that?

[myxo]

so you're saying if best friends got together it would be better since they knew all about each other and they love each other because of that?

uhm, how did you derive that from what I said?
Oh to clarify what I meant about losing feelings after getting together, I didn't mean the initial onset of getting together that triggers the loss of feelings, but more like after the high of the chase wears down, etc. (assuming the two got together because they were infatuated with one another)

[Refinnejam]

Wait and see how things progress before making any hasty, regretful decisions.
Make sure for certain your feelings are stable, and that you no longer want to be with this person, because it'd probably be horrible if you decided a few weeks later that it was all a big mistake.
Maybe find some time to have a deep, clear think about the situation.

[and i sayd]

People usually start losing feelings after getting together.

If the feeling is gone, then it's gone. You can try to resurrect it and see where the relationship goes, but if you're certain you no longer love the person you're with, the only logical thing to do is to move on.

Honestly, when I first got with my ex, it was mostly infatuation and curiosity that compelled me to stay with him. After the initial phase wore off, and I was certain I wasn't in love with him, I was stuck because I felt like I stayed with him out of pity. However, I don't know what happened after the whole pity stage, but as time continued and I stayed with him, I learned to love him.

how long did you stick with him after losing your feelings till you learn to love him

[plegend2007]

In my case.....

I would act like a man and tell her the truth.

The truth will always set you free.

[and i sayd]

In my case.....

I would act like a man and tell her the truth.

The truth will always set you free.

the truth also hurts like a B****

[purplebowss]

that happened to me before. i guess just move on