[InfiniteTime]

So guys have told me before that they search constantly for that kinda girl. So technically who or what is that kinda girl made of? I mean THAT kinda girl, lets be realistic guys. No one's perfect. I have been told that it's either that the girl is not fat enough, not skinny enough, not tall enough, not short enough, her eyes are too chinky lalala you get the picture. So lets be realistic everyone; GUYS describe that kinda girl you are looking for and GIRLS if you were a guy what kinda girl would you go after?


Oh yah, lets be realistic.






Edited; Well yah everyone wants cute, yada yada but lets go in dept yah? How about I answer this question myself.


For me, I want a girl who is just satisfied with herself in general. Doesn't constantly look at others for example to improve herself. Because I've figured that girls look at others in ways to improve themselves (I'm a girl too). Yah I really hate the fact that people change themselves to satisfy the needs of another person.

[Tuxedomask]

Too picky?

Have you seen the "short&small Guys.. Would You Give Them A Chance Girls? " or "Girls what's your ideal guy" or "Tanned or Pale guys" thread at all? haha...

Some girl even actually said she liked Pale looking guys because the tanned guys look like they don't wash -.-

But back to you're question.

She has to have a nice smile and be intelligent. That's really all I look for...oh and being cute is an added bonus. I don't care if she's short or tall. I'm not so worried about the tall part since I'm 6'1 already. I don't care if she asian, white or black or dark or pale or tanned. I don't care if she's poor and can't afford nice clothes because I'll buy her nice clothes and I'll pay for every meal as long as she smiles.

That's all I look for and I'm sure a lot of guys would agree with me. We don't care about pale or tanned skinned girls.

[ParappaRappa]

well, i'm a girl

but if i was a guy, i'm guessin i'd probably go after the cute, outgoing ones who are naturally pretty (no makeup)

LOL thats more of what i wish i was XD

[plegend2007]

I thought I knew what I wanted in a girl, but I ended up breaking-up with that girl and now she is my ex.

But then, I met someone who was different out of the blue from what I normally date, find out that we have the same mindset, have things in common, and now she is my current gf, loving every moment.

So what I am trying to say is that, you never know, it's funny how things just turn out the way they do.


HI BOO

[mrskaneshiro]

I want a girl who will laugh for no one else.

When I'm away she puts her makeup on the shelf.

When I'm away she never leaves the house.

I want a girl who laughs for no one else!

And if you see her, tell her it's over NOW

[screamxlove]

Someone awesome like myself.

Lols, jkay.


Anyway mmm...


Someone intelligent - has the ability to hold an intellectual conversation.
Someone independent - c'mon, seriously. Who wants a girl who's so clingy and relies on you for EVERYTHING?
Someone with common sense - fo'sho.
Someone who's well-rounded.
Talented. Musician (I'm a musician, so dur). Funny. Creative.
Not a pushover. Beautiful inside/personality. Kind. Caring.
Confident in herself.

Lol it's like describing a guy only... as a girl haha.

[junsujunsu]

well, im a girl...but whatever

i think girls who have round cat like eyes, like its slanted a little bit but big and round ( like sohee) but double lidded and her eyes should always have a sparkle in it ( i guess kinda watery?).....and the white part of her eyes should be really white, and it'd be nice if she had light brown eyes...She should be asian...and have a high nose but small...like a delicate nose, not like a promienent witch nose, min hyo rin's nose xD.....and small pink lips, like small but slightly thick lips xD, and white, smooth, flawless skin no blackheads, no pimples, no oil, no eye bags, sohee's body, long long legs and kinda of curvy, but slim at the same time....nice, silky black hair that's loosely curled, and she should have a small but round face like mandoo xD....she should be able to sing, joke, be independent but dependent at the same time....and be dorky, but smart xD....yeah, i ask for alot, probably even more than boys do. That's like a perfect girl to me.

[Lie]

I think about 30% of it is physical (i.e. is she beautiful? which is largely relative), about 70% of being that girl to a guy is the way you deal with him. This sounds cynical, but in almost every case I've seen, the girl a guy wants the most is the girl he feels like he can't have completely. He might date her, he might marry her, but there's this bit of her (usually because there's some part of her that's emotionally-distant and cannot be grasped completely) that he can never truly possess, and will always chase. This also feeds into the idea that she's somehow better than him or out of his league, which perpetually makes her feel like a tremendous catch to him. He's grateful for every minute he has with her.

I've dated a lot, but only met that girl once in my life.

[secretlyjustyours]

I don't care if she asian, white or black or dark or pale or tanned. I don't care if she's poor and can't afford nice clothes because I'll buy her nice clothes and I'll pay for every meal as long as she smiles.

the part where you said you'd pay for every meal as long as she smiles is the cutest thing i ever heard LOL

oh and the perfect girl would be:

someone who is naturally pretty (no makeup), unselfish, friendly to everyone, intelligent, and passionate.

[BAM♥BI]

Men want a girl whose a lady on the street and a freak in the sheets. Hahahaa.

Okay, on a more serious note..

I've been told that guys like girls who are naturally pretty, and cute yet sexy?
Most guys don't mind if a girl is short. They also like girls who have confidence, but
ones who are overly conceited and stick their heads up high wherever they go.

[elperro]

i always imagine what kind of girl i'd be attracted to if i were either a man or a lesbian. i think i'd like the quirky kinds of girls, the not so conventional ones. the ones that ARE pretty but are not typically pretty according to societal standards. they don't usually follow fashion trends but have their own unique style.. or sometimes it seems that they don't even care or is apathetic to it all. but of course they won't let their appearances go askew. like.. i saw a girl on a bike with glasses, and she seemed kinda dorky, but was very pretty. what's funny is that i'm the opposite of those types of girls, at least on the surface. i'm into fashion and would probably seem like a superficial diva to people, but i relate to those non conventional girls.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

For me, I want a girl who is just satisfied with herself in general. Doesn't constantly look at others for example to improve herself. Because I've figured that girls look at others in ways to improve themselves (I'm a girl too). Yah I really hate the fact that people change themselves to satisfy the needs of another person.

Er, okay, you are a girl.
What makes you think you are the same like guys?

I just don't get it. People can't say "if I were a guy" or "if I were a girl"
Those just doesn't work. guys and girls have different minds, you can't assume you're a guy lol.

Well yah everyone wants cute, yada yada but lets go in dept yah? How about I answer this question myself.

I think this is one example. Guys say we want cute and pretty girls. Of course, that is very vague, WHAT IS CUTE AND PRETTY? thing is, that is not something many can explain imo. maybe to you girls, that answer is not good enough. but for us guys, that is the answer, we can't get into more detail....

a girl may use circle eye lens and she is pretty.
another girl might not use it and she is prettier than the other girl.

It's not something you can go into detail lol. That's why I never understand why girls/guys can assume they are the opposite sex, because clearly they have different minds.

I think what people tend to do if asked about what is considered pretty/hot by them is they picture their favourite artists.
of course, we can say all those, good body, Korean, pale skin, circle eye lens, bla bla bla and all those useless stuff. But there will be people who are pretty without those features.
So IMO it's too difficult to go into details of what is considered pretty/cute.

Unlike girls, who can define personality, for example-must be humorous. I see every girl wants that in the other thread lol.
For guys... unfortunately... we can't define pretty lol....
Okay at least I can't, I don't have a right to generalize, but it's just my opinion.


As for the question... of course I want a pretty xD
And funny, and also nice (not bean pie/slutty or whatever, doesn't swear too much, etc), and smart. Maybe don't need to be as smart as me (don't want to be cocky, but I'm pretty smart) but as long as she is not some lazy girl who doesn't care about school then it's all good
last but not least, I hate lazy girls. Like those who get money without working. Well I can't say much since I'm too lazy to work as well, but oh well, I still hate lazy girls. Ones that go to mall or city or whatever EVERY SINGLE DAY. jeez, looks like they aren't welcomed at home.

I hate it to the max when girls don't care about school or more worse a drop out.

[imhitomi]

I was a guy, I'd go for someone who is very confident. I wouldn't want to hear any of that "I think I need to lose 5 lb." or "Do you think she's prettier than me?" A girl should have an attitude that she's the hottest thing on the world without having to say anything about. So... confident but not self-centered.
A girl who'd make you feel special, like you are the only person she could ever want. She should be comfortable with herself and be realistic about relationships in general. And I wouldn't want a princess-type girl. She should have some girly qualities, but it'd be much more fun to have a girl who would just hang out with you and joke around.

[colloquy]

To be realistic, most boys ideally want a beautiful woman that cooks and cleans, nod to everything they ask them and stroke their ego.

[simplicit]

Too picky?

Have you seen the "short&small Guys.. Would You Give Them A Chance Girls? " or "Girls what's your ideal guy" or "Tanned or Pale guys" thread at all? haha...

Some girl even actually said she liked Pale looking guys because the tanned guys look like they don't wash -.-

But back to you're question.

She has to have a nice smile and be intelligent. That's really all I look for...oh and being cute is an added bonus. I don't care if she's short or tall. I'm not so worried about the tall part since I'm 6'1 already. I don't care if she asian, white or black or dark or pale or tanned. I don't care if she's poor and can't afford nice clothes because I'll buy her nice clothes and I'll pay for every meal as long as she smiles.

That's all I look for and I'm sure a lot of guys would agree with me. We don't care about pale or tanned skinned girls.

that's the best answer i read on this topic so far.

[YESUNGHWAITING!]

A girl who's herself. Not trying to be someone else and doesn't care if someone doesn't like her, won't change for anyone. Only changes for herself. A girl who is honest and pure. A girl who says what's on her mind and knows how to make you feel good inside and out. A girl who makes me smile and laugh. A girl to be strong for me when I can't be strong for myself. A girl that's worth missing. A girl that's worth loving.

I'm a girl.
But if I was a guy, that's what I would want.
That's what I want my fellow women to be.

[Poop-Shoop-A-Loop]

This thread is very similar to the Ideal guy/Ideal girl threads.