[uhhimaninja]

So, I've been talking to this fella for awhile. Not like the talking talking, just like friends. Or that's how I see it.

He would call me late at night, well it depends, there were 2 weeks when he called me everyday, besides the weekend, cause we both go out. Then he stopped calling me for awhile. And before all of that he would aim me everyday. So he likes to fall asleep on the phone with me, like literally sleeping on the other line. And all my friends think he does like me, and that we're talking. He sometimes text me also, but not often. And recently he's been calling me more, but i unno. This has been going on since begining of january when i meet him.

I admit that I do have feelings for him. But im just unsure of whats up between us. I've never been in a relationship before, so im clueless with this stuff. I asked for advice from my friends, and they tell me he's quite confusing to read/understand. Some say we're semi talking and others say we are. And when he does call, the convo last for about 15 min, then its him going to sleep. -____-

So I need advice on what to do, should I just ask him straight forward ? But then, I don't want to ruin our friendship thinking that their is something. Ayaah, boys are too confusing !

[ShadowMax76]

o_O' january? 3-4 months?

do something if you like him. quick
@_@ when a guy suddenly avoids you, he's trying to get over you..

[Regrets]

just ask him how he feeels!
no point guessing when hes so hard to understand

and whoa, he falls asleep while being on the phone with you?
what do you do? sit there and call his name when there's no use? :L

[Ayuu~]

yehh. u should just straight out ask him how he feelz

[mizz_J]

This is what one of my best friends went through for a couple of weeks, except her bf was one who did all the moves and stuff

Anyway, you should definitely talk to him and ask him what's going on and all that.

[littleangel19]

You should ask him about his feelings!

[nj.s.k]

Ask him on a date. . . . . . . . . . . .

[Lavender.Sky]

just ask him how he feeels!
no point guessing when hes so hard to understand

and whoa, he falls asleep while being on the phone with you?
what do you do? sit there and call his name when there's no use? :L

[uhhimaninja]

I hang up after 5 minutes, but he got mad when I told him I usually hang up on him afterwards. He goes " What if I wake up in the middle of the night and want to talk to you ? " Which he has done a couple of times. So I just leave him on speakerphone and do w/e.

And when I asked him why he calls me every time he sleeps he said " I feel comfortable sleeping on the phone next to you "

That's what confuses me the most, and he's the one who usually calls me.

I'm planning on asking him about what this whole dealio is soon.


Thank you for all of your guys advice !

[h0ney]

omg..ive had this before
just rmb one thing.. to him.. this could be just flirting
you could be just this person to talk to
and cos ur interested in listening, his interested in you cos theres someone to listen to him, and available to do so
learn to protect yourself, never throw urself out there all bare and vulnerable
i talked to this guy for 2 months, he told me he likes me, i told him i liked him
and then..? when it came to being together, he said he had too many problems and wasnt looking for a relationship
then it dawned on me, that he was just after a listener, someone who was interested in him
listen to what he says.. is it mostly abt him?
and he falls asleep so quickly..means his not v interested in wot u have to say

[shan_mei]

sounds like he likes you. what to do? if you enjoy this kind of games ( nothing negative intended) then continue being flirt friends; if you're ready to take a step forward, then initiate something; tell him that you like him or drop big hints.

[bonjour tristesse.]

haha, ive been through a situation like you. but anyways, i just think you should tell him. its way better if you do

[uhhimaninja]

So I asked him if he likes me. & He says no, he didn't directly say no, he said the mhmm, in the no way ? If that made sense.

And after that we didnt talk for a couple days, and now he's texting me.

He's just so confusing.