[whodabomb]

Okay so Ive like this girl for a long time and i have no idea why. But i think i just like her cuz of her physical traits and such. But what i want is to like her for her personality. I always lust when i see her, and i want to stop. Can i ask for help cuz this is bothering me >.<

Oh! and whenever i see her i turn into a completely new person who is very boring, but im a very fun person to be around but wen she comes i turn into a compleetely boring person.. how do i change this? Helpp pleasee. thank youu ^^

[ShadowMax76]

you don't hang with girls much do you? o-0'

[whodabomb]

Lolss actually i do ahaha just didnt have a relationship with one ahaha x]

[futureinyou]

no worries man, im the same w/ you haha.
but the girl i like, i like her for both sides.
and whenever im around her.. i just shut down
but it might be that you're nervous or something?
dunno haha

[ROCKETTOTHEMOON]

You're physically attracted to her, so get to know her and see if you're physically and mentally attracted to her. simple.

[Dreamer]

many people approach the opposite sex the way you do
going by appearance first and then hoping you'll be able to deal with the personality
right now you are infatuated with her
you need to get to know this girl and find out what makes her tick
hopefully you'll like her and she doesn't do things that turn you off
the best of luck

oh and although you've probably heard this many times, it still rings true.
"be yourself."

[hobobear]

so... youre just observing from afar? you keep writing the word "see"
i suggest if you want to know her personality that you actually hang out with her.

[whodabomb]

Well i think i do know a lot of things about her. I am very good friends with her and used to talk to her alot until we started to like each other. But I didnt do anything cause at the same time my friend also liked her so i waited and unfortunalty i waited too long, but i still told her i liked her but she said she thinks me only as a friend. Then after that we barely talk now, but I still like her though and later on she started to like me again but liked someone else at the same time. Then she stopped liking that someone else and now i have no idea if she likes me now. lolss

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

most people are shyer than usual to the person they like.
It's usual, what you should do is just try to change that, by telling yourself that you don't like her.

[aiyan]

How old are you? You sound really young. Correct me if I'm wrong.

It's normal to be attracted to her physical traits, but really liking someone is liking her for who she is.

[whodabomb]

Haha im 16 =]] lolss idk if thats considered young but ehh lolss yeaah i try changing that lolss

[**windi/hongy**]

john teshing get in there man. Just go rekindle that mini cooper.