[littleangel19]

*please delete post, if this has been posted before*

Something Interesting, I heard from my bf. He has Asian grandparents, and they told him something, that I thought normal Asian parents or grandparents wouldn't say.
"WTF is wrong with you! You two are couples sleep together!" (something like that)

Here is the story:

I am staying over my boyfriend for the first time. I will be there a little more than a week, and I will be staying at his house. A few days ago, his grandparents came to help him clean his room. They asked him when I would be visiting, and asked where I would be staying. He reply back with " in my room." And then his grandpa asked " how about you?" and He reply back with " in the living room." His grandpa told him, that he and I are a couple, and should be staying in the same room. and also said " wtf is wrong with you."

Which he kind of freaked out about, because his grandparents complain when his other brother and younger sister sleeps together with their bf/gf. And here is the thing to keep note of

1. I haven't met his grandparents or parent
2. This is my first visit
3. They are the traditional Asian family

So what do you guys think? What's your view on this? Is this normal? Have you guys experience something like this? Just any random comment!

[b.changg]

Go ahead, if you aren't scared. :3
im not sure if that's on topic but, gogogo. Lols.

My grandparents.. i love them (:
im not sure if they'd act like that but surely they would accept the fact if i is in loves with my girlfriend.. (if) .

seems normal to me, im guessing your boyfriend and is grandparents are really close,
or are jokers. lols.

is nice to see something like this. (:

[littleangel19]

Go ahead, if you aren't scared. :3
im not sure if that's on topic but, gogogo. Lols.

My grandparents.. i love them (:
im not sure if they'd act like that but surely they would accept the fact if i is in loves with my girlfriend.. (if) .

seems normal to me, im guessing your boyfriend and is grandparents are really close,
or are jokers. lols.

is nice to see something like this. (:

Heehee I'm not sure if it's a joke or not, but he said it didn't sound like it. He's grandpa is one of those serious type haha.

[Adionik]

Wow...that's awesome. I would say 99% of parents would not even let their childrens bf/gf stay over. I had to sneak mine over LOL

[mekka]

I am sure the grandparents realize that they are sleeping together, so why not do it openly with their conscent. Welcome to the 21st century, most parents turn a blind eye thinking their children is not sleeping together at least they acknowledge the possibility. Well done grandparents/parents you should be commended, other parents should be this open ans understanding.

[bonjour tristesse.]

Wow...that's awesome. I would say 99% of parents would not even let their childrens bf/gf stay over. I had to sneak mine over LOL

lmfao. yeah, same here. i know mine are like that .

and i know i def. have to sneak too. lol.

[plegend2007]

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH GRANDPA WANTING HIS GRANDSON TO GET SOME

[duchess]

I stay over at my boyfriend's house practically every weekend and his parents are cool with it (they're Chinese and I sleep in his room). His mom is really nice and treats me like her own daughter which is really unlike traditional Asian parents. We even went on a trip once and she paid for everything. However, I feel bad for being such a mooch so I help do the dishes or clean the house occasionally.

[ShadowMax76]

they wants kids. :] that's the only asian thing i hear in all of it.

[Layla111]

they wants kids. :] that's the only asian thing i hear in all of it.

thats wat i was thinking too

[sus]

how old r u

mayb hes testing u?

[kivvi]

haha that's awesome!

take advantage of it and be happy that his family likes/trusts you (even if you haven't met yet)

[C4Y [[Crazy 4 YeongSaeng]]]

i feel like it's a test ._______.
i might be wrong ... but ....

i know asian parents (not grandparents) that say that but they don't mean it.
I would be careful about it ...
and if it seems like his grandparents really DO want you to sleep in the same room ... then go ahead.
Just don't let your guard down too easily.

[Miss.Understood]

LOL Don't make a bad impression, that's all. = ) So choose wisely - together or separate?

[littleangel19]

Hehe we are sleeping separate : D And we're 18 lol

[mintcracker]

how long have you guys been together for?

THat might be a factor too.

[hippiehop]

Maybe it's a test! Why would grandparents ever say that....

[Stolen_waters]

Maybe it's a test! Why would grandparents ever say that....

True true!
'cause their different with his bro.

Or 'cause probably you look like someone who's gonna give them a cute & healthy grandchild SOON. HAHA