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Your Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Comes Back To You after a couple of years? ever happen to you??

#1 User is offline   Aloe 

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Posted 18 April 2009 - 10:39 AM

So my ex and I liked each other since 8th grade now we are both sophomores in college.
We dated from 10th grade to 11th and then we broke up. We started talking to each other
more often than we have in previous yearsand he has given me kisses on the lips but we
never mention it to not be awkward about it?
So I was wondering...if any of you have had things happen like this?
were you and your ex broke up and then he comes back again and is trying to be with
you maybe??

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#2 User is offline   hishari 

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Posted 18 April 2009 - 12:34 PM

Yes. An ex is an ex for a reason and they should stay that way.
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#3 User is offline   bipolar{polarbear} 

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Posted 18 April 2009 - 12:49 PM

Your situation is similar to mine... except I can't see her anymore. You guys are lucky that you still have some sort of chance to work things out. I didn't get that chance.
let's all not give a crap and see if someone cares . . .
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#4 User is offline   MiiCKYO0CHUNx3 

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Posted 18 April 2009 - 12:58 PM

QUOTE (bipolar{polarbear} @ Apr 18 2009, 03:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Your situation is similar to mine... except I can't see her anymore. You guys are lucky that you still have some sort of chance to work things out. I didn't get that chance.


that sounds just like the situation my sister's in! coincidence right?

I agree with hishari on this one. Unless you're in some sort of korean drama where the parents seperate you guys and all that good stuff.
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#5 User is offline   IlikeChicken 

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Posted 18 April 2009 - 02:11 PM

Seriously..All my exes were freaks and betchez

Not going back. And thank god it hasnt happened..yet..
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Posted 19 April 2009 - 07:51 PM

Well i think if its meant to be, then its meant to be.
My friend dated his first gf when he was like 16 and then they got busted so they broke up.
They both dated other people during that break period.
After a year or something they started talking and now theyre together
6yrs+

so sometimes it can work out?
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Posted 19 April 2009 - 09:44 PM

QUOTE (white_shadow @ Apr 19 2009, 08:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well i think if its meant to be, then its meant to be.
so sometimes it can work out?

i agree :] if its meant to be, then its meant to be.
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#8 User is offline   Aloe 

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Posted 19 April 2009 - 10:09 PM

QUOTE (white_shadow @ Apr 19 2009, 09:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well i think if its meant to be, then its meant to be.



Word. That's what I'm thinking. I guess as time goes on everything will come to a conclusion.

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#9 User is offline   MaliceInWonderlandx 

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Posted 19 April 2009 - 10:56 PM

i'm sure it happens to some people.
i honestly hope it never happens to me cuz
the thought of getting back together with my loser ex is ughh
just try and remember why you guys broke up in the first place
and don't become blind to spontaneous feelings.
i hope i make sense
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Posted 20 April 2009 - 12:30 AM

QUOTE (michikosashimi @ Apr 20 2009, 12:44 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i agree :] if its meant to be, then its meant to be.

Sometimes, that line of thinking isn't exactly fair. -sigh- You'd be surprised at how slow things hit even when they're moving so fast. At that moment you wish time would just slow down, because you know you've made a mistake. I just never thought I would continue to regret it. Time doesn't heal all, you just forget because you're only human.

QUOTE (MiiCKYO0CHUNx3 @ Apr 18 2009, 03:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
that sounds just like the situation my sister's in! coincidence right?

I agree with hishari on this one. Unless you're in some sort of korean drama where the parents seperate you guys and all that good stuff.

It would be great if your sister was the girl I'm in love with. I just haven't been able to move on at all. And it wasn't her parents choice...at least I don't think so. I think she just chose to finish college back in her home state. I wish I knew how she was doing.
let's all not give a crap and see if someone cares . . .
modern life is depressing.
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#11 User is offline   Aloe 

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Posted 20 April 2009 - 05:50 AM

QUOTE (bipolar{polarbear} @ Apr 20 2009, 02:30 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I think she just chose to finish college back in her home state. I wish I knew how she was doing.


how did you lose contact of her? or was that an agreement to stop talking to each other?
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Posted 20 April 2009 - 06:13 AM

QUOTE (Aloe @ Apr 20 2009, 08:50 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
how did you lose contact of her? or was that an agreement to stop talking to each other?

I ended things on a bad note, and we just never contacted each other. After a month, I tried to write her letters and send her flowers (At the time my cell phone was broken so I wasn't able to call her). But she never responded to me.
let's all not give a crap and see if someone cares . . .
modern life is depressing.
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#13 User is offline   jaeka 

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Posted 20 April 2009 - 12:41 PM

That happened with me!

Me and my boyfriend were going out from like, year 8 to year 10.. or so, and we broke up. then we started talking again. then he accidentally kissed me. (well, we both kissed.. haha!) then we just got back with eachother, haha. we've been together for 9 months since then. I think we just needed it to do some growing up. We're happily together again~
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#14 User is offline   Aloe 

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Posted 20 April 2009 - 12:54 PM

Jaeka, I am glad yours turn out okay!
yes when people who date at a young age, they really don't know what they are doing
but like you've said we all grow up and we use what we have learned from our past mistakes
and make it better. I hope mine turns to getting back together eventually if not, then it was not meant to be.
Glad to know at least one couple made it work smile.gif
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