[bonjour tristesse.]

who in here is scared of being committed to a s/o?

iono, i wanted to bring this topic up in here. for me, im not scared of it. whether its still keeping the fire going even if he's moving to getting married. well of course, getting married has a greater amount of thought (and im still too young, lmao. just an example ) .. im not scared. sure there's the responsibility of it and such and such but are you afraid to try it? i know a lot of people who are awfully scared of little commitments and i wander why they are ..

whats your thoughts on this?

[VOGUEx]

i'm afraidd of commitment! heh..prob cause i don't really trust people..think they will Fck me over.

[supa'Wanki]

I cannot commit. I just cant.

[Aloe]

I'm not really scared of commitment but I do not want one right now because
I want to focus in school, and just have not met someone that makes me be with them.
I guess the whole breaking up thing because it will happen. I would be up for
seeing each other but no commitment...if that makes sense...

[ny-sw / ny_sw.]

I realized after 8 boyfriends.. I can't commit unless if it's the right person. :/
I'm not afraid of committing, but I just don't want to waste my time with someone who's not.. right for me, na mean?
I just sit and think of really nitpicky things about them that bother me until I don't like them anymore.

[Elee]

i'd like to have a commitment but not gonna deny it, im afraid to have commitments. because IM usually the one who hurts the other person =/ when its the other way around my whole world just falls apart (lol. so dramatic). but yeahhhh. my two cents on this

[Lie]

Not sure how I feel about it. Sometimes it makes me uncomfortable, other times I'm okay with it.