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#1 User is offline   ilovetosing 

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Posted 20 April 2009 - 12:57 PM

Well ok, Im in high school this is my 3rd year of high school.
OK! I don't know what to say. I'm scared of karma.
There this one guy that asked me out about a year ago and I never responded back to him. Now, I starting to have feeling for him now. should I apologize to him and now tell him how I feel now... Or should we just be friends? IDK soompier what do you guys think??? blush.gif
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Posted 20 April 2009 - 01:03 PM

QUOTE (ilovetosing @ Apr 20 2009, 02:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well ok, Im in high school this is my 3rd year of high school.
OK! I don't know what to say. I'm scared of karma.
There this one guy that asked me out about a year ago and I never responded back to him. Now, I starting to have feeling for him now. should I apologize to him and now tell him how I feel now... Or should we just be friends? IDK soompier what do you guys think??? blush.gif


... You never gave him an answer and he just let it go? That's kind of harsh. Are you guys close friends right now? If not, he may not be too happy with the way you just left him hanging. Any more details on how close you guys are right now?
QUOTE (chopstick^^ @ Apr 7 2009, 03:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
well, u sound unreasonble, so i dnt care wot u say.

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Posted 20 April 2009 - 02:28 PM

I wouldn't expect him to return your feelings. I mean, look at his from his point of view. He liked you. You didn't even reject him. You flat out ignored him. IMO, being ignored is worse than being rejected.
I mean, what's changed that you suddenly like him now? If you really liked him for who he was, you probably would have given him a chance then.
Forget it. You wasted your chance.

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#4 User is offline   AHLEENA 

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Posted 20 April 2009 - 02:31 PM

well, just apologize. and tell him you like him now.
but remember that there's a bigger chance that he might not feel the same way anymore.

but yeah,

you never know until you try =)
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Posted 20 April 2009 - 02:33 PM

well just like you said.
it's been a year ago since he had feelings to you and you ignored it just like that.
and now.. after a year, you have feelings for him.
well, you might want to try to talk to him about this and that.
.. it depends on him. whether he still like you .. or not anymore ;d

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Posted 20 April 2009 - 03:19 PM

I have the same exact problem, but now it seems like he like someone else. i wanted to tell him how i felt before but i guess even if i did now, i'll just get hurt.
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Posted 20 April 2009 - 03:24 PM

just give it a shot.
if he rejects you, you probably know why.
but you shouldn't feel bad about it, b/c you didn't have feelings for him at the time

&even if he does reject you, it doesn't mean you should give up immediately!
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Posted 20 April 2009 - 03:39 PM


A year ago?
hmmm, honestly if its been that LONGGGGG he probably has his eyes on someone else already, i mean
i year is a long time to be ignored, i dont want to be negative but he's probably given up on you?
but you could give it a shot? MAYBE he still likes you. I think you should apologize? if you are going to tell him you like him, i mean he might get annoyed and blow you off thinking "WHAT?! she only likes me now...", a year is a long time after all. Dont have too high expectations.
But i hope it goes well for you (:
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