[makelovenoises]

A lot of people tells me that everyone is a two-faced to some extent, I agree on that.
^ prove me wrong D: I feel like this is a bad theory in a way.

Do you "fake" a lot?

My friends tell me that I am super obvious when I try to fake, as in laughing and being friendly to a person I dislike.
That was long ago, now this school year, I don't like someone, then I don't talk to them or speak my mind.

Honestly IMO, if I dislike someone, why waste my time pretending to be their friend? So I get the reputation of being the "meanie" in the group because I bluntly show my dislike towards someone by either ignoring them or commenting directly towards them.
Then my other friends tells me behind a person's back how they hate them so much, but when we hang out with the person, they act like the best of friends. They tell me it's all about being fake.

Even so, there are people whom I don't really get along with, but I try to be friendly and talk to them. <- I don't consider that as faking since I do want to be nice. But if the person is the ones that gets on my nerves or just annoys me, then I'll just talk to someone else or speak my mind.

Recently I apologized to a girl I have ignored for months because of her BOYFRIEND's (now ex) problem with me. But really, I didn't have a reason to dislike her. So I apologized one day for ignoring her, and I told her I don't want to act like a fake, so I didn't talk to her because I don't talk to people I don't like. I also mentioned I guess I didn't like her because of her ex-boyfriend because we have had some past problems.
She forgave me, and liked how I'm so honest and came full out on everything. We're awesome now. I talk to her a lot ^^

I've had a few friends who told me that the world needs more people like "me". I guess what they mean is people that doesn't intend on acting like a fake. But in someway, isn't that bad either? Cause then we would be considered the cold-hearted people, right? No?

[anthonymarie]

yeah i agree with you,
i dont think being not fake is coldhearted, i guess people in this world(probably including me ) want to hear "real" stuff to make them feel better.
im not two faced, i hate people who are and i just lose total respect for them.

[angelarr]

yeh, alot of people are two faced to a certain extent. i'm working on my two-facedness
because it is "fake"
personally, i'd much rather people be honest with me, and if they have a problem, say it to my face.
it sorts things out faster without misunderstandings and blah

[<3 Kim]

Yeah, I agree with you. I hate being fake so if I don't like someone I'm not going to waste my time acting nice to them, I'd ignore them or I could end up saying something mean. It annoys me when some people just act nice to me when I know they have a problem with me. I'd rather them just either tell me truth to my face (and not indirectly with posts =_=)

But yeah I know quite a few two-faced people, everyone sees through them anyway, it's so obvious.

[charcoalfilter1101]

It's bad to "fake" yourself. For me, why should I spend my time w/ people that I dislike. Why hangout w/ them? I just ignore and avoid them as soon as possible. I only choose people that I would like to hangout and have friends with especially those who do their own real thing and not "faking" themselves all the time.

It's much alright for to act myself rather than to "fake" myself. Just keep it real people!!!

[ninyaah]

Everyone is fake/two-faced to some extent. I don't believe anyone who says they're not :| I also try to be nice to everyone, because I hate having arguments with other people. I always try to be patient and understanding. But if I really don't like someone, it usually shows with the way I act around that person. If I don't like you, I wouldn't speak to you unless you're asking me something. Like, don't expect me to be all friendly with you.

[scishock]

I never really understood this "two-face" thing because in reality, the personality you chose to project is a choice you've made and even though it does not convey your normal personality, it is still you. To me, it's just a way for a person to become closer to the person they want to be. If you think it is "bad" to fake yourself.. why? Why is it a waste to spend time with people you dislike? If you are able to chill with people you disagree with, it makes you realize the difference between each individual and makes you a better person.

[Ch0xi]

I agree with ninyaaah!
Everyone is fake, at least a little bit. I know I am. I try to be nice to everyone so I don't hurt them, but some people who really get on my nerves I just try to ignore so I don't say anything mean. =/ Unless they're asking a direct question, lols, it's not like I just turn away. Haha xD But yeah. Generally, I can get along with most people. But some people can be really obnoxious..

[Lie]

People have trouble differentiating between being "fake" and being "tactful." Being fake is pretending you like someone when you don't. Being tactful is being professional, treating people decently, including the ones you don't care for; tactfulness is necessary in most social and professional environments. You're not going to like everyone that you work with, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't be decent to them.

[Meenuh]

People are fickle. Majority of the times these mini cooper talking sessions are just ways of venting. Doesn't mean they hate them or dislike them just because of that. I mean, hey, when I get pissed off I say mini cooper about my family and then next day i'll be nice to them and it doesn't mean i'm fake. It just means I have emotions just like every other human being that need to be vented out.

[KCfan_1314]

I dont know-
It's just that when you just meet someone or see a stranger; you try to be nice to them and give them patience. But as time. . pass, you develop feelings and grow comfortable to the people. :3 So i don't know. I don't technically think I am two-faced, because I try to treat everyone the same.
But how things turn out between me and that person- it depends what happen inbetween.

Well, one thing for sure-
I am not one of those two faces buttwipes that talk crap behind people's back . . .or use it to avenge anybody. . . that's just pathetic & sad. >_<

[Honey.bee]

Yeah, I agree, everyone has a two side to some extent. But it doesn't make them narrow-minded or cold-hearted, afterall, everyone have mood swingings.

[QWERTY.]

people hate me
i hate people
they know i hate them
i tell everyone i hate them


yes everyone is a two face.
sometimes i will pretend to be nice or talk to someone cause i dont want to make it awkward for the people next to me
but seriously i known too many of them so i seriously dont even care if i have friends or not.
people can call me a pinkberry and i will laugh
i will be nice to people who are nice to me. but you do something bad to me i'll befriend you in an instant

[Hazy]

Definitely, I agree with you. Everyone is two faced to a certain extent. Some people are just more two faced than others.

Meh, I think confronting people is a better method than being two faced and pretending that you like someone when really, you have a problem with them.

I think it'd just go back to you one day.

Being blunt is definitely the best way to go, IMO.

[Lavender.Sky]

i hate...2 faced people
and fake people

i try not to be?
i guess it depends what you mean by FAKE
cuz ..everyone has different definitions since some ppl wrote that: everyone is fake
and some didnt =\

[Painterlyy]

I agree with you. I try not to be fake...but..sometimes, when you don't like someone and you don't want to be mean and tell them straight up..you just have to be a little fake.

[i13elieve]

omg seriously. i hate 2faced people.
i never act like that unless im in a situation where i really have to be.
like if my guy friend likes this girl thats a beeatch then i be nice to her.
out of respect to my guy friend.
other then that im not nice. i just say stright up that i dont like them or
that i have a problem with them. i just dont like 2faced people.
especially if they are your good friends -__-;

[KTHubbybunch]

sad to say i'm Multi-faced but mostly find me cool to be with seriously.

you'll never know the real me at HOME, ONLINE & OUTSIDE PLACES.

that's why people view the goods & bads of me in different locations. LOL

[lemoncake0910]

well...
I'd say I suck at faking at things... and most of the time I fail because it's so easy to read me whenever I try to fake at something...
(ex: smiling when i don't feel like smiling, being nice to people although on the inside I don't want anything to do with them, etc) or say something that doesn't match how I am really feeling inside.
So I guess I'm a straight-forward kind of person?
I don't really like two-faced people either though. =\

[xXJaeJoongSarangXx]

two face is cool

i am different infront of differnt people and i always talk smack behind their backs it feels good to let it all out