[littleangel19]

Please delete if already posted

I was just wondering, Since this happen to a lot of people it seems.
For all you girls, when you are mad and you want your s/o to find out... they never do! EVEN IF YOU HINT TO THEM.
And when you don't want them to know, THEY KNOW! sad isn't it? Doesn't it always cause problems too?

Care to share what has happen to you too? (boy side or girl side, doesn't matter!)


**edit : D I'm not in any kind of situation as this right now! It's just that I thought it'll be interesting to see what other think about it, like if it's true or not.

[happiisunshin]

Ugh, hints never work. They're damn useless when it comes to guys, jeez.

Um, well, this happened to me twice (but not exactly "he finds out") and instead of a significant other, it's a guy friend in both scenarios.

Guy Friend #1:
He almost slams me into a display case, punches my shoulder and yells at me all because I told our mutual friend what happened to his new phone. (He has a bad history with dropping phones in the snow, water, etc.) Forgets what he did the next day and that causes me to ignore him for a week. (How can you honestly forget beating up someone?) He asked me why he was angry at me, I told him through a friend, and now we're okay. He apologized but he told everyone that I was pissed at him because he yelled at me, leaving out the parts where he beated me up.

Guy Friend #2:
I asked him to hang out, he said he was grounded for three weeks.
Truth: He told me the following Monday he wasn't grounded and that he was busy partying all weekend.
I asked him to the prom as friends, he said "Maybe".
Truth: From a really close friend of his, he thought saying "Maybe" is better than "No"! That's leaving me hanging! I even gave him some time to think about it after asking he agreed (before I found this out)! He wanted to ask out another girl too. Dude, I'm fine with that too. Just say "No/I'm sorry, I'm planning to ask another girl out", it's not that hard I'm not going to break down damn. And if someone's going to say to me "It's hard to reject someone", it sure is hard to ask someone to a dance too.

We made up though. He approached me why I was ignoring him, I told him, he apologized.

The thing with me though is that I'm really unwilling to tell the guy why I'm angry with. I expect him to have a remember what happened but in the end he always ends up finding out by me, unwillingly enough, since at least asking why I'm ignoring him shows a sign that he cares about our friendship.

[Mryanhon]

funny how girls always say hints never work with guys, but they never look at themselves and see if their hints are actually good or make sense ~ lets say a girl hints to her guy shes mad, but one time before when her guy asked, she said "ill tell you when i feel like it", so then, is the guy supposed to notice these hints even after the girl practically said, "i wont give hints, ill tell you when i want to"? (make up your mind!)

[happiisunshin]

funny how girls always say hints never work with guys, but they never look at themselves and see if their hints are actually good or make sense ~ lets say a girl hints to her guy shes mad, but one time before when her guy asked, she said "ill tell you when i feel like it", so then, is the guy supposed to notice these hints even after the girl practically said, "i wont give hints, ill tell you when i want to"? (make up your mind!)

If the guy asked the girl why she's angry at him (or something along the lines), that means he must have already noticed these "hints" right before the girl says "I'll tell you when I feel like it".

Second, a lot of the time when girls say, "I'll tell you when I feel like it", that's just a key to give them some time to let their anger simmer so they can calmly tell the guy why they're mad at them so they can solve out the problem.

[xorgasmxmachinex]

Just be honest. . . .or better yet: blunt.

[chopstick^^]

well, if he knows u really well, he will get the hint. It there something that's not "normal" about u, they know somethings up.

If he doesn't notice, then it just mean's he doesn't take note of ur behavior or personality & is only into ur body. I take that as a insult, coz it means u have no personality to catch his attention.

[mizz_J]

A guy friend of mine and i was talking about this on Monday cause his gf's always mad at him and stuff (she's kinda psycho ), yet he doesn't know why. Then she tells him AFTER they make up.

He asked me if this was a girl's thing because i did that to him awhile ago too. I told him no but i dont think that he believes me LOL

HMM i think i'm describing a different situation here.

[xblush]

lol~ I always let my bf know when I'm mad...
I don't keep it from him... o_O"
but... I'm rarely mad at him...
I mean, we do get into arguements..
but they rarely last over 24 hours... haha..

[hippiehop]

Open communication is key to a healthy relationship.

[Painterlyy]

Personally for me..i'm really blunt about that kind of stuff. If i'm mad, i'll make sure you know. So guys don't have to worry about mixed signals with me

[i13elieve]

yah its kinda wierd.
my Bf know whats wrong all the time when im feeling down.
he can always tell that im sad or mad or soemthing.
but when i dotn want him to find out he does.
its hard cuz sometimes i wanna wait to tell him why im mad
or wanna let it settle out instead of saying something.

[l3oosh]

When I'm mad, EVERYONE knows it >.> Could be good or bad. My friends tell me I have this habit of fluttering my eyelids superfast when I'm annoyed or angry. And I glare. Really fiercely too, apparently. If I'm pissed during an online conversation I somehow start using punctuation marks. How anyone noticed that, I have no idea, but my friends all know xD I guess I do leave subtle clues as to when I'm angry, but all my friends are so in-tune with it, they're not subtle for them anymore.

When someone does notice I'm angry and they ask if I'm okay, I'll tell you straight out I'm angry/pissed and why. But I'm not going to go up to you and say, "I'm angry because blah." It's a little too confrontational for me.

[izawa]

lol for my bf
when I'm mad, I have to tell him I'm mad
even if its very obvious
or he will never know lol

[akira53]

Just be honest. . . .or better yet: blunt.

yeah agreed. I don't see the point of hiding something like that.

[ohloves]

I don't get mad that often but I get hurt often enough. I usually don't say anything because I'll think that I will forget about or that it doesn't matter and it usually doesn't. But when I get really mad , it's pretty obvious.

I'll just have an irritated tone in my voice , i'll glare at people or ignore them. But I don't say anything sometimes because they don't always notice and I think that maybe being mad is stupid or something. And other times I want it to figure it out themselves because I think that people should acknowledge their mistakes , whether they apologise or stand up for themselves , since I only get really mad when they do something completely out of line. And it makes me more likely to stay mad for a lesser time.

[lxh]

I'd love to be blunt, but something always holds me back. Whenever he asks me if I was okay or "what's wrong" I just say "It's nothing, I'll tell you later." Which makes me feel so so so bad because then neither of us is happy T_T.

So I agree: Just be straight forward and be blunt, that's what I'm doing instead of avoiding the problem, which works out wonderfully.

[CHOMP!]

my boyfriend ALWAYS knows
but this is because i drop little hints
and we've been together long enough where he'll actually pick them up and realize something isn't right

[mickeylovers24]

I think I have the worst boyfriend in history. Ahahaa.
When I'm mad at him, I give him the silent treatment and the glare. But it doesn't last long, since
I'll just start blabbing about to him why I'm mad at him.

And his response... Oh...let me get the water so you will cool down.

Seriously -_____-

[angels.disguise]

what are you talking about?
they always know. its because
girls give out these signals that make the air uncomfortable.

lmao (:

[I_Love_Rice]

Most of the time girls are all over the place, and when your not, THEY KNOW. THeY KNOW.