Borderline Behaviour In Relationships

Borderline Behaviour In Relationships When is it crossing the line?

#1 pinkgirlblueboy

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Posted 16 April 2009 - 06:54 AM

Me and my friends were just discussing what kind of things are unacceptable/non acceptable when you're in a relationship.

For example, if a girl had a bf but this other guy was feeding her food off his spoon. Is that crossing the line?

#2 MNLV27

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Posted 16 April 2009 - 08:48 AM

Lets just say that the things that you wouldn't want your bf/gf to do with other people, you shouldn't do.
Everyone has different opinions on what's crossing the line in the relationship..

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Posted 16 April 2009 - 11:33 AM

QUOTE (adore_linda @ Apr 16 2009, 10:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Lets just say that the things that you wouldn't want your bf/gf to do with other people, you shouldn't do.
Everyone has different opinions on what's crossing the line in the relationship..

yup well said and i totally agree.

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#4 SKINNY_GENES

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Posted 16 April 2009 - 11:54 AM

if you feel guilty about it, you're crossing the line.

#5 1luvItsRAIN

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Posted 16 April 2009 - 04:06 PM

my friend n her bf have all these stupid restrictions, it gets really ridiculous, like cant share food + drinks wit pplz, cant hug friends, etc., etc. it just gets worse n worse so i dun wanna meantion it lol.
but i don't think restrictions r neccessary unless u get too close to another person, then ya its bad

#6 ShadowMax76

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Posted 16 April 2009 - 05:26 PM

bleh. i'm over the jealousy thing. most girls i wanted were really playful with guys. it's not a part of them i want to take away.

you can do anything you want with other guys , as long as you don't like them in that way.

as well as knowing that it'd be cruel to tease guys that like you. :]
_ x_X' and no usurping affection from guys in a manipulative way. as if you're sucking dry any insect that gets caught in your web of attraction. _ i don't like cruel girls . D:
edit. and no rubbing relationships with other guys in my face. >_>" that's cruel too.

#7 Pogichinoy

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Posted 16 April 2009 - 05:46 PM

If you find something that you expect your s/o to not do, then you simply don't do it yourself.

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Posted 16 April 2009 - 07:45 PM

If the guy lays the hand on a the girl...that's crossing the line.

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Posted 17 April 2009 - 11:26 PM

I thought you were refering to the personality disorder.

I think the borderline is whatever you're comfortable with in the relationship. Let's say if YOUR boyfriend were to feed another girl, how would YOU feel? If the feeling isn't so nice, then you shouldn't do it. The borderline is whatever you're comfortable with with your significant other doing. Always consider his/her feelings - if you know that it would bother them then don't do it or if you know that they were to do the same thing and you know it would bother you, then you shouldn't do it either.