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Did You Ever Feel Left Out, Ugly, Useless? Not a happy feeling...

#1 User is offline   Cuteminiwaffles 

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Posted 09 April 2009 - 08:46 PM


Seriously.
Sometimes I look at all my friends and they always have boyfriends,
or someone who has a crush on them. While me no one, and never.
They always talk about there first kiss, or there first whatever.
I can never relate. I'm the only Asian at my school...
maybe that has something to do with it...
or thought maybe i am just ugly
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Ever feel like that?
You wonder how come no one choses you?
I was feel like the third wheel, and I'm always known as just a "friend"
a useless friend.
Or have a really low self-esteem?
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#2 User is offline   kirra12 

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Posted 09 April 2009 - 08:52 PM

you are the only asian? o.0 wow ur school is so... hmm... unbelievable?
like really. these days, at least there are 2 / 3 races in every class even,
back to the main topic..

i've often felt left out, both in real life and in cyber life,

just several days ago, i was talking to my classmate, but she was talking to several of our other classmates that she knows beforehand,
and i dont know them, (just know them by name) and it got awkward for me to say sth. V.V
till now it wud go awkward due to the first impression. somehow i dont feel like sitting with this classmate anymore (thou we've been together for 2 classes) cuz i dont feel comfortable talking to these frens (especially this one racist classmate. D: what an annoying girl)

cyberspace.. Im not the kind of person who wud start to praise people just for the sake of getting more .. known,
so many times i wud get left out. V.V

this kind of feeling happens to me a lot of times
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Posted 09 April 2009 - 08:59 PM

Yeah, I get this feeling often too. But i learn to live with it and get over it. It be like "all because you guys don't talk to me, it doesn't mean i can't talk to myself." wacko.gif You know your true friends, would not care about looks and they wouldn't be your friend if you're useless right? And you feel left out...well just try to include yourself. My advice is easier said then done right? mellow.gif
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#4 User is offline   Cuteminiwaffles 

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Posted 09 April 2009 - 09:01 PM

Yup im the only asian.
at least the only asian who actually looks asian!
there filipinos, but they don't look asian at all! O_O''
i look more oriental so everyone picks on me.
it is not a happy feeling >___>
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#5 User is offline   namu_29 

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Posted 10 April 2009 - 12:59 AM

I know how you feel on more than one level

I was one of four asians in my school
The only asian girl in my grade class and there was one asian boy

i was the quiet kid and i didn't really mind it for the most part, but yea, at times it got really hard
especially when my closest friend was much prettier, outgoing and many boys liked her
even she turned out to be a not so great friend in the end...
the only thing i was good for to most people was copying answers off of, that's all
and the only times i was ever asked out....: twice because of a bet and once because of a dare (though thankfully i knew about them before hand and wasn't made a...complete idiot... -__-)

I could go on for so long about this sort of thing, but I won't bother you with it
Believe me, I know it sucks. And some days it gets really really hard. But eventually it does get better, even if only after high school's done and over with
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Posted 10 April 2009 - 08:01 AM

QUOTE (namu_29 @ Apr 10 2009, 01:59 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I know how you feel on more than one level

I was one of four asians in my school
The only asian girl in my grade class and there was one asian boy

i was the quiet kid and i didn't really mind it for the most part, but yea, at times it got really hard
especially when my closest friend was much prettier, outgoing and many boys liked her
even she turned out to be a not so great friend in the end...
the only thing i was good for to most people was copying answers off of, that's all
and the only times i was ever asked out....: twice because of a bet and once because of a dare (though thankfully i knew about them before hand and wasn't made a...complete idiot... -__-)

I could go on for so long about this sort of thing, but I won't bother you with it
Believe me, I know it sucks. And some days it gets really really hard. But eventually it does get better, even if only after high school's done and over with


ahh... finally someone who knows what its like.
In high school did it get better?
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Posted 10 April 2009 - 09:10 AM

u r the only asian?! o_O
god my school is FULL of asians o_o
loll i dont care if i dont have a boyfriend
because i dont WANT a boyfriend

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Posted 10 April 2009 - 09:31 AM

yesh.
once in a while...
agreed.. not a very good feeling sad.gif
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Posted 10 April 2009 - 10:49 PM

QUOTE (Lavender.Sky @ Apr 10 2009, 09:10 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
u r the only asian?! o_O
god my school is FULL of asians o_o
loll i dont care if i dont have a boyfriend
because i dont WANT a boyfriend



lets switch xD
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Posted 10 April 2009 - 10:53 PM

Yeah there are no asians at my school either (But, i'm a male and white)

But yeah, I know what you mean. I don't really WANT a girlfriend because I usually get the clinggggggggggggggggy type, who are secretly serial killers, ya know?

I get ditched alot sad.gif


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Posted 10 April 2009 - 11:09 PM

Haha, who doesn't? I get those days too. But hey, you gotta get through it right?

Today is not one of them for me though. tongue.gif
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Posted 11 April 2009 - 05:40 AM

Yeah, I often feel this way =/
.. the funny thing is, that I often feel this way,
when many good friends are around and there´s absolutely no reason why I do so o.O..


QUOTE (Vivid @ Apr 11 2009, 01:53 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
But yeah, I know what you mean. I don't really WANT a girlfriend because I usually get the
clinggggggggggggggggy type, who are secretly serial killers, ya know?

that´s creepy tongue.gif

The thing with the only-person-with-no-boyfriend is really.. ..it´s not funny >.>
But don´t put yourself under to much pressure and think about it in another way!
Thinking like that only makes you feel worse (:

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Posted 11 April 2009 - 05:45 AM

that happened to me alot last year when my best friend decided she didn't want to hang out with anymore....
it was the worst year in school..because she took all my other friends on her side...making rumors about me that were not true... tears.gif tears.gif tears.gif
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Posted 11 April 2009 - 06:13 AM

I've always felt left out when I was in high school. We're used to be three in our group, and sometimes my friends would talk about stuff without including me. I remember getting upset and them getting mad at me for feeling that way. But after awhile I learned to just get over it. I'm sure they weren't doing it on purpose. Like you, they would get boyfriends and I wouldn't.. I wasn't too upset with that stuff, though. Their boyfriends were all jerks and wouldn't treat them well. So, why would I be upset, right? I'd rather be single than go out with someone who would just take me for granted.
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Posted 11 April 2009 - 06:22 AM

i can kinda understand what you are going through :/
besides being the only asian in your school part. 1/3 of my class is asian >>" dont evn talk abt how many in the school --'
but i always feel that i fail at everything.
i dont meet my friends expectations, i dont meet my parents expectations, i dont meet my tutor's expectations.
heck, i dont even meet my own expectations.
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Posted 11 April 2009 - 06:42 AM

I know the feeling tears.gif
It kinda makes me feel lonely sometimes when I see a couple, but a boyfriend may not be the best answer for me sometimes. sweatingbullets.gif I'm doing just fine without one
The thing that makes me feel REALLy useless is in school when many of my friends sitting nest to me want me to sit somewhere else so they can talk to the person sitting on my other side. And then throughtout the whole class I'm a lil loner in a corner tears.gif
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Posted 11 April 2009 - 07:23 AM

rofl, i've been the third wheel over countless times LOL, then i get hated for being the retarded atmosphere breaker =x

well... u being the only asian in the skool kinda sux.. =/ o well just have to try mix in with the culture o-o n no need to have low self esteem cuz sadness only brings in more sadness.
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Posted 11 April 2009 - 08:28 AM

Yeah, and I talked to a friend of mine and she assured me that, my friends wanted me around.
She's a lovely girl. =]
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Posted 11 April 2009 - 01:18 PM

Noo .. not really .
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Posted 11 April 2009 - 01:38 PM

a ha ~ i'm getting this feeling ~
tell you the truth , i don't think i'm too ugly
but no one is interested in me = ="
yeah! so now i've already ignored and think like it might be not my chance now dry.gif
haha~ don't worry be happy smile.gif

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