[red.love]

I have this major crush for a guy at tutor, his parents and my parents know each other too XD. We've been friends since the middle of last year, but feelings only came in about a month ago. I was on msn and we were talking to each other. At the end of the night (10.30 ish?), we said out goodnight but before either of us logged out I wrote to him

It's really nice talking to you

He wrote, "Ahahha. I'm gay you know."

I don't really understand why he did that, was it because I sounded like I was flirting? Cos I asked my girl friends and they said that it was just a statement. The both of us saw each other last night and since his rents are going out of town for two weeks pretty soon and its going to be daylight savings again it's going to be dark, as a normal friend would do, I asked him if he needed lifts, then I'd provide it (actually, my dad would do the driving).

Please help me out, I haven't had a major crush for anyone before. My other crushes probably wouldn't even fit into the category of crushes, cos it was more of admiration for the guy T..T I really don't know how to act in front of this guy anymore. It was so much easier when we were friends, cos I was myself and didn't act like someone I wasn't. It's so hard now when I'm at tutor O.o

/red.love

[jaked]

Unless there's more to the conversation, I don't think he told you he was gay because he thought you were flirting. He probably just randomly thought he should tell you. As for what to do about your feelings, once you realize he'll never be into you, you'll get over it.

[Seraphyx]

It's not like you can "ungay" him. It's best that you move on. He probably told you he was gay probably because he thought you were coming on to him.

[bonjour tristesse.]

guys like to kid around ; you shouldnt read too much into it and if you wanna know if he really is gay then just ask him yourself.

[ShadowMax76]

what most people do, when having 'love' affect how they act, is that they try to be likable.

some people can do it, but other people instead become an annoyingly adorable push-over puppy.

_ i'm not all too sure if it's safe to say that 'love' makes a person insecure, but trying to be someone else obviously means that you don't think being you will do the job. o_O' but... i'm pretty sure it would..

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

err unless there are other proves, I wouldn't believe that he's gay
people wouldn't really state that he's gay out of the blue. So I assume it was just joking. But hey, I might be wrong.

[mintcracker]

eh this is a tricky situation. You should continue to act normal and see if he is? Or if he just said that cos he wants to stay frds. =)