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#1 User is offline   bbyBoss 

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Posted 01 April 2009 - 03:07 PM

Well my actual family kinda died when I was young. My parents are divorced now and my dad remarried {I live with him} and he had another kid {my 6 month old baby sister} and well I remember..sometimes my dad can be an angry person. I remember when I used to get sick, really bad when I was little, he yells at me..and i'm like wth..you don't yell at someone who's sick. He would take care of me like put a blanket over my head when I had a fever {and the last time he did that was when I was like 7 sleep.gif"} and he'd be yelling at me during the process, like it's my fault I was sick.

But now..just today during spring break, I got sick and half the week is already gone. Monday night I had a fever and it went away Tuesday although I am still sick. Like I can't get outta bed. But my parents don't even KNOW i'm sick o_o I could have told them but I dunno every time im sick my parents don't do anything so I don't say much.

But yeah..that's all the care I get from my family..

What bout yours?

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Posted 01 April 2009 - 03:29 PM

Well like most asian familes, there's definetly no hugging or kissing for me, that'll be akward. XD

They care by asking me what food I wanna eat and giving me rides. cool.gif
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Posted 01 April 2009 - 03:39 PM

uhm o_o well, i love my family a lot and i know my parents care about me...
some things i can think about on how they care is..... well, they always buy me my favourite foods even though i never ask (and i am a very picky eater), my mom always picks me up from school and drives me to school (even though i can walk haha and i do like walking :X) o_o, i remember- my dad was at work and stuff- but he actually left work to pick me up (and it's like reallyreallyreally far away, takes at least an hour to get there and back) and cause i was sick o_o and my mom was unavailable/away that day, i remember they spoiled me when i was younger- i got to go to amusement parks a lot, and well they always give me money even though i tell them i don't need it o_o... and they care about when i get too skinny (cause sometimes i actually do ~_~) and they try to make me eat more and stuff. so they really care about my health and all that.
i remember, last year, i went halloween trick or treating w/ my friends (it was fun but i felt too old for it LOL)- my parents waited up for me even though they shouldnt have :[ cause i went home really late but they were really worried. they get worried about my sister too when she comes home late. so yeah o_o i try not to go home late. :0

and today. my mom got me a nightlight even though i never asked for one o_o (yeah i know it's a childish thing LOL but i don't like the dark) i guess she realized that was why i always kept my room door open for the hallway light :X

anyways. there's too many things. i can't list them all even if i ever tried for years and years. hahahs.

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I'm sure your parents love you a lot, so don't ever doubt their love unless they give you a reason to.
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Posted 01 April 2009 - 03:44 PM

Exceptionally supportive, very motivating, caring my parents are my best friends so is all my sisters. I have the best family in the world all my friends will confirm that they are super jealous. All our siblings has never ever disappointed our parents, thus far we have made them proud. Why, because we are all individuals with different personalities and was raised to respect ourself, be honest, always be good to others and be the best friends to my siblings. happy.gif
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Posted 02 April 2009 - 11:55 PM

my parents show they care by hardly ever letting me out. mellow.gif

and then the occassional buying me my favourite chocolates, new clothes, and things that i've wanted for a really long time. and that makes up for it. biggrin.gif

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Posted 03 April 2009 - 12:00 AM

By giving me money, food, clothes, and a place to sleep at night. Oh yeah and to actually dealing with a child like me. Parents aren't the best parents in the world still love them though.

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Posted 03 April 2009 - 12:30 AM

By understanding me and giving me the best.
Bad thing i suck at repaying them though.0__O
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Posted 03 April 2009 - 12:38 AM

when they spoil me.
jk
who am i kidding, it's true haha.

of course my parents care, then why would they be working then?
i'm just happy they provide me with the necessities i need plus health and education.

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Posted 03 April 2009 - 01:32 AM

doing things for me
they've never had
when they where kids.

_ there's that memory i had..
i think it was my 16th or 17th birthday
waking up, i noticed a blue envelope on the floor outside my door
going back to sit on my bed
i opened it,

it was a birthday card

and it said "We love you"

.. haha. so sudden. of course i almost cried.
they're the type of parents that are afraid of being mean to their kids, so they just leave them alone..
we barely speak. the most we ever see each other in a day is at dinner for 10-15minutes. other than that, we're all doing our own thing.
_ jus' wanted to share that extra. haha..~
.if ya wanted something a little less cheesy. there's the time when i couldn't get into uni.
they tried their best in not yelling at me. a ha ha..
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Posted 03 April 2009 - 09:05 AM

when they call often everyday to check up, buying me things I want, taking me out to eat, giving me money to spend, taking care of me and panicking when I'm sick. mellow.gif
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Posted 07 April 2009 - 06:43 PM

they want to be the best i can be ( lol sounds cheesy, but true)
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Posted 07 April 2009 - 07:53 PM

^ Lol! samee~

For me, they always ask if I'm okay (about anything; riding the bus, sicknesses), buys me food, wants to buy me clothes, motivates me, supportive, and just talking on a daily bases.
Lol, my dad tucks me in at night : )
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Posted 08 April 2009 - 02:00 AM

my mom has this motherly instinct/gut that alerts her whenever i'm sick or sad.. o.o;;

my parents show it together by being strict..
like, i can't do this until i graduate from college cause they won't stop me from doing anything that i want..
(1-2 more years, yeah >:'D)
and they always tell us to tell them what we like/want/need.. o.o;;


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Posted 08 April 2009 - 02:24 PM


When they try to ask about school and how I have been doing, but clearly they trust me with managing my studies.
When they offer to go shopping with me<3 (Mother.)
When they ask me what I want to eat tomorrow, because they know one day I won't be here.
When they yell at me because of the slightest wrong I've done but they forgive me.
When they yell at me because of the hugest mistakes I've made, but they forgive me.

I know they care because they are my parents. I know their love without the need for them to show it.
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Through all the times, no matter what, i love them.

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