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How Comfortable Have You Gotten W/ Ur Gf/bf? doing stuff you would never do when the relationship first started...

#1 User is offline   paggie 

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Post icon  Posted 08 April 2009 - 07:32 PM

From being BEING SHY to KISSING IN PUBLIC to SWEET NAME CALLING and then to all the hard times like HEATED ARGUMENTS...

It's all those things you would never thought of doing when you FIRST DATED EACH OTHER.

When do you know you've reach that time in a relationship...THE COMFORTABLE ZONE!

Me and my bf have been talking for 1 1/2 years now and I find that sometimes we get wayyyy too comfortable around each other because we say and do things that brings out the other side of each other...

For example...
► we cuss at each other using words I would have never thought of saying to him
► he talks to me like I'm one of his homeboys and I'm like "wtf are you talking about?
► I don't bother putting on that much makeup or any makeup in his presence
► he wants to shower together???

Have you've reach the "COMFORTABLE ZONE" in your relationship too? What have you and ur bf/gf done?

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Posted 08 April 2009 - 07:36 PM

Well...Err does my gf farting on me count as comfortable? tongue.gif
She does it all the time now, she use to be so shy.

But yeah we swear and cuss at each other a lot now but we get over it. We fight and make up sometimes it gets really bad. Sometimes you just say stuff without thinking and you instantly regret it.
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Posted 08 April 2009 - 10:44 PM

My bf and i would never ever cuss at each other.
Even if i get mad, i dont think i can ever bring myself to cuss at him..although it might happen. Hope not though.

Honestly, i'm not really 100% comfortable with my bf yet.
We'll get there eventually lol

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Posted 09 April 2009 - 01:00 AM

We never cuss at eachother, but we're more blunt with eachother... so if he wears or does something I don't like, I'd tell him, and vice versa.
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Posted 09 April 2009 - 01:16 AM

Erm........... walk around the house naked? >_>

QUOTE (Tuxedomask @ Apr 9 2009, 04:36 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well...Err does my gf farting on me count as comfortable? tongue.gif
She does it all the time now, she use to be so shy.

But yeah we swear and cuss at each other a lot now but we get over it. We fight and make up sometimes it gets really bad. Sometimes you just say stuff without thinking and you instantly regret it.



I'm not sure if she'd appreciate you telling the internet that
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Posted 09 April 2009 - 01:19 AM

I cuss at my boyfriend. When we get into an argument, a lot of cursing goes on. It's normal. When we first started going out, we would never argue. Now we do, haha. We get eachother really riled up then we just make up after. I never used to eat infront of my boyfriend, I used to be shy and always avoid it. But now I do, haha. I don't really care. >___<;;
He reaally disrespects me now. Well not really, disrespect... but he doesn't respect my interests as much as he did. Obviously he did when we first started going out or I would've dropped him right away, now-a-days he does it all the time, but he says he's just winding me up... which he is... cause I get really protective of my interests. x)
So yeah basically we just annoy eachother now-a-days but we would've never did that first going out. x))

But the love is there.
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Posted 09 April 2009 - 10:53 AM

Me and my bf are very, VERY comfortable around each other. Maybe a little tooooo comfortable. We've gone thru so much...I've hit and cussed at him (all though I have gotten a little it better), broke his drawers, almost break his xbox..etc (I'm not bragging!). I fart, I burp, walk around naked. (I use to be very insecure about my body and what not) tongue.gif
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Posted 09 April 2009 - 11:02 AM

Very comfortable lol wink.gif !!!
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Posted 09 April 2009 - 11:07 AM

I curse at him when we argue... yes xD, but he never does though. We've been together for 2 1/2 years now, and yes we have gotten really comfortable around each other, but not to that extent. We still respect each other and treat each other like we're supposed to.
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Posted 09 April 2009 - 11:13 AM

QUOTE (sukixyume @ Apr 9 2009, 03:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I curse at him when we argue... yes xD, but he never does though. We've been together for 2 1/2 years now, and yes we have gotten really comfortable around each other, but not to that extent. We still respect each other and treat each other like we're supposed to.

Not to be a contrarian, but why do you curse at him? That doesn't seem very respectful at all.
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Posted 09 April 2009 - 12:35 PM

He cuss at me once before and he felt real bad afterwards.
I let it slide cause I knew he was being mad and childish with his brother.
Either than that one time, we never cuss at eachother. That's just too disrespectful to one another.
We're very comfy around eachother.
We can do anything in front of one another.
Only thing I wish he'd keep to himself is his bathroom stories and how great he feels afterward. lol

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Posted 09 April 2009 - 04:55 PM

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years...I say around 6 months, is when I was very comfortable around him. I guess because around 6 months, he really started to like me a lot (cause I liked him first).

Now we fight like crazy (cussing each other out)...I have a potty mouth and so is he...so it's normal that we cuss each other.=/

We are a crazy couple=p
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Posted 09 April 2009 - 05:27 PM


He poops while I'm in the shower... LOL!
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Posted 09 April 2009 - 06:15 PM

wow. We're realllyy comfortable with each other! hehe. Its kinda gross =_= he picks his nose in the car when he's driving....in MY car.. and I use to don't cry in front of him, but now i always do =___=..and Sometimes we argue in public and i start crying and stuff..

*Sigh well the good stuffs are that we just love to play around with each other...

But there's just one thing about myself that I can't bring to tell him ... YET.. and we've been together for 17 months....
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Posted 09 April 2009 - 06:27 PM

mmmm...my bf & i never curse at each other. i cry when i'm talking to him whenever i need to, gotten over that stage where you feel weird eating in front of him, uhhh idk just joke around & be my true crazy self which a LOT of ppl haven't seen hahaaa
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Posted 09 April 2009 - 09:51 PM

too comfortable. the farting, burping, using the bathroom together like one showering and the other on the toilet lol and calling each other stupid names like f*ckface...crying in front of each other is normal too.
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Posted 10 April 2009 - 05:39 AM

well im a newly wed =P
and yes it comes to that time when ur so
commfortable with each other is sometimes
gross but funny but u get use to it~ i mean
when u first start dating and everything and ur all
shy - u dont actually express the real u~ that probs
comes after a year. but now im mairred
me and my hubby are like brothers ROFL, farting, burping
yelling, all the things married couples doo

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Posted 10 April 2009 - 06:28 PM

haha i guess i don't really care...
as long as i don't do anything stupid...
haha!
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Posted 10 April 2009 - 11:38 PM

me & my boyfriend are super comfortable with each other. i think i may be more comfortable than he is. and i've never been this way before. i burp, fart, pick my nose, pluck my armpit hair in front of him (not to mention, make him pluck em too!) haha. he also massages my feet ^__^ haha he usually just laughs but when i tell my friends they look at him like "wtf are you doing?! you let her do that?!" but when we fight or whatever, we're not the type to cuss and stuff. but i'm comfortable enough to cry in front of him. and pinkberry and nag and whine. and trust me, i do that a lot. oh well. it's love.
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Posted 11 April 2009 - 12:24 AM

i'm very comfortable with my boyfriend.
at first we were incredibly shy, and i think..
we would think of holding hands as like OMGOMGOMGOMG.

now he just tells me that he needs to fart or poo. :|
i don't think i've ever farted near him before though. >>;

but we're both comfortable with being naked and just chillin.
and we like to take showers together, etc etc.

humm.. we've been dating for over a year.
idk how many months plus the year. but yeah. biggrin.gif


i don't cuss at him or call him mean names.
we just call each other weird names sometimes.
he never cusses at me.
i think we would both feel sad if we cussed at each other. >>;
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