[Psyche81]

So, I was chatting with my guy friend and suddenly he said "Oh! I should confirm! I don't have a girlfriend!" out of the blue. I think it's because there were some posts by a girl he's never met saying that she misses him on his cyworld.

But really, the funny thing is I never asked him about his current dating status nor was I teasing him about being a player. So why does he feel the need to clarify with me that he's still single out of the blue like that? What kind of response are guys looking for when they say that???? Because my reply was "Ok....you're single...but I never asked you in the first place." Was my response the wrong response???

[Meenuh]

Lol no. I would've been like that too. That's so weird. You sure he doesn't like you?

[Lummox]

I think guys just feel like they're laying it out there. Maybe he is considering going after you? So he wants you to know that he's single. It's kind of funny, cause I would've probably responded the same way. Like... uh do I care? hahah

[potepote]

Maybe he likes your friend? I dunno.

[i_4got]

He either likes you, or cares enough about your opinion that he doesn't want you thinking that he's a player.

By the way girls, I'm single!...

[bonjour tristesse.]

i think its a way of his to tell you he likes you. lol

[chopstick^^]

Erm, well wouldn't u like to know? .. Maybe he could read ur mind. He know's what ur thinking!
He's telling u he's single, so he hinting u can try courting him... he's avalible.

[Painterlyy]

Do you think he likes one of your friends?

[Tuxedomask]

So, I was chatting with my guy friend and suddenly he said "Oh! I should confirm! I don't have a girlfriend!" out of the blue. I think it's because there were some posts by a girl he's never met saying that she misses him on his cyworld.

But really, the funny thing is I never asked him about his current dating status nor was I teasing him about being a player. So why does he feel the need to clarify with me that he's still single out of the blue like that? What kind of response are guys looking for when they say that???? Because my reply was "Ok....you're single...but I never asked you in the first place." Was my response the wrong response???

Are you sure you don't like him also? You seem to be be giving this a little too much thought and you are noticing little details like the girl on his cyworld page.

[squishybear]

He said that because obviously he wants you to know that.

[Pogichinoy]

He's hinting you to set him up with a girl.

[MNLV27]

What the other people said could be what he meant, but maybe he said that because it was a spur of the moment thought, so he just said it without much thought in it to you, like how a thought or idea just suddenly pops up in your head and you unconsciously just say it out loud.

[Joisushi]

it means that he's single.


lol your response isn't wrong...but didn't it make the conversation a bit...awkward after you said that? o_o

[vickstahs]

what can a guy mean when he says he's single...?
(: hes single. and he wants you to know it. tis all.

[&. crepuscular]

mb he's just really really open and his personality's like that?
i have a guy friend like that. he tells me EVERYTHING about his life and he's always like EUNSOL, HUG MEE. I MISSED YOUUUUUU. and i'm like "you have a girlfriend" and he's like nooooo i don'tttt. i'm singleee lalala.
mb your friend is like mine! always so happy-go-lucky and random.

idt your response was wrong o-o

[Meletta]

Lol I would've been like, "I am too! .....?" or "Great. I have a boyfriend...?"
Then seen his reaction xD <3

It IS a strange remark.

I'm a bit more blunt, I may have just said "...and your point is...?"
<3 It does sound like he's interested in you, or has some reason to tell you that xD
People are allowed to be random sometimes lol xD it's no big deal unless you're interested in him? O_O xDDD

[Psyche81]

I don't know *lol* We're just close friends as far as I know. I mean he tells me everything and I tell him everything. I'm able to tell him everything cuz we don't share the same circle of friends (I've never introduced him to my friends and vice versa) so i don't have to worry about him blabbing everything to people I know. ^p^

And as for his cyworld page, it's hard to not notice. *lol* Plus his friends back in Korea also give him a hard time calling him 바람둥이. He gets pretty upset about that. >p<

Maybe you're right, it was just a random comment.

[Cin De]

haha hes thinking he might have a chance with you

just another way of saying "HOLA AT ME!!! "